When Someone Fabricates Stories About You...

[Methais]

...you come back with facts:

Greetings from Goatseland. I am here for one reason today, and that's to expose some disturbing bullshit I've heard recently about me.

I had washed my hands of the whole thing until I heard recently that Rucca had been telling AndroidPK (her new guy from GS that she hooked up with IRL almost immediately after her and I were done, flew out for some hot banging action with her in March...though to be fair, I'm not judging him, as he's probably an okay guy, just severely misinformed and blinded.) that her and I only "dated" in-game, and that I then started "inviting myself" to California to visit her, and then went all crazy and unstable when she said she just wanted to keep things in-game.

That couldn't be further from the truth, and I'm calling her out. I really did not and do not give the slightest shit about what she's up to now, but what I do care about is when someone fabricates shit like that about me. Apparently PK is the only one who bought into her version anyway, most likely due to being under her charm and infatuated with her fake jugs, but that's irrelevant.

As you may or may not know, depending on who you are, Rucca and I hooked up over the summer, at the end of June. It started out in-game, and very quickly (like within 2 or 3 days, initiated by her at that, as she had been "into" me for quite a while supposedly, according to her own words anyway at the time), bled over to OOC/RL. In late July, I flew her down here for a couple days. July 25-27 to be exact, since her days off from her Japanese restaurant bartending job at the time were Sunday and Monday, and she took that Tuesday off in addition. Unfortunately, Expedia automatically deletes itineraries that are older than 6 months out of your account, but this screenshot from my bank statement when I purchased her plane ticket shows most of what would be there, minus the actual name...

http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a162/DoyleHargraves/BankStatementPwnage.jpg

FAT = Fresno
LAX = Los Angeles
MSY = New Orleans

Fresno and Bakerfield are the two closest airports to where she lives, so we flew her out of Fresno. That would be one hell of a coincidence that I just happened to fly someone else down here at that same exact time from the same exact area, no? Right. Anyway...

Here's a screen out of my Expedia account showing her listed as a traveler. However, you can add or remove names from this list at will, so I don't really consider this much of anything but here it is anyway:

*Image with names*
*** is her middle name. *** is her first name, which I only found out when I booked her flight because I had to put down her name exactly as it is on her drivers license. I wonder if PK even knows her real first name, as she vastly prefers people knowing her only by her middle name.

Anyway back to the timeline....she flew down July 25-27. My ex and I had broken up in mid-June, was a pretty bad breakup. My ex showed up at my house on Rucca's first night here and some drama took place. The rest of her time here went smoothly and full of bodily fluids....which btw PK, feeling a throbbing dong exploding right in her is what makes her climax pretty much instantly, as I'm sure you already know by now. But that's totally something someone would only know from an "in-game" relationship, right? I hate to go into explicit detail like that and feel a bit dirty for doing so, but apparently PK will believe her if she tells him the sun is green from what I hear, and I'm sure she'll bend over backwards trying to cover her tracks after reading this.

Back on track here. In early September, my ex and I got back together. I didn't really think things were going to work out due to how I had hurt her over the summer, so I kept things going with Rucca too in case me and my ex didn't last, trying to play both sides of the fence, as wrong as doing so was of me. Feel free to judge me for that. It was wrong and probably one of the worst things I've ever done, and I'm ashamed that I did it especially to someone I love so dearly that did nothing but love me back and was good to me for the 3+ years we were together as of that time. But yeah...at some point in early to mid September, Rucca said that we need to find a way for me to come visit her sometime soon (which I brought up again in early November, which apparently is the part about me "inviting myself" to come visit her she tried to say I was doing).

Long story short, it blew up in my face after some time due to some clumsiness on my part, as being a smooth operator pimp isn't quite my specialty, which resulted in the post from my gf under the name "argosyangel" in early December, the 3rd or 4th if I remember right. While I was at work that evening, she was at my house (which would result in our IPs showing as being the same at the time...just a small tidbit to share, as I've been accused of being the one that actually made that post as argosyangel. I was at work when the post was made, as RC IMed me about it and then I called him so that I wouldn't cause a 10 car pileup trying to text while driving, so if nothing else he can attest that I wasn't at my house at the time that post was made) looking through my posts on the PC, as she was still suspicious, and saw a post where I was defending Rucca in the rep thread after Rucca started some drama with WRoss over him ripping into her with some red rep. The events described in my gf's post were accurate, (and are still quoted in the thread, though the account itself had been deleted entirely from the PC after I contacted Kranar requesting him to do so if at all possible, which he was kind enough to do), to which Rucca responded in denial of course, saying that what "really" happened was that my gf saw me and Rucca chatting on facebook once and went nuts and started "stalking" her. Which if you count a couple angry emails as stalking, then I suppose you could call it that if you really wanted to, but it wasn't because we were chatting on facebook for sure.

Anyway, I disappeared after that to try and right the wrongs I had done to the woman I love and then hurt so badly. And now I'm visible again, and so is the reality of Rucca's bullshit.

Sorry to have to expose you like this Rucca (well, not really), but you crossed the line when you started fabricating stories about me so that PK wouldn't think whatever it was that you were afraid he'd think of you. You've told similar stories to me about other people too in the past, so that shit fits your pattern perfectly, as does spying on me with your alts even after we were done with both in game and out...shit like getting all pissy with me and accusing me of "flirting" with pretty much any character that was female that I was nice, or even just civil to, and then claiming that you just happened to be in the room hidden/invisible on your alt on each occasion. Or when I'd rescue somebody you didn't like, etc., whining that if I cared about you then I wouldn't be doing those things. Retarded nonsense like that, that you've already had a history of doing with others in the past anyway that I myself turned a blind eye to at the time just as PK is doing now.

Khastle was one of her previous RL hookups from GS too, as well as someone else whose name I can't remember but apparently he had a limp dick and couldn't even get it in. Those are the only ones she has actually told me about, but who knows as far as the real number goes. I know Khastle posts and reads here, so he might want to know that according to Rucca, whenever he was staying with her, he was supposedly so lazy and worthless that he wouldn't even get off the couch for pretty much any reason, not even for mundane tasks like to get a glass of water.

And while this is probably pretty trivial, here is an ass shot of hers that Fatsix had as his avatar on here a while back. Only reason I'm even bringing this up is because I recognized it was her ass because of that spider/spiderweb tattoo on her back, which I had obviously had a much more distinct viewing angle of in July. And I would love to hear how I could recognize that so easily when according to her, we were nothing more than "in-game"

http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a162/DoyleHargraves/Fatsix.jpg

But yeah, everything was totally just in-game, right?

Anyway, have fun with this one. Bet you wish you didn't fabricate that shit about me now. Hopefully you will learn your lesson.

Btw, Guile theme goes with everything:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-bFloSonPSM

And so does Metal Gear Solid:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YSLISVryYC8

In closing, have a rice day:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FkZOhPZBCiA

AND NOW FOR THE BEST PART:

I still have room for one more image...

http://www.fugly.com/media/IMAGES/Random/goatse-market.jpg

[DCSL]

...you come back with facts:

Greetings from Goatseland. I am here for one reason today, and that's to expose some disturbing bullshit I've heard recently about me.

I had washed my hands of the whole thing until I heard recently that Rucca had been telling AndroidPK (her new guy from GS that she hooked up with IRL almost immediately after her and I were done, flew out for some hot banging action with her in March...though to be fair, I'm not judging him, as he's probably an okay guy, just severely misinformed and blinded.) that her and I only "dated" in-game, and that I then started "inviting myself" to California to visit her, and then went all crazy and unstable when she said she just wanted to keep things in-game.

That couldn't be further from the truth, and I'm calling her out. I really did not and do not give the slightest shit about what she's up to now, but what I do care about is when someone fabricates shit like that about me. Apparently PK is the only one who bought into her version anyway, most likely due to being under her charm and infatuated with her fake jugs, but that's irrelevant.

As you may or may not know, depending on who you are, Rucca and I hooked up over the summer, at the end of June. It started out in-game, and very quickly (like within 2 or 3 days, initiated by her at that, as she had been "into" me for quite a while supposedly, according to her own words anyway at the time), bled over to OOC/RL. In late July, I flew her down here for a couple days. July 25-27 to be exact, since her days off from her Japanese restaurant bartending job at the time were Sunday and Monday, and she took that Tuesday off in addition. Unfortunately, Expedia automatically deletes itineraries that are older than 6 months out of your account, but this screenshot from my bank statement when I purchased her plane ticket shows most of what would be there, minus the actual name...

http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a162/DoyleHargraves/BankStatementPwnage.jpg

FAT = Fresno
LAX = Los Angeles
MSY = New Orleans

Fresno and Bakerfield are the two closest airports to where she lives, so we flew her out of Fresno. That would be one hell of a coincidence that I just happened to fly someone else down here at that same exact time from the same exact area, no? Right. Anyway...

Here's a screen out of my Expedia account showing her listed as a traveler. However, you can add or remove names from this list at will, so I don't really consider this much of anything but here it is anyway:

*Pic with names removed*

*** is her middle name. *** is her first name, which I only found out when I booked her flight because I had to put down her name exactly as it is on her drivers license. I wonder if PK even knows her real first name, as she vastly prefers people knowing her only by her middle name.

