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Rinualdo
09-15-2011, 01:20 PM
According to Pat Robertson.
Stay classy, 700 Club



Religious broadcaster Pat Robertson told his "700 Club" viewers that divorcing a spouse with Alzheimer's is justifiable because the disease is "a kind of death."
During the portion of the show where the one-time Republican presidential candidate takes questions from viewers, Robertson was asked what advice a man should give to a friend who began seeing another woman after his wife started suffering from the incurable neurological disorder.
"I know it sounds cruel, but if he's going to do something, he should divorce her and start all over again, but make sure she has custodial care and somebody looking after her," Robertson said.
The chairman of the Christian Broadcasting Network, which airs the "700 Club," said he wouldn't "put a guilt trip" on anyone who divorces a spouse who suffers from the illness, but added, "Get some ethicist besides me to give you the answer."


Most Christian denominations at least discourage divorce, citing Jesus' words in the Gospel of Mark that equate divorce and remarriage with adultery.
Story: Insulin nasal spray may slow Alzheimer's (http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/44489974/ns/health-alzheimers_disease/t/insulin-nasal-spray-may-slow-alzheimers/) Terry Meeuwsen, Robertson's co-host, asked him about couples' marriage vows to take care of each other "for better or for worse" and "in sickness and in health."
"If you respect that vow, you say 'til death do us part,'" Robertson said during the Tuesday broadcast. "This is a kind of death."
A network spokesman said Wednesday that Robertson had no further statement.
Disease rarely leads to split
Divorce is uncommon among couples where one partner is suffering from Alzheimer's, said Beth Kallmyer, director of constituent services for the Alzheimer's Association, which provides resources to sufferers and their families.
"We don't hear a lot of people saying 'I'm going to get divorced,'" she told The Associated Press.
"Families typically respond the way they do to any other fatal disease," she added.
Story: Early Alzheimer's disclosures to become more common (http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/44260578/ns/health-alzheimers_disease/t/early-alzheimers-disclosures-become-more-common/) The stress can be significant in marriages though, Kallmyer said, because it results in the gradual loss of a person's mental faculties.
"The caregiving can be really stressful on a couple of levels," she said.
Story: Who wants to live forever? Scientist sees aging cured (http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/43631577/ns/health-aging/t/who-wants-live-forever-scientist-sees-aging-cured/) "There's the physical level. There's also the emotional level of feeling like you're losing that person you love," Kallmyer said.
As a result, she said, it's important for couples to make decisions about care together in the early stages of the illness, when its effects aren't as prominent.





http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/44530424/ns/health-alzheimers_disease/#.TnIxW-wg2EU

Cephalopod
09-15-2011, 04:32 PM
It'd be cooler if you proofread your subject lines. ZING!

Gweneivia
09-15-2011, 04:35 PM
I bet they'd forget to ask for alimony.

Jayvn
09-15-2011, 09:27 PM
weird... I would have classified Alzheimers as a sickness and not death... those wacky Christians...

g++
09-15-2011, 11:19 PM
Thats despicable. When is he running for vice president?

Archigeek
09-16-2011, 12:59 AM
Hard to know what to make of a statement like that, other than it just seems pretty nutty. Is this one of the things that old people think about, the ones that haven't got Alzheimer's anyway, or is it just the machinations of one nut who can rationalize anything if he tries hard enough?

It certainly doesn't fit my view of Christ's compassion for others: healing the sick, raising the dead, curing leprosey, (and turning water into wine for a party!), but oh, wait... she's got Alzheimer's... you won't know what that is for another 2000 years, but go ahead and just start screwing someone else cause she's sorta-dead. She'll never know so it's no big deal? Yeah... that doesn't quite fit.

Thickbeard
09-18-2011, 12:14 AM
According to Pat Robertson.
Stay classy, 700 Club

He must have alzheimers to have said something like that. Shall we all abandon him and let him experience physical death all alone since it is a type a death anyway?

Ahh yes, The Summoning of Everyman.

And after the senses fail, Everyman faces him?... alone.

DeV
09-20-2011, 09:01 AM
There's goes the sickness and health caveat.

RichardCranium
09-20-2011, 09:16 AM
http://i84.photobucket.com/albums/k15/troydenh/alzheimers.jpg

waywardgs
09-20-2011, 09:25 AM
Dan Savage would probably agree on some level, probably for different reasons though. People need certain things, if they aren't getting them the care will start to fade anyway. Just a fact, might as well find a way to cope with it.

Beguiler
09-20-2011, 09:47 AM
Not always. My stepmother was diagnosed with Alzheimer's at 48. My father cared for her until she died at 67. At one point ,the state told him in order to qualify her for Medicaid, they would take 65% of his salary. My younger sister was 14 at the time, he couldn't live on that, and did consider divorcing her so she could be cared for and he could still support himself and my sister. But my father is a minister, and could not do it. So he muddled through with the help of friends and family. It was very difficult on many levels. But in the end, it was the right thing to do.

Sometimes I think our society has a 'throw-away' mentality these days. Too hard to work on keeping a marriage and family together. Just get a divorce. Too hard to raise your kids to be honest, respectful, respectable adults. Let them raise themselves. If the person you vowed to love, honor and cherish, through good times and bad, through sickness and health gets tragically ill, well you never knew it would be the 'bad times' and 'sickness'. Why put yourself out.

I hope my cynicism is unfounded, and in many cases it is, but in so many cases it isn't.

DeV
09-20-2011, 09:48 AM
Medical prenups for the elderly are looking good right about now.

AnticorRifling
09-20-2011, 10:29 AM
I hope my cynicism is unfounded, and in many cases it is, but in so many cases it isn't.



It is.

Like everything else the good will go without notice but the bad will be brought to the spotlight. News doesn't make money on good stories.

RichardCranium
09-20-2011, 11:08 AM
If news makes money, why is Nancy Grace on Dancing with the Stars?

AnticorRifling
09-20-2011, 11:11 AM
I thought that was Eddie Izzard.

RichardCranium
09-20-2011, 11:17 AM
http://i84.photobucket.com/albums/k15/troydenh/ror.jpg

Thickbeard
09-20-2011, 11:40 PM
He must have alzheimers to have said something like that. Shall we all abandon him and let him experience physical death all alone since it is a type a death anyway?

Ahh yes, The Summoning of Everyman.

And after the senses fail, Everyman faces him?... alone.

Its cool to divorce... 09-20-2011 01:15 PM Sure you're not IW?

Sure you don't have an IQ below 70? It was an obvious joke to those who can read... good.

Reltov420
09-21-2011, 12:13 AM
Personally, if I started to develop alzheimers, I'd just find some awesome and epic way to end things. Challenge a martial arts master to a katana fight maybe. The idea of losing all my memories and cognitive ability slowly seems slightly less appealing than oblivion. I don't want anyone to be offended by this if they have a relative with the disease, it's just my opinion, for now.