
Originally Posted by
Ker_Thwap
I am thinking you had issues as a child and are projecting your insecurity here. Properly coached, each child is involved in every play in the game, feels they have contributed, supported their teammates, respected their competitors, and win or lose they enjoy playing the game. It's the little fundamental things that matter. It's the "I got your back" system; bad throw, not to worry, it didn't cost us that much. Game ball often went to the one who backed up a routine grounder and saved a run. Not just to the one kid with the talent.
Having seen coaches that just mailed in the effort, their teams were often disinterested and ended up sniping at each other during and after the game. Good game, good effort! Except that the kids were all pissed and didn't want to be there.
Neither of my daughters pitched, but they both hustled, and one of them could hit well. In six years of coaching in two leagues, we got one (all star) team to 2nd in the state, and one (normal) to first, where they went to the regionals and got flattened by one of those crazy teams that video taped their opponents and had film sessions. Mostly they were just .500 teams that had fun.