Anyway back to the timeline....she flew down July 25-27. My ex and I had broken up in mid-June, was a pretty bad breakup. My ex showed up at my house on Rucca's first night here and some drama took place. The rest of her time here went smoothly and full of bodily fluids....which btw PK, feeling a throbbing dong exploding right in her is what makes her climax pretty much instantly, as I'm sure you already know by now. But that's totally something someone would only know from an "in-game" relationship, right? I hate to go into explicit detail like that and feel a bit dirty for doing so, but apparently PK will believe her if she tells him the sun is green from what I hear, and I'm sure she'll bend over backwards trying to cover her tracks after reading this.

Back on track here. In early September, my ex and I got back together. I didn't really think things were going to work out due to how I had hurt her over the summer, so I kept things going with Rucca too in case me and my ex didn't last, trying to play both sides of the fence, as wrong as doing so was of me. Feel free to judge me for that. It was wrong and probably one of the worst things I've ever done, and I'm ashamed that I did it especially to someone I love so dearly that did nothing but love me back and was good to me for the 3+ years we were together as of that time. But yeah...at some point in early to mid September, Rucca said that we need to find a way for me to come visit her sometime soon (which I brought up again in early November, which apparently is the part about me "inviting myself" to come visit her she tried to say I was doing).

Long story short, it blew up in my face after some time due to some clumsiness on my part, as being a smooth operator pimp isn't quite my specialty, which resulted in the post from my gf under the name "argosyangel" in early December, the 3rd or 4th if I remember right. While I was at work that evening, she was at my house (which would result in our IPs showing as being the same at the time...just a small tidbit to share, as I've been accused of being the one that actually made that post as argosyangel. I was at work when the post was made, as RC IMed me about it and then I called him so that I wouldn't cause a 10 car pileup trying to text while driving, so if nothing else he can attest that I wasn't at my house at the time that post was made) looking through my posts on the PC, as she was still suspicious, and saw a post where I was defending Rucca in the rep thread after Rucca started some drama with WRoss over him ripping into her with some red rep. The events described in my gf's post were accurate, (and are still quoted in the thread, though the account itself had been deleted entirely from the PC after I contacted Kranar requesting him to do so if at all possible, which he was kind enough to do), to which Rucca responded in denial of course, saying that what "really" happened was that my gf saw me and Rucca chatting on facebook once and went nuts and started "stalking" her. Which if you count a couple angry emails as stalking, then I suppose you could call it that if you really wanted to, but it wasn't because we were chatting on facebook for sure.

Anyway, I disappeared after that to try and right the wrongs I had done to the woman I love and then hurt so badly. And now I'm visible again, and so is the reality of Rucca's bullshit.

Sorry to have to expose you like this Rucca (well, not really), but you crossed the line when you started fabricating stories about me so that PK wouldn't think whatever it was that you were afraid he'd think of you. You've told similar stories to me about other people too in the past, so that shit fits your pattern perfectly, as does spying on me with your alts even after we were done with both in game and out...shit like getting all pissy with me and accusing me of "flirting" with pretty much any character that was female that I was nice, or even just civil to, and then claiming that you just happened to be in the room hidden/invisible on your alt on each occasion. Or when I'd rescue somebody you didn't like, etc., whining that if I cared about you then I wouldn't be doing those things. Retarded nonsense like that, that you've already had a history of doing with others in the past anyway that I myself turned a blind eye to at the time just as PK is doing now.

Khastle was one of her previous RL hookups from GS too, as well as someone else whose name I can't remember but apparently he had a limp dick and couldn't even get it in. Those are the only ones she has actually told me about, but who knows as far as the real number goes. I know Khastle posts and reads here, so he might want to know that according to Rucca, whenever he was staying with her, he was supposedly so lazy and worthless that he wouldn't even get off the couch for pretty much any reason, not even for mundane tasks like to get a glass of water.

And while this is probably pretty trivial, here is an ass shot of hers that Fatsix had as his avatar on here a while back. Only reason I'm even bringing this up is because I recognized it was her ass because of that spider/spiderweb tattoo on her back, which I had obviously had a much more distinct viewing angle of in July. And I would love to hear how I could recognize that so easily when according to her, we were nothing more than "in-game"

http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a162/DoyleHargraves/Fatsix.jpg

But yeah, everything was totally just in-game, right?

Anyway, have fun with this one. Bet you wish you didn't fabricate that shit about me now. Hopefully you will learn your lesson.

Btw, Guile theme goes with everything:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-bFloSonPSM

And so does Metal Gear Solid:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YSLISVryYC8

In closing, have a rice day:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FkZOhPZBCiA

AND NOW FOR THE BEST PART:

I still have room for one more image...

http://www.fugly.com/media/IMAGES/Random/goatse-market.jpg

Don't want this baby going anywhere while I read it.

[diethx]

Five. Star. Thread.

[Tsk Tsk]

:popcorn2:

[Warriorbird]

My only comment is this

http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a162/DoyleHargraves/BankStatementPwnage.jpg

Pandora One fees are no joke.

[Buckwheet]

And I thought tomorrow was going to be a good day.

[Sam]

I sometimes wonder why I read these forums so much. Thank you.

[diethx]

Pandora One fees are no joke.

I can't believe he paid over $600 for a domestic plane ticket. Airtran, baby - the only way to fly.

[Liagala]

And here I thought my evening was going to be boring. :heart: Methais

[HouseofElves]

Fresno is a hole.

[ClayBeadGirl]

Who needs Days of Our Lives when we have the PC.... :popcorn2:

[Buckwheet]

Had to read it through a second time and relay the content across the interwebz.

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Methais again. Someone else should do it.

[Parkbandit]

Had to read it through a second time and relay the content across the interwebz.

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Methais again. Someone else should do it.

On it. Methais is the fucking man.

[RichardCranium]

Sweet baby Jesus.

[Soulpieced]

This thread: http://image.spreadshirt.com/image-server/image/composition/17852137/view/1/producttypecolor/2/type/png/width/190/height/190/bi-winning_design.png

[Fallen]

Yeesh.

[Izzy]

Ho. Ly. Shit.

:popcorn:

[Parkbandit]

*** is her middle name. *** is her first name, which I only found out when I booked her flight because I had to put down her name exactly as it is on her drivers license.

Best porn/stripper name ever. "My name is Beef Wellington.. let me prove it..."


I hate to go into explicit detail like that and feel a bit dirty for doing so, but apparently PK will believe her if she tells him the sun is green from what I hear, and I'm sure she'll bend over backwards trying to cover her tracks after reading this.

Worst explicit details ever. I'm certain you can recollect far better ones. You should post them.


It was wrong and probably one of the worst things I've ever done, and I'm ashamed that I did it especially to someone I love so dearly that did nothing but love me back and was good to me for the 3+ years we were together as of that time.

You have nothing to feel ashamed of... because that is awesome.





Khastle was one of her previous RL hookups from GS too, as well as someone else whose name I can't remember but apparently he had a limp dick and couldn't even get it in.

I'm going on record with my guess: Backlash.



http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a162/DoyleHargraves/Fatsix.jpg

You can't deny that ass is fine.


I think we can all agree... Methais is the fucking man.

[WRoss]

This is where I say: I TOLD YOU SO

[Hedensk]

Fresno is a hole.

Seriously Fresno is the shittiest place on earth. I hate that I keep having to go back there.

[Rimalon]

I re-read the post while listening to the long form version of the Guile theme. Pure awesome.

http://youtu.be/Iof5pRAIZmw

[HJFudge]

I almost thought this was a late april fools, but theres too much actual angst.

Thread of the year came early this year.

[Skeeter]

Hill - Fucking - Larious

[Anebriated]

Had to read it through a second time and relay the content across the interwebz.

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Methais again. Someone else should do it.

got him for you... and me... and well pretty much everyone cause theres a lot of win in this thread.

[Latrinsorm]

I think you should reconsider your actions.

[Buckwheet]

Seriously, all we need now is a picture to post on bodybuilding asking for photoshops.

[NocturnalRob]

There are no words except perhaps, "Hahahahaha..."

High five, Methais.

[Xorai]

Methais...I love you, man. DO NOT PAY FOR THE PUSSY!


AndroidPK should clean that coochie up nicely seeing as how he's a big fucking douche.

[RaJu Denjik]

i love these forums

[Rucca]

Woooooooooow. Somebody will do ANYTHING for their girlfriend, especially if it's to make another look bad. Truth of the matter is this. If I felt the need to tell the entire world my personal life, I would. If I felt the need to tell the entire world that someone, who wanted me so terribly, was not the type of man I could see myself with or want, then I would.
I'm sorry Methais that you felt the need to make this thread. You are pretty much a troll and doing something like this to someone who actually cared about you at one time, proves it.
You left out a whole lot of crazy on your part. The main reason why I stopped talking to you completely as well as the reason I wanted nothing to do with you in real life.
Yes, I met Khastle about 3 years ago. We were both very close, single parents and it seemed like a great idea at the time. It didn't work out. That happens when people meet and date. Sometimes there is no connection. It doesn't make him a bad person, or myself for that matter...but it is what it is.
Your jealousy for PK is retarded. The reason you made this thread again, I'm sure. PK and I had a relationship, a real one. Nothing that you and I ever had. Nothing that I'd ever want or consider having with someone like you. I never EVER wanted to make you out to be a bad person Methais, nor have I talked about you to anyone other than PK. Especially nothing bad, since that is not the type of person I am...but now...consider it on.

