Look, you have the right to vote, work, be educated, and we aren't allowed to slap you on the ass in the workplace anymore. You are even starting to get fat girls in advertisements. No one is preventing you from doing anything, and if you want some help without paying for it you can always pull the damsel in distress routine. What more do you want? To be able to reach the top shelf and unload the cases of water from the trunk when you get home from the grocery store? Quit your bullshit empowerment bitching.