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Having your grandparents watch your toddler, doesn’t lower the price of daycare, the price stays the same.
I could pay $700 a month for daycare where I have strangers watching my children.. or I could pay $0 to my parents to watch my children.
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Imagine your grandparents, want to go on holiday, get sick, imagine they have to go to the hospital, or don’t want to be a full time parent again, raising a kid, then what? Back to daycare, and guess what? Daycare still cost the same as it did before. Offsetting what you spend, doesn’t lower the price. Daycare is still going to cost the same.
I've never been in your shoes where your parent doesn't enjoy being around your kids.... so I'll have to take your word for it. My parents and my wife's parents always pestered us to have my kids over... as I will be doing when my own kids have their children. My wife's dream would be to care for our grandkids.
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Why are you putting YOUR responsibility on your parents? It’s YOUR kid, it’s YOUR job. If you parents want to help once in a while, that’s fine. But to expect them to take care of your kid long and often enough, is silly.
On top of that, now you are forcing your grandparents to follow you around, wherever your family goes for work, etc? Or you are going to limit yourself by having to stay close to where your parents live? Really?
You got a job offer in Dallas, your family lives in Austin, you met a girl, have a baby, now you are forcing your grandparents to completely move their entire lives and drop EVERYTHING, so they can come and live near you, just to watch your kid while you work?
This isn’t Russia dude.
Having your grandparents, watch your kids, isn’t a solution to lowering the price of daycare. It’s literally the stupidest thing ever.
Is it "literally" the stupidest thing ever.. or was your post on the subject?