[TheEschaton]

Woooooooooow. Somebody will do ANYTHING for their girlfriend, especially if it's to make another look bad. Truth of the matter is this. If I felt the need to tell the entire world my personal life, I would. If I felt the need to tell the entire world that someone, who wanted me so terribly, was not the type of man I could see myself with or want, then I would.
I'm sorry Methais that you felt the need to make this thread. You are pretty much a troll and doing something like this to someone who actually cared about you at one time, proves it.
You left out a whole lot of crazy on your part. The main reason why I stopped talking to you completely as well as the reason I wanted nothing to do with you in real life.
Yes, I met Khastle about 3 years ago. We were both very close, single parents and it seemed like a great idea at the time. It didn't work out. That happens when people meet and date. Sometimes there is no connection. It doesn't make him a bad person, or myself for that matter...but it is what it is.
Your jealousy for PK is retarded. The reason you made this thread again, I'm sure. PK and I had a relationship, a real one. Nothing that you and I ever had. Nothing that I'd ever want or consider having with someone like you. I never EVER wanted to make you out to be a bad person Methais, nor have I talked about you to anyone other than PK. Especially nothing bad, since that is not the type of person I am...but now...consider it on.

Fucking amazing, I'd like to thank DCSL for quoting the OP in such a timely fashion.

[ViridianAsp]

Seriously Fresno is the shittiest place on earth. I hate that I keep having to go back there.

Fresno is a huge shit hole.

[Sam]

I would like to point out that Bakersfield is also a huge shit hole.

[Rucca]

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Ugh nevermind sorry ignore everything from me please.

Here are the last weird ass PMs from you, AFTER I told you to just leave me alone already for good. I don't like hurting people or talking bad about them, but damn, you really do suck.

[HouseofElves]

I would like to point out that Bakersfield is also a huge shit hole.

So noted and I agree.

[ViridianAsp]

I would like to point out that Bakersfield is also a huge shit hole.

Yeah, it is.

[Parkbandit]

AndroidPK should clean that coochie up nicely seeing as how he's a big fucking douche.

http://bargainbabe.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/winner-illustration1.jpg

[Misun]

Bakersfield and Fresno...damn. Two of the biggest dumps ever.

[Rucca]

From Methais September 14, 2010 at 11:53pm Report

You don't have to tell me what, if any, your answers are if you don't want if/when you come up with any, I don't want you to feel like I'm pressuring you, and asking for an answer would probably seem like just that. If it helps you figure things out for yourself or feel any better, even if just a little bit, then that's what matters. I know how it feels to be torn like this, I've been through it before too and it's a lot harder to deal with by yourself. All I'm gonna do is give you a few questions to ask yourself, and if you want to talk to me about it after, then great. If you don't want to, that's fine too. If you think the whole thing is stupid, then just delete this and tell me you thought it was a waste of time. I got thick skin it won't bother me. As long as it helps you one way or another, even if just a little bit, then that's good enough. Like that old saying goes, if you love someone, let them go. I do love you, and if not being here is what you end up deciding you want, then I'm prepared and willing to let you go if that's what's needed to help make you happy, despite how hard it'll be.

Anyway, ask yourself these things when you're thinking about and trying to figure out what is best for you and***'s lives. It turned out to be harder to word and articulate it than I thought, and there were other things that are impossible to ask outside of a "normal" conversation, but I'm starting to babble and I'm not gonna let this turn into a novel, so ask yourself....

What do you envision as the type of lifestyle you want for you and ***? I know that's a pretty broad question, but the answer might be simpler than you think. But it's still something you'd have to sit down and really ask yourself.

Before you go on, take money out of the equation when you ask yourself these things -- Do you see yourself as the type of person who is:

A) More inclined towards the exciting and/or hectic "career" life, where you're on the go and involved in your work most of the time, spending time with your loved ones when time permits, but probably spending most of your time with your career. Also acknowledging the possibility of not finding someone to share your life with, be it due to not having the time, or just not being lucky enough to find the right person. Would that type of lifestyle be something you think would give you that sense of fulfillment and happiness with yourself and with your life that you seek more than scenario B?

B) More inclined towards a more laid back stress free lifestyle in a family type atmosphere. Where you'll still be free to do the things that you want and be on the go as much or as little as you want, but also won't have to worry or stress over things, knowing you'll both always be taken care of and receive the love you both deserve. Being free for the most part to do things and spend as much time with your family and loved ones as you want, not having to be on the go all the time or be all caught up in and dealing with the stresses of the rat race and the daily grind, things like that. Having someone that you know will always be by your side to love you and care for you and remove any and all fears of being cheated on, left, or mistreated in any way. Would a stable, reliable, loving family atmosphere be something you think would give you that sense of fulfillment and happiness with yourself and your life more than scenario A?

Now I realize that it's obvious the scenarios I'm describing here, I can't really think of a way to make it less cut & dry without actually talking back and forth like I was talking about earlier, but that's fine. But, when you're thinking about this, take me personally, as well as my feelings and my feelings toward you, as well as any fear of hurting or losing me, completely out of the equation. This isn't about me. Think only of yourself and ***. If you think it'll help, talk to anyone that you're comfortable enough to confide in about it even, it can work wonders as long as you're able to let yourself open up. You don't have to share your answers with me if you don't want, though I would like to know if it did help you any, even if just slightly if you're willing to tell me that much but it's not a big deal if you'd rather not I guess.

Going to end this here so I don't turn it into a novel. You know where I stand and where you stand with me, there's no point in rehashing any of that. I'll just end this by reminding you what a great person you are and that despite the horrible things people have done to you in the past that you didn't deserve, you should always think highly of yourself and not harbor any self hate, because you're too good of a person to be feeling that way, and any guy on the planet that is fortunate enough to have you by their side is incredibly lucky, assuming they're smart enough to love treat you the way you should be. I know that's easier said than done, but you really are an incredible person that deserves the very best, and you need to be reminded of that.

That's all. I love you. Never forget that.

[DCSL]

*** September 14, 2010 at 11:53pm Report

You don't have to tell me what, if any, your answers are if you don't want if/when you come up with any, I don't want you to feel like I'm pressuring you, and asking for an answer would probably seem like just that. If it helps you figure things out for yourself or feel any better, even if just a little bit, then that's what matters. I know how it feels to be torn like this, I've been through it before too and it's a lot harder to deal with by yourself. All I'm gonna do is give you a few questions to ask yourself, and if you want to talk to me about it after, then great. If you don't want to, that's fine too. If you think the whole thing is stupid, then just delete this and tell me you thought it was a waste of time. I got thick skin it won't bother me. As long as it helps you one way or another, even if just a little bit, then that's good enough. Like that old saying goes, if you love someone, let them go. I do love you, and if not being here is what you end up deciding you want, then I'm prepared and willing to let you go if that's what's needed to help make you happy, despite how hard it'll be.

Anyway, ask yourself these things when you're thinking about and trying to figure out what is best for you and ***'s lives. It turned out to be harder to word and articulate it than I thought, and there were other things that are impossible to ask outside of a "normal" conversation, but I'm starting to babble and I'm not gonna let this turn into a novel, so ask yourself....

What do you envision as the type of lifestyle you want for you and ***? I know that's a pretty broad question, but the answer might be simpler than you think. But it's still something you'd have to sit down and really ask yourself.

Before you go on, take money out of the equation when you ask yourself these things -- Do you see yourself as the type of person who is:

A) More inclined towards the exciting and/or hectic "career" life, where you're on the go and involved in your work most of the time, spending time with your loved ones when time permits, but probably spending most of your time with your career. Also acknowledging the possibility of not finding someone to share your life with, be it due to not having the time, or just not being lucky enough to find the right person. Would that type of lifestyle be something you think would give you that sense of fulfillment and happiness with yourself and with your life that you seek more than scenario B?

B) More inclined towards a more laid back stress free lifestyle in a family type atmosphere. Where you'll still be free to do the things that you want and be on the go as much or as little as you want, but also won't have to worry or stress over things, knowing you'll both always be taken care of and receive the love you both deserve. Being free for the most part to do things and spend as much time with your family and loved ones as you want, not having to be on the go all the time or be all caught up in and dealing with the stresses of the rat race and the daily grind, things like that. Having someone that you know will always be by your side to love you and care for you and remove any and all fears of being cheated on, left, or mistreated in any way. Would a stable, reliable, loving family atmosphere be something you think would give you that sense of fulfillment and happiness with yourself and your life more than scenario A?

Now I realize that it's obvious the scenarios I'm describing here, I can't really think of a way to make it less cut & dry without actually talking back and forth like I was talking about earlier, but that's fine. But, when you're thinking about this, take me personally, as well as my feelings and my feelings toward you, as well as any fear of hurting or losing me, completely out of the equation. This isn't about me. Think only of yourself and ***. If you think it'll help, talk to anyone that you're comfortable enough to confide in about it even, it can work wonders as long as you're able to let yourself open up. You don't have to share your answers with me if you don't want, though I would like to know if it did help you any, even if just slightly if you're willing to tell me that much but it's not a big deal if you'd rather not I guess.

Going to end this here so I don't turn it into a novel. You know where I stand and where you stand with me, there's no point in rehashing any of that. I'll just end this by reminding you what a great person you are and that despite the horrible things people have done to you in the past that you didn't deserve, you should always think highly of yourself and not harbor any self hate, because you're too good of a person to be feeling that way, and any guy on the planet that is fortunate enough to have you by their side is incredibly lucky, assuming they're smart enough to love treat you the way you should be. I know that's easier said than done, but you really are an incredible person that deserves the very best, and you need to be reminded of that.

That's all. I love you. Never forget that.

And Rucca comes out swinging. Ladies and gentlemen, this fight is far from over!

