Quote Originally Posted by Neveragain View Post
Had I been living with my grandparents during my teen years it would have been a free for all. He literally killed his grandmother over a cell phone. The grandfather said he had no idea that his grandson had purchased weapons.

Show me a teenager that lives with their grandparents and I'll show you total disfunction.
this is completely anecdotal and you're making a ton of assumptions. firstly, that parents are always better suited to raise a child then anyone else, like grandparents. this is unequivocally untrue. some people have extremely fucked up parents and are better off being raised by anyone else.

secondly, just because you don't know any examples of someone being raised by their grandparents who isn't a fuck up doesn't mean that is the case always, but i know you know that.

the issue here has nothing to do with this kid living with his grandparents.