i'm arguing that it isn't the case that a traditional family structure is better than any other loving home to raise a child in.
i'm arguing that any loving home - be it grandparents or two gay men or whoever - has just as much of a chance to produce a good human as a loving home headed by a man and a woman.
you're saying that's not the case, but you have nothing to go on other than links to articles that don't support your theory and anecdotal evidence. you also are arguing that society started to decline after the 60s and i'm giving you examples of how, for the vast majority of people, life is better now than it was then and how the american ideal in the heads of old people like yourself didn't actually exist at that time.
you're just an old idiot that can't accept you're wrong, life has passed you by, the overton window has shifted and you're insignificant.