[Rucca]

I just want to add, that Methais is an unstable man. Most of the reason that I wanted to keep things on a friendship level with him...not a romantic one. I had to tell him over and over that I wasn't going to be with him.
To those giving me red rep now because of Methais, calling me a skank, etc. Do what you want. This is my life and I will not settle. I have a little girl that I've raised alone and will not be with someone just to be with someone.

That wall of text I posted from his FB message, was him begging me to move to LA, after I told him I was going to be moving to the east coast hopefully.

[ClayBeadGirl]

How am I going to get any work done tomorrow? I'm going to want to keep reading this all day and all night! :ultimate:

Thank god I'm my own boss.

[Rucca]

From Methais August 25, 2010 at 10:09am Report

Baby I'm sorry if this turns into another novel, but I've been tossing and turning all night and my heart literally aches as if it's being shredded into bits and my stomach turns at the thought of losing you, and this is the only outlet I have. I might not even send this for all I know, but if i did, please just bear with me if it ends up being long. I really don't know what else to do.

I'm not trying to pressure you but I can't just sit back and not fight for you either. I have to fight for you with every ounce of love i have for you, I'd never forgive myself if I didn't fight for you. You,
the woman I love more than anything in this world and that I want to spend my life with. The woman who told me we would be together forever, and that her heart and soul belonged to me forever. The woman whom I also gave my heart and soul to and promised the same. The woman who I completely opened up my heart to, leaving it exposed and unguarded, and then gave it to completely.

I wish you really understood exactly how much I love you and how you and *** both truly do mean everything to me. I was so happy that you loved the flowers i sent, and *** telling me she loved her bear put a huge smile on my face too. I love so much being able to make you both happy. Then as quickly as the feeling came, it got crushed and turned to unfathomable dread when I saw you talking about NYC, and my heart has been pounding and my mind has been racing ever since. I've never felt such a feeling of dread before in my life, knowing that in the blink of an eye, everything I want out of life can and quite possibly will be ripped away from me just like that, along with my heart that i gave to you, my heart which truly beats for you. Everything I do is for our future together. Every dollar I stash away in my savings, I do so that I can make a good life for you and ***. Literally everything I do is done in preparation for giving you both the life and love you so truly deserve, and to ensure that you will both always have a happy loving and comfortable life with me. My life is dedicated to you and *** completely and unconditionally.

I understand it from your point of view, I really do. I just hope you can see things from my point of view as well...not only how much I want to take care of you and give you a good life, but more than just that. I am so in love with you, I've never been in love with someone the way I am with you. I would literally go to the ends of the world for you, I would take a bullet for you. I would do anything and everything to make you happy, to make you feel safe and loved, to keep you warm when you're cold, to cheer you up when you're feeling down. To ensure that you will never again have to worry about being hurt or having your
heart broken.

I know that NYC could be an exciting opportunity, but please, if you really do love me, and don't take this as pressuring, but please sit down and seriously ask yourself this:

Is any job really more important than the promise and guarantee of a happy life together as a family, knowing that you will always be loved and protected unconditionally, where you will never have to question or worry about being mistreated or having your heart being broken ever again? Is any job really worth trading in a life together as a loving family where *** will be loved and cared for, where I will help raise her by your side as if she were my own
daughter, where she will have a loving father figure in her life everyday to take care of her and make her feel special, knowing what a wonderful person she is? Where you will both be showered with love on a daily basis by the one person who loves you both more than anything in this world, where you and her will always be my absolute top priority? Is any job worth trading that in? Trading in never having to stress or worry about anything, either financially, romantically, or in a family sense, knowing that you and *** will always be loved and taken care of completely? Is any job truly worth throwing all that away? Is it truly worth leaving the one you love, the one whose heart beats for you, whose every thought is of you, the one who wants nothing more out of life than to love and take care of you and help raise your daughter as if I were her real father? Is money truly worth throwing all that away?

Please sit down and seriously ask yourself these things.

Everything I have ever told you about how I feel about you and how I want to love and take care of you, I meant every word of it from the bottom of my heart. Every single last word, just as I hope that you meant everything you've ever told me too. I don't think I ever really gotten the point across about how much it meant to me and how awesome it felt when you told me "I know you'll be such a good daddy to Lala." or when you told me that she asked if she could call me dad, and when you told me that your heart and soul belonged to me forever, and that you would never leave my side for any reason, just as I promised to never leave your side for any reason. Things like that and having people in your life that you love that much and who loves you back just as much, that's what true happiness is. That's what life is about, and that is something that no job or amount of money could ever replace or replicate.

I really do understand that even before the NYC thing came into play that it's hard for you to give yourself to someone completely due to what you've been through in the past. I don't know any other way to explain it in words other than to assure you that those days are over now and that you will never have to worry about being hurt ever again as long as you're with me. I know it's still hard for you, but at the same time, has anyone from your past given themselves to you as completely as I have, wanting nothing more than to be a family together, to love and cherish until the end of time? Or been so willing to take your daughter in and help raise her as if she were my own daughter?

All I'm saying is that no job or amount of money can equal the love and happiness I will give to you and ***, if only I am given the chance to prove it. I can only speak for myself here, but if I were faced with choosing between you or a job, regardless of the details or pay, I wouldn't even bat an eye before choosing you.

I truly believe that our place in this world is with each other and I hope you will be able to feel that way too. Up until yesterday I didn't have any doubt at all, but now here it is staring me right in the face and you have no idea how badly even the thought of it hurts, like a million razor blades shredding away at my insides.

There are millions of career people out there, both men and women, who despite the money they earn, would trade it all in for a stable and loving family life with someone that so totally adores them and dedicates themselves completely to them, and giving them and their child a happy loving life together as a family
along with everything else I want to give you, if I'm only given the chance. I do not make promises that I can't keep, and I promise you with all my heart and soul that if you just give me this chance, I will make you both happier than you've ever been in your lives, certainly more than any job ever could, and I promise with all my heart and soul that you will never regret it.

I'm willing to wait until you're ready, that's not the issue here. But you know just as well as I do that if you were to move to NYC, it would mean the end of us unless you have some idea of how we could still be together. Like I said I'd even go with you if you were to allow it, I really would and would probably like it there, I like city life too. I love the northeast, but that would obviously be
your call. Where I live is not important, it's who I'm with that matters, that's what means everything to me.

Even just seeing those words, "the end of us" on my screen makes my heart tremble at the very real possibility that I may lose you forever to this. I've never felt true heartache until last night, and it
hasn't let up for even a second, and it's something I wouldn't wish upon my worst enemy.

I really do see the allure of this potential job offer, I do, but at the same time, is money really worth giving up everything that is being offered to you and ***? I'm completely willing to do anything it takes to provide for you both and have a comfortable life. You wouldn't have to work unless you just really wanted to. I would take care of everything and provide a very comfortable life for you as well as an ideal and loving atmosphere for *** to grow up in, and none of that would ever change as time went on. If I didn't feel so strongly about this, believe me I wouldn't be wretching over it or doing anything and everything I can to convince you and prove to you that I will give you both such a happy and loving life.

(Again,I'm sorry this turned out to be so long but I hope you can understand why. I had to split it into 2 parts, the rest is in the next message)

[Rucca]

*** August 26, 2010 at 4:20pm

Alright, I have been sick for a couple days now and I can't deal with your obsession with me. Look...I think you are a wonderful person...one of the sweetest men I have ever met, but you are pushing me extremely hard. I have only met and hung out with you once, and honestly almost left early because of the night with ***. Not only did you upset me by letting her in the house while I was there, you upset me with how you handled it. It did make me apprehensive about moving there and honestly I wanted to get to know you a bit more before doing it. Yes I have told you I loved you. I do. You are a great guy, but I am not sure if I am so in love with you that I would give up an opportunity for something great for myself. I stayed with a man for 10 years, loved him and devoted myself to him, lost everything that I was...didn't do a damn thing for myself. The last four years after the divorce I have been depressed and have been trying to find myself again. If you honestly loved me like you say you'd support me through anything, and not expect to have everything your way. I did say you'd make a great dad to ***, and a great husband one day...but that was also before I went to see you in LA. You sliding a huge ring on my finger was odd too, because that is just way too soon. Everything is moving way too fast for me. You want it all and you want it now. I don't know what to do anymore. I don't want to lose you at all or our friendship, but I can tell you honestly you are pushing me away. I threw up this morning twice and my stomach is in knots. I don't even want to be online anymore. You are way too into me for knowing me just a couple months, and getting way too freaked out over me being happy about an awesome job opportunity. I don't know what to do, where to go from here. We might need to stop talking for awhile if you are going to be so damn obsessive. I really wanted to take this time, this year to decide if I wanted to be with you...to get to know you better...but you are really making this hard for me.

[Michaelous]

@methias WAHAHAHHAHAHAAKAKAKAKAKAK ROFLROFL
@rucca so..... can i get your #?

[Latrinsorm]

I think you should also reconsider your actions.

eta: Rucca, not Michaelous.

[Gizmo]

Woooooooooow. Somebody will do ANYTHING for their girlfriend, especially if it's to make another look bad. Truth of the matter is this. If I felt the need to tell the entire world my personal life, I would. If I felt the need to tell the entire world that someone, who wanted me so terribly, was not the type of man I could see myself with or want, then I would.
I'm sorry Methais that you felt the need to make this thread. You are pretty much a troll and doing something like this to someone who actually cared about you at one time, proves it.
You left out a whole lot of crazy on your part. The main reason why I stopped talking to you completely as well as the reason I wanted nothing to do with you in real life.
Yes, I met Khastle about 3 years ago. We were both very close, single parents and it seemed like a great idea at the time. It didn't work out. That happens when people meet and date. Sometimes there is no connection. It doesn't make him a bad person, or myself for that matter...but it is what it is.
Your jealousy for PK is retarded. The reason you made this thread again, I'm sure. PK and I had a relationship, a real one. Nothing that you and I ever had. Nothing that I'd ever want or consider having with someone like you. I never EVER wanted to make you out to be a bad person Methais, nor have I talked about you to anyone other than PK. Especially nothing bad, since that is not the type of person I am...but now...consider it on.

Chicks don't exist on the internet...Just sayin....

[Rucca]

From Methais August 27, 2010 at 1:19am Report

EDIT: Ugh, sorry it turned out long again. This will be the last novel. It should be an easy read though.

Ok I'm off work now. Well I've been home for a while now but I had some things around here I had to take care of. Having problems with my AC again and some other stuff around the house but I got it all taken care of now. Anyway, if I repeat anything from the other message, just ignore it, I don't exactly have a side by side to double check with. I'll TRY to keep this from becoming a novel, but I also want to articulate my points as best as I can too, mostly in the order of your last letter. Long or short though, this one should be an easy read I hope.

To start, let me touch on the *** thing. I know I totally blundered that whole thing and I'm sorry for that, I really am, I can't begin to express how sorry I am for that. I wish you really knew how badly I regret letting her in and the way I handled it. As much as I wish I could, I can't go back and change that. But I'm not perfect and that totally caught me off guard like a deer in headlights. I've never been in a situation like that before and i don't like dealing with drama anymore than you do, and to be perfectly honest, I really had no idea how to handle it, and for some obviously stupid reason, I thought she would just tell me what an asshole I was and storm off just as quickly as she came in. Believe me when I tell you that you have no idea how sorry and regretful I am for the way I handled it. I know it did a lot of damage, but I don't think the damage is irrepairable either. But at the same time, I've done everything I can think of to make things right and set your mind at ease after the fact, and over here on my end I've taken care of the problem and ensured that something like that would never happen again.

I'll be the first to admit when I'm wrong or have fucked something up, and I follow that by doing everything I can to make things right after. That should at least count for something, shouldn't it? I mean I'll admit that sometimes the actual execution of it isn't any good and sometimes makes things even worse, but the thought and intent behind it is nothing but good, which is what should matter most, even if I fall flat on my face when trying to carry it out.

As for not being sure if you're in love with me enough to pass an opportunity, I can respect that, especially considering what you've been through in the past. I really was not and am not trying to push you or pressure you. I was just trying to illustrate to you exactly how much you mean to me and what you and *** would be getting from me if you did decide to move here eventually. I wasn't saying it had to be right now. I believe I even said that I'm willing to wait as long as it takes for you to be ready. Would I love it if it happened sooner rather than later? Of course I would, you are awesome to be around and we get along great and you're a load of fun and a very sweet and caring person that I could easily see myself growing old with, and I'm sure *** is just as sweet and awesome as you are too, she's really a spectacular kid, probably the coolest one I've ever met and I'd love to teach her to play drums and do other "dad" type things with her, especially considering that she doesn't see her real dad much, and is too sweet of a kid to not have that fatherly figure in her life everyday like she deserves. And the same goes for you as far as having a man to always love and be there for you that you can depend on for anything and everything no matter what the circumstances are. I was just trying to tell you that I am that guy, both for you and ***. Did I go overboard with it in that last letter? Probably so, and I'm sorry for that. I'm not an obsessive person though, I just have a tendency to ramble on and on and on when I'm writing, especially when it's something I feel strongly about or involves someone I love, which is actually kind of weird because when I'm speaking, I'm usually quick and to the point and most people tell me I don't talk enough. Go figure.

But that's one of the reasons why I tell you the things I do so often. I don't do it to be obsessive or anything like that. I do it because I know how badly you've been hurt before and what you've been through, and I just want you to know, and know for sure without a shadow of a doubt, that you'll never have to deal with or put up with that kind of shit ever again with me. I would love nothing more than to have the opportunity to mend your heart and give you a happy life. I probably say those things too much, though I've tried not to lately. But when you love someone as much as I love you, especially when there's physical distance between us, I just want to assure you of things is all. Long distance relationships are never easy, and sometimes even when you already trust the person, a little reassurance can go a long way towards making things more bearable.

Sure, I may sometimes stretch all that out into a big wall of text, but my intentions are nothing but good. I don't want to push you into anything you don't want to or aren't yet ready to do. I just want you to know exactly what you'll be getting with me, how you and Alanna will be treated, and that you'll always be loved and taken care of, unconditionally and without exception, so that you can take that into consideration when you ultimately make your decision on where you want to be, knowing that I stand by what I say. I may get a bit too passionate about it at times, but I assure you it's purely out of love, not obsession.

But yeah we've only been physically together for a couple days, but up until that point, we spent nearly all of our time together when we weren't sleeping or working getting to know each other. One of the things I love and admire about you is that you don't bullshit around. You speak your mind, you don't sugarcoat things, and you present yourself for exactly who you are in a take-it-or-leave-it manner. It might sting a little when it's directed at me, but I still wouldn't change that about you either, I find it a very admirable trait, especially in this day and age where almost everybody is afraid to say anything.

And honestly, much like how you said you're not used to having a man that is devoted and faithful to you, I'm not used to having a woman that doesn't beat around the bush and play head games all the time acting like a lunatic. And while I hate to admit it, it's still something I need to get used to with you, because all my life I've dealt with nothing but crazy women who play bullshit games like that. That's one of the things that drew me to you so hard and so quickly is that you're not like that at all. For lack of a better term, it really was a huge breath of fresh air. I consider myself pretty much the same in that regard...I present myself for who I am, and what you see is what you get. I'm not saying that that was enough time to get to know me enough for you to be confident about moving, especially with what you've been through, but I am saying that the person you got to know before you came here is who I am and that I will always see to it that you and *** are happy and taken care of. When words are all I have to work with, I tend to drag that on sometimes, I realize that. I'll try not to though, I know that's one of my flaws and can sometimes be overwhelming and give off the wrong signal, and probably annoying on top of it.

Sure, you might not know every little detail about me, but you know the foundation of who I am, and the rest is mostly trivial things that wouldn't have any effect on how you viewed me or thought of me as a person, unless you took serious issue with things like how I never untie my shoes, I just leave them tied when I take them on and off and other pointless details like that. :P

But yeah, I presented myself to you for exactly who I am. I totally see what you're saying though, I'm just telling you that if you liked who I was based on that, then you'd be happy with who I am just the same in person, in an everyday life manner if you were living with me. I am a genuine caring person and I love to spoil those I love and make them smile, and the way I presented myself to you when we were getting to know each other, that is who I am for real. I don't know how else to explain that.

I probably came on really strong when you were here, maybe too strong, I don't know really. But if I did, it was only because we had so little time together and I wanted to make the absolute most out of it as we could. And frankly after the Amanda incident, I really expected to never see you again after you went back home, which made seeing you walk off in the airport even more painful. Hopefully I'm wrong, but only time will tell. If nothing else, I would hope I could see you at least once more if you end up going to NYC and ending things with us, but I'm not going to push that. I just want you to know that though.

As for what you said in your last email...how I would "make a great husband one day and a great dad to ***....but that was before I came to see you." I'm a bit confused on what exactly you're saying there, so instead of commenting on it right now, I'm just going to ask you to elaborate on that and explain it in more detail so i know what exactly you mean by it, so please do that for me if you would. I really think the only thing I did wrong while you were here was let Amanda in, which admittedly was a pretty gigantic fuckup, but I already went over that at the beginning of this message so there's no point in rehashing it again.

[Rucca]

From Methais August 27, 2010 at 1:19am Report

As for the ring, it was just a silver promise ring, not a gold engagement ring or anything like that. I wasn't asking you to marry me, and I'm pretty sure I explained this to you at the time. But the point behind that ring was a few things...one, I just wanted it to be a reminder to you about how much you mean
to me and that one day in the future I would marry you if things continued to work out with us. Two, you had mentioned one day that you miss having a ring on your finger to twirl around and play with so I thought it would be a nice thing to do for you that you would like. I probably shouldn't have gone with a diamond though, as I'm sure looking back on it now, probably seemed like a bit too much since diamond rings are typically associated with marriage. I was originally going to get you something else like a necklace or something, but the thing about you missing twirling a ring on your finger just stood out to me and I wanted to do that for you. I knew you weren't going to wear it after you left even if it did fit, and I was fine with that. Being a diamond ring and all I'm sure you would have been bombarded with people asking if you got engaged and it would probably feel awkward to explain our relationship to people, which is totally understandable. Again I shouldn't have went with a diamond, but I just want to clear that up on what the purpose of giving that ring to you was, even if I went with a sapphire or some other non-diamond gem, that's all. So I apologize if I weirded you out with that. That wasn't the intent at all.

I am totally ok with slowing things down if that's what it will take to help convince you that I am for real about the things I tell you and that I want you to be happy. Sure I'd absolutely love it now, but I'm not a self centered person either and I realize and understand things from your point of view and I'm more than willing to do things your way. It's not that I want everything and want it right now. Well technically I guess I do, but I also realize that's not a reasonable expectation either and I'm not trying to push that at all. Do I want it more than anything? I certainly do, but only when you're ready for it.

My main confusion though now is if you end up moving to NYC...what exactly happens next as far as you and I? Will that just be the end of us? Will we continue to do what we are doing, keeping open the possibility of one of us moving to be with the other later on? What will happen with us if you move to NYC?

That was my main thing is that while yeah, I'm more than willing to slow things down and give you all the time you need to become confident enough in our relationship to take it to the next level, but, and correct me if I'm wrong, I have a very strong feeling that if you moved to NYC, it would be the end of us and I'd never see you again, which would totally rob me of even having that chance to prove myself to you, and in a way, would also rob you of what could be something that will make you happier than you've ever been in your life. I'm extremely confident that that would be the case, that you would be happier than you've ever been in your life, but I also realize and respect the fact that it's your decision to make and that you need to do what you believe is best for you and Alanna.

Don't get me wrong, if you decide that's where you want to be, I will support you on it. Yes, I will be totally crushed and completely heartbroken, as I'm pretty sure that it would mean the end of us and that I've lost you for good, but I will still love you and wish the best for you. It hurts to say this yeah, but even if I can't be a part of your life, I still want you and Alanna to have a happy life, wherever you end up. I've always told you I love you unconditionally, and I meant it.



And if that's how things went down, and then things ended up backfiring on you in NYC or didn't work out for whatever reason, I would still be here with open arms for you. I mean I can't promise I'd be here waiting forever, as eventually I'd have to just give up and accept the fact that you're gone, pick up the pieces, try and make the best of things and move on with my life, but hopefully you understand what I'm saying here.

The things I said in that last letter, the whole "is money worth giving up this, throwing that away, etc.", it wasn't meant in an obsessive way. I just want you to be absolutely 100% sure that if you go to NYC, that it's truly what you want to do and that you've thought things through completely, since like I said I have little doubt that it would mean the end of us.

Not only that though, but if you do go, I don't want anything bad to happen to you or have you get screwed over or anything. I did a bit of research on this Bobby Flay guy, and I don't know if you already know or not, but he got sued by his own employees, both current and former, earlier this year for screwing them out of wages, tips, overtime, work related expenses, and other money related issues where he was cheating them out of their pay, and he ended up settling it out of court for $800,000 http://www.nypost.com/p/news/local/manhattan/cheater_flay_dishes_out_QWK56nrVQ2YUOOtoItlAXP

There were some other shady things too, like how he's apparently cheating on his 3rd wife (Stephanie March) with some chick from that Mad Men show named January Jones.
http://warmingglow.uproxx.com/2010/06/is-bobby-flay-cheating-on-his-wife-with-january-jones-question-marks

Now granted, most of the news about the cheating on his wife thing was from tabloid type sites like TMZ and whatnot, but it was still pretty convincing how all the details were consistent across the different sites, and even then how Bobby and January's stories had a lot of contradictions and all, and even Bobby's publicist mentioned something about it in one of the articles. Supposedly he's a big cokehead these days too, but who knows. I'm not trying to trash the guy or anything, and even if I were I know it wouldn't work with you anyway. I'm just telling you what I found when I checked around about him, and keep in mind that I'm also acknowledging that the cheating story and the cokehead thing were mostly from Hollywood tabloid sites, but that doesn't necessarily mean it's not true either, TMZ has actually broken a lot of legit stories over the past few years, but whatever.

I'm only telling you this because I don't want you to get lured out there under a false pretense and end up getting screwed over, be it not getting paid what you were promised, him possibly having some alterior motive for trying to get you out there, or whatever. I'm not saying that would happen or that that's the case or trying to deter you, I'm just saying that even though you knew him when you used to live out there, things aren't always what they seem, and I don't want anything bad to happen to you, and that you should try and gather as much information as you possibly can before making your final decision, that's all. I may hate the fact that you'd be leaving me to go there, but that doesn't mean I won't still love you or worry about you and wonder how things are going, especially since I wouldn't be able to be there to protect you. But anyway like I said, I'm just telling you what I found when I checked around about him, that's all.

But anyway back on topic, you said you wanted to take this time, this year to get to know me and decide if you wanted to be with me, which is fine I'm cool with that I don't want to try and rush you into anything you're not ready for. But now with this NYC wild card thrown into play, I really need to at least know if what you said would still hold true -- if we'd still be together or if all that just goes out the window if you move to NYC.

I don't know if I'm wording that right so I guess I'll just flat out ask: If you moved to NYC, would you and I continue to be a couple and go on like we have been, with the possibility of one
of us moving to be with the other later on if that's what we both decided we wanted? Or would it just be the end of us if you moved there?

[Rucca]

From Methais August 27, 2010 at 1:20am Report

And just for the record, I wouldn't be opposed to moving to nyc, or wherever you happen to be for that matter, if that ended up being an option on the table. Just saying that I'd be willing to make the move if you were happy living wherever you'd be at the time but still wanted to be with me. Like I said before, it's not where I am that matters, it's who I'm there with.

I don't want to ever lose you either, I despise even the thought of it, but I don't think it's at all out of line or obsessive of me to want to know where I'd stand if you did move to NYC. As long as I know where I stand, be it good or bad, I can manage the rest just fine. I just don't want to sit there in limbo is all, having no idea where I stand or what our possible goals, if any, are.

Also, don't let this ruin coming online for you. I know that last message went overboard and it was done in a knee-jerk fashion, and I realized that after I sent it and read over it again. I actually googled to see if you could unsend a message on here, but unfortunately you can't, and your response was mostly what I expected after I read over my message. I know you've been on at least some lately, but not signing onto AIM, and I have little doubt that it's probably because of me, and I want to apologize for it if that's the case. I really do love the time we spend together, be it in GS or just IMing back and forth about whatever, and I don't want to ruin that for you. So while I may say or ask something pertaining to us and our future, I will make it a point to not make a habit out of it because the last thing I want to do is push you away, even though you're probably going to be pulled away from me anyway to NYC, but that's beside the point.

Anyway I *think* that's everything. If I remember something I forgot to add I'll drop another quick (and yes, I mean quick and non novel-ish) note.

Oh yeah...have you heard back from Bobby or found out anymore details on it yet? Or did he give you any kind of timeframe on when more details would be coming in?

Anyway I got this sent out later than I planned to, and it turned out way longer than I thought it was before I tried to send it, so just get back to me when you have time. No matter what you decide to do though, I will always love you and Lala and will always be here for you both.

Don't ever let yourself forget that.

[Rucca]

Between You and ***
October 6, 2010 at 8:12am Report
I know you probably don't want to hear from me and I probably won't get a response but have to do it anyways. A little over 3 1/2 weeks ago *** came to me crying and apologizing for what he had done to me and how he treated me. Wanting me to give him another chance. I was not sure but decided to try anyways. I told him he needed to end things with you but he told me he was hardly talking to you in that way anymore. I recently found out though that you deleted him from your facebook and because he was talking to ***, his ex. I want to know when you comforted him about it did he try to beg or talk you out of deleting him in any way. My trust for him is so little if any and this is the reason why. He wants me to trust him again and I want to but I need proof that he is telling the truth on this matter. Hope to hear from you, if not ok.

Between You and ***
October 8, 2010 at 8:33pm Report
Hey. This is *** (Methias' ex, former, current fuck if I know ~ Anticor)daughter. it would really be appreciated if you didnt talk with (Methais) anymore because he is now with my mom. thank you.
Sent via Facebook Mobile

[AnticorRifling]

Editted out RL names. I ask you both please edit them out prior to posting because making me have to work is really unfair to me. And let's be honest it's pretty much about me.

[Gizmo]

I would read this too, but I don't know what is Rucca responding, and what is just copied and pasted crap as there really seems to be no lines of seperation here.

Better Format Please!

[AnticorRifling]

Damnit Rucca you spead poster!

[Bobmuhthol]

This thread reminds me that my life is fucking incredible and I have no retarded issues to deal with, and that makes me feel great.

[FNLN]

Post tits.

[Rucca]

Actually my life is a lot better now that I have him out of it. All of those walls of text are from Methais harassing me on FB. I only replied to him on one of them. The other two are from his gf and his gf's daughter also bothering me on FB.
The moral of this thread is:
Methais needs to move on. He was not the type of person I wanted around and definitely not the type of person I wanted my daughter around.
Nerd rage at its finest.

[Bobmuhthol]

"UPS and taking care of my children. (http://www.facebook.com/pages/UPS-and-taking-care-of-my-children/113761275301501)
I work at UPS now in the mornings, come home and sleep or clean house then take care of my children when they get home from school."

Glad I read this thread before the names were edited. Methais' broad's facebook is sweet.

[Gizmo]

This thread reminds me that my life is fucking incredible and I have no retarded issues to deal with, and that makes me feel great.

You have a small penis, god damnit don't you remember!?

[Liagala]

Random thoughts in between the walls of text -

Rucca, you need to explain the name. There is no fucking way your parents named you *** (Anticor, it's just a first name, please leave it alone).


Assuming all these walls of text are exactly as written by Methais (since copy/paste is SO difficult to alter)... I'm not seeing any real huge issues here. Yeah, you're parading his emotions across the interwebs and that's a kick in the balls, but it's not all that bad.
First wall of text - dated in September. Back to this in a few.
Second wall (8/25) - Methais is in love with you, wants you to move there
Third wall (8/26) - you say no, he's obsessive
Fourth wall (8/27)- He says Ok, maybe I came on a little strong, I'll cool it, but I'm still all in love. Thx.
Back to first wall - now a few weeks later, I have to assume that you encouraged him in the intervening time, and he is once again convinced that you're going to live happily ever after. Back to the "please come be a stay at home mom so I can support you and your kid and make you happy" gaggingly-sweet crap.

[AnticorRifling]

You read all those words? It made my head hurt, I scanned for pics, found none and just started ***'ing out random words and le***rs.

[Gizmo]

Actually my life is a lot better now that I have him out of it. All of those walls of text are from Methais harassing me on FB. I only replied to him on one of them. The other two are from his gf and his gf's daughter also bothering me on FB.
The moral of this thread is:
Methais needs to move on. He was not the type of person I wanted around and definitely not the type of person I wanted my daughter around.
Nerd rage at its finest.

Moral of this thread is:

Don't have sex with random, creepy people from this game.

Least that would be my best advice to anyone, regardless of flavor.

[Bobmuhthol]

I believe the name. If you're going to be named after a celestial entity, fuck it, you might as well be named after feelin' good too. And given an education at the American Musical and Dramatic Academy, it's totally believable.

[AnticorRifling]

Moral of this thread is:

Don't have sex with random, creepy people from this game.

Least that would be my best advice to anyone, regardless of flavor.

So what was all that one in a million talk?!

[Gizmo]

So what was all that one in a million talk?!

Your butt was just too tempting, I had to woo you somehow! :P

[AnticorRifling]

So you're sayin there's a chance!

[BulletSponge]

As long as there are no real names!

[Gizmo]

What Sponge said...I'll call you Joon, and you call me Benny

[4a6c1]

So much penis, so little time.

Girls and boys there is one logical finality here.

Rucca had sex with alot of guys and left them all but then had sex with PK and stayed with him.

PK, CONGRATS ON THE GIANT DONG!!!

Rucca you go girl!

[AnticorRifling]

As long as there are no real names!

You will refer to me as the great wahooka. I will wait in the bathroom, you will enter the hotel room and turn off the lights and start playing Mario on the nintendo I've provided. After I hear the victory music from lvl 1-1 I will turn off the light and come out of the bathroom...

[4a6c1]

Also what I have learned from this thread is if we all want to have happy fun time we should sprinkle each others real names all over the place in old threads because Antipants is not busy enough at his real job and he needs stuff to do.

[AnticorRifling]

Also what I have learned from this thread is if we all want to have happy fun time we should sprinkle each others real names all over the place in old threads because Antipants is not busy enough at his real job and he needs stuff to do.

I will kick you in the nuts.

If you're lacking nuts I will pay for the surgery, get you some nuts, kick you in them, pay for the reversal, and then demand a sandwich.

[Liagala]

Also what I have learned from this thread is if we all want to have happy fun time we should sprinkle each others real names all over the place in old threads because Antipants is not busy enough at his real job and he needs stuff to do.

My name is **** and I approve this message.

[BulletSponge]

Egg Salad sandwich?

[Cephalopod]

Someone either save all this or make sure it ALL gets quoted properly. I'm just starting to read this and I don't want this shit to disappear. Thank you.

[Back]

Greetings from Goatseland. I am here for one reason today, and that's to expose some disturbing bullshit I've heard recently about me.

Cool story, bro.

[Rucca]

No, basically it was this. I'm the type of person who gives everyone a chance. I gave him one. He blew it with all of the drama between him and his ex gf.

For the ones calling me a whore now, I'm far from. In fact, I probably have dated far less than most of you. Since my divorce 6 years ago, I have dated 6 times. Out of those 6 men, I met 3 here. Mistake? Maybe just with one. Methais. I don't see the harm with meeting people through PC or the internet. In fact, I'm definitely not the only one who has done so.
Now everyone knows a bit of my personal life. I hope it was good for you, because it wasn't for me.

[AnticorRifling]

It was pretty good for me, afk gonna smoke.

[Tolwynn]

Quick, post more names!

[Kyra231]

Random thoughts in between the walls of text -

Rucca, you need to explain the name. There is no fucking way your parents named you *** (Anticor, it's just a first name, please leave it alone).


Assuming all these walls of text are exactly as written by Methais (since copy/paste is SO difficult to alter)... I'm not seeing any real huge issues here. Yeah, you're parading his emotions across the interwebs and that's a kick in the balls, but it's not all that bad.
First wall of text - dated in September. Back to this in a few.
Second wall (8/25) - Methais is in love with you, wants you to move there
Third wall (8/26) - you say no, he's obsessive
Fourth wall (8/27)- He says Ok, maybe I came on a little strong, I'll cool it, but I'm still all in love. Thx.
Back to first wall - now a few weeks later, I have to assume that you encouraged him in the intervening time, and he is once again convinced that you're going to live happily ever after. Back to the "please come be a stay at home mom so I can support you and your kid and make you happy" gaggingly-sweet crap.

Thanks for the **** notes version. Wall of text was killing me.

[Back]

No, basically it was this. I'm the type of person who gives everyone a chance. I gave him one. He blew it with all of the drama between him and his ex gf.

For the ones calling me a whore now, I'm far from. In fact, I probably have dated far less than most of you. Since my divorce 6 years ago, I have dated 6 times. Out of those 6 men, I met 3 here. Mistake? Maybe just with one. Methais. I don't see the harm with meeting people through PC or the internet. In fact, I'm definitely not the only one who has done so.
Now everyone knows a bit of my personal life. I hope it was good for you, because it wasn't for me.

So are you single?

[Kyra231]

So are you single?

:rofl:

[Back]

I thought Methaias liked his women like he liked his coffee. Strong and black.

[Gizmo]

No, basically it was this. I'm the type of person who gives everyone a chance. I gave him one. He blew it with all of the drama between him and his ex gf.

For the ones calling me a whore now, I'm far from. In fact, I probably have dated far less than most of you. Since my divorce 6 years ago, I have dated 6 times. Out of those 6 men, I met 3 here. Mistake? Maybe just with one. Methais. I don't see the harm with meeting people through PC or the internet. In fact, I'm definitely not the only one who has done so.
Now everyone knows a bit of my personal life. I hope it was good for you, because it wasn't for me.

I meet people all the time from the internet, and still maintain that friendly fuck buddy relationship with alot.

Women are the reason I don't even bother to date anymore, they are all fucking loony and always ruin it for themselves when they land the good guy, case in point the last chick I was with...What a fuck job, two screws loose. Her "Perfect" relationship she left me for with her Ex of like 8 times last all of one week lol

So thank you women, not all but alot, for allowing me to just start screwing around and not giving a shit anymore about it.

[ZeP]

So how do we go about claiming our chance? Will this post suffice?

[Stanley Burrell]

Wassup lurkers.

(Yes, you. Now.)

[4a6c1]

I meet people all the time from the internet, and still maintain that friendly fuck buddy relationship with alot.

Women are the reason I don't even bother to date anymore, they are all fucking loony and always ruin it for themselves when they land the good guy, case in point the last chick I was with...What a fuck job, two screws loose. Her "Perfect" relationship she left me for with her Ex of like 8 times last all of one week lol

So thank you women, not all but alot, for allowing me to just start screwing around and not giving a shit anymore about it.

HUR. It is definately the fault of half the worlds population that the neurons in your brain are not firing correctly. GOOD CALL.

[Rucca]

http://i.imgur.com/uRUkV.jpg

[Kid Danger]

After reading the entire thread I now feel both depressed and horny. :(

[AnticorRifling]

After reading the entire thread I now feel both depressed and horny. :(

That's why they make black dildos and/or emo blowup dolls (don't let them cut themselves though or the air will leak out).

[Gizmo]

HUR. It is definately the fault of half the worlds population that the neurons in your brain are not firing correctly. GOOD CALL.

I don't get it. You mean definitely? HUR!

PS Rojo: Take THIS!!!!

http://unitedstatesofno.ytmnd.com/

[Gizmo]

That's why they make black dildos and/or emo blowup dolls (don't let them cut themselves though or the air will leak out).

Almost as over used as the whole "I wish my grass were Emo, so it would cut itself" bit....

[Cephalopod]

Alright, I couldn't read all that.

Someone let me know when PK posts.

[Rucca]

http://i.imgur.com/syLny.jpg

[4a6c1]

She keeps posting pictures of happy pussies. Has to be code for something.

[Sinanju]

There are times when I stop and go 'Are the people on the other side of the internet really there?'

Thankfully those thoughts stop when I click my favorite porn site.

[Warriorbird]

HUR. It is definately the fault of half the worlds population that the neurons in your brain are not firing correctly. GOOD CALL.

Their snarky nature is one of the reasons I love women.

I think there's some sort of lesson about online relationships and not quite exes here for all parties (Gizmo included) but I'm not sure I can quite articulate it.

[Methais]

I won't deny any of those walls of text. I won't deny one bit that I ramble and can get dramatic when I'm writing when I drink, and then I ramble on some more and some more, regardless of whether I mean what I'm saying, if it's in response to equally gushy shit you told me, or if I'm just laying it on thick and trying to cover my own tracks and/or trying to do some damage control without you or her finding out. I am indeed ashamed of my actions. Not for you though, but for the woman I shouldn't have let myself stray from to begin with. I'll always feel terrible about that. She has been nothing but good and kind to me the whole time we've been together, and I let the allure of a succubus (whose tits I saw before her face even) combined with the rebound off of a bad breakup cause me to lose my way instead of fixing things with my gf like I should have done.

Fact of the matter is, this has nothing to do with being jealous of PK or anything like that. I don't know him and have no beef with him at all, and it's not like I haven't sampled the goods anyway. It's the fact that you made shit up to him and whoever else about me because you didn't want him to know what had really happened, which I'm sure is no different than the stories you've told me about your past guys. I've heard several accounts from you about "So and so wanted to hook up IRL but I said no and then he went crazy and he's all unstable and stuff!" And obviously PK talked, because I sure didn't hear about your stories about me from him. It's funny how any time I would bring up telling someone about us outside of the game, like when I casually told a good friend of mine from in game about your visit, you would seriously go fucking crazy as if I had just ran over your dog and then ate it in front of you.

Let's go down in a little more detail, albeit a shorter version:

I did find myself very infatuated with you for a while, just as you were with me. And yes I did fall hard for you at the time, or maybe I just rebounded hard after me and my gf splitting up after 3 years, who knows. You were no different, telling me shit like, "Will I ever get to be Penis McDong-touch (names by Anticor) one day?" for example. Only difference is you kept logs and I didn't.

You were also the one that originally brought up moving here. I even responded to the effect of if that happened, it would have to be at least two years away, as I was planning on starting up school in mid-July at the time and wanted to finish that first. To which you replied that it would have to be sooner than that because you didn't want to have to move your daughter anywhere once she started high school. So we talked about this upcoming summer after this school year was out. Then YOU (not me, you) said you wanted to bump it up to December 2010. It was only after the drama when my ex showed up while you were here that you said December was too soon, blah blah.

The part of me "begging" you to move to LA, no, not exactly. Moving here was YOUR idea originally as I mentioned above. What you posted was well after that, when your NYC gig came into play. Even then, you continued to tell me that even though you were still torn on NYC or here, you were still leaning heavily towards coming here.

But make no mistake, you initiated taking things beyond in-game, you initiated the idea of moving here, you said "I love you" first :puke:, you said two years wasn't soon enough, you said this summer and then you wanted to bump that up to December 2010.

Unlike you, I won't be full of shit and deny any of the things I wrote. Most of it was really just me laying it on thick though to be honest, be it for damage control reasons or persuasion purposes. If you think you're going to embarrass me, go for it. I'm not embarrassed by anything I wrote. I am only embarrassed and ashamed for deceiving my girlfriend for so long.

Making shit up about someone doesn't result in them getting jealous btw, but nice try playing that card. As for those weird PMs you first quoted, consider it me trying to sweep things under the carpet while trying to give off the impression to my gf that I wasn't.


I just want to add, that Methais is an unstable man. Most of the reason that I wanted to keep things on a friendship level with him...not a romantic one. I had to tell him over and over that I wasn't going to be with him.
To those giving me red rep now because of Methais, calling me a skank, etc. Do what you want. This is my life and I will not settle. I have a little girl that I've raised alone and will not be with someone just to be with someone.

Isn't that convenient, considering how she said plenty of times she "couldn't wait" to move here and viewed me like a "dad" to her and how you "knew" I would be "so great" for you both, and that the drama with my gf is what made you want to "back out", not me being so-called "unstable", which is what you say about everybody btw, and I'm sure you'll say it about PK one day too. I just tried to convince you otherwise when the shit hit the fan with the drama, and I laid it on pretty thick in the process.

The fact is, my only problem with you was the fabricated bullshit you were telling people about me, all "He kept inviting himself to come visit and I said I just wanted to keep things in-game, and he went crazy!" which you can't deny anymore.

Therefore, mission accomplished. If anyone is unstable though, it's you. Stable people don't cry IRL day after day after day over negative rep someone left them. Stable people don't get all upset IRL because someone (in this case, Hedensk) posted a boob shot "to steal my attention" after you posted your minor cleavage shot back whenever that was. Stable people don't go all randomly emo for several days at a time like you would for literally no reason. Just to name a few things.

So either way, post whatever you want and throw out the cheesiest sounding things I wrote. I fully expected it before I posted, and it won't bother me one bit. After reading it again just now, I think it was pretty slick writing actually.

The cat is out of the bag with you and your bullshit ways, and that's all I came here for. Whatever happens after that, happens, and I won't be concerning myself with it. I did what I came here to do.


Actually my life is a lot better now that I have him out of it. All of those walls of text are from Methais harassing me on FB. I only replied to him on one of them.

Incorrect. You replied to them all, just only one of them was on FB, and it was mostly about how you were randomly depressed again or some shit.


The other two are from his gf and his gf's daughter also bothering me on FB.
The moral of this thread is:
Methais needs to move on. He was not the type of person I wanted around and definitely not the type of person I wanted my daughter around.
Nerd rage at its finest.

This is what you are failing to understand. I have moved on, and I've been moved on for quite a while now and have been quite content with things. The thought of you hadn't even entered my mind in a pretty long time, until someone IMed me recently and informed me of all the bullshit you were saying about me. That's when I decided to make this post. Other than that, you are nothing but a memory of a big mistake. I should have known better when I saw your tits before I saw your face, but I digress. Call me unstable or whatever all you want. You were quite the weirdo yourself. You would go on for hours/days at a time about Gracy, but you yourself aren't all that much different from her.

That should pretty much cover it. And you're welcome PC, for spicing up your day. It looks like things have been pretty boring around here lately.

The real moral of this thread is:

If you see a chick's tits before you see her face and she wants to hook up with you, chances are she's got issues.

[NocturnalRob]

This thread reminds me that my life is fucking incredible and I have no retarded issues to deal with, and that makes me feel great.
Yeah, sex tends to complicate things. Count yourself lucky.

[Kid Danger]

http://i.imgur.com/syLny.jpg

We think that it looks all furry and warm but that pussy is cold dammit!

[4a6c1]

Its the workplace rule. Dont fuck your buddy. But it applies to any situation where you would like to maintain consistent platonic communication with a group of people. This applies to the PC!

ARGH. was responding to WB. This thread is flying.

[Gizmo]

Their snarky nature is one of the reasons I love women.

I think there's some sort of lesson about online relationships and not quite exes here for all parties (Gizmo included) but I'm not sure I can quite articulate it.

I think it's like some pre-ordained path for every human being to walk thru in life now at least once, given the fact the internet is such a huge and crucial part of our every day life in more than just social aspects.

In a sense, I think the internet ruined any sort of actual old, normal human interaction...But then we also have shit like texting etc....Double edged sword as I see it. Convenient, safe etc...But on the other end it's dangerous, a meat market, and quick to switch

[Suppa Hobbit Mage]

I dunno, I like both Rucca and Methais. But I will say am I fucking glad Betheny didn't go all apeshit like Methais did, and then Rucca in retalitation.

[NocturnalRob]

Quoted and shit


I won't deny any of those walls of text. I won't deny one bit that I ramble and can get dramatic when I'm writing when I drink, and then I ramble on some more and some more, regardless of whether I mean what I'm saying, if it's in response to equally gushy shit you told me, or if I'm just laying it on thick and trying to cover my own tracks and/or trying to do some damage control without you or her finding out. I am indeed ashamed of my actions. Not for you though, but for the woman I shouldn't have let myself stray from to begin with. I'll always feel terrible about that. She has been nothing but good and kind to me the whole time we've been together, and I let the allure of a succubus (whose tits I saw before her face even) combined with the rebound off of a bad breakup cause me to lose my way instead of fixing things with my gf like I should have done.

Fact of the matter is, this has nothing to do with being jealous of PK or anything like that. I don't know him and have no beef with him at all, and it's not like I haven't sampled the goods anyway. It's the fact that you made shit up to him and whoever else about me because you didn't want him to know what had really happened, which I'm sure is no different than the stories you've told me about your past guys. I've heard several accounts from you about "So and so wanted to hook up IRL but I said no and then he went crazy and he's all unstable and stuff!" And obviously PK talked, because I sure didn't hear about your stories about me from him. It's funny how any time I would bring up telling someone about us outside of the game, like when I casually told a good friend of mine from in game about your visit, you would seriously go fucking crazy as if I had just ran over your dog and then ate it in front of you.

Let's go down in a little more detail, albeit a shorter version:

I did find myself very infatuated with you for a while, just as you were with me. And yes I did fall hard for you at the time, or maybe I just rebounded hard after me and my gf splitting up after 3 years, who knows. You were no different, telling me shit like, "Will I ever get to be Rico Sauve (yes that's an Anticor edit) one day?" for example. Only difference is you kept logs and I didn't.

You were also the one that originally brought up moving here. I even responded to the effect of if that happened, it would have to be at least two years away, as I was planning on starting up school in mid-July at the time and wanted to finish that first. To which you replied that it would have to be sooner than that because you didn't want to have to move your daughter anywhere once she started high school. So we talked about this upcoming summer after this school year was out. Then YOU (not me, you) said you wanted to bump it up to December 2010. It was only after the drama when my ex showed up while you were here that you said December was too soon, blah blah.

The part of me "begging" you to move to LA, no, not exactly. Moving here was YOUR idea originally as I mentioned above. What you posted was well after that, when your NYC gig came into play. Even then, you continued to tell me that even though you were still torn on NYC or here, you were still leaning heavily towards coming here.

But make no mistake, you initiated taking things beyond in-game, you initiated the idea of moving here, you said "I love you" first :puke:, you said two years wasn't soon enough, you said this summer and then you wanted to bump that up to December 2010.

Unlike you, I won't be full of shit and deny any of the things I wrote. Most of it was really just me laying it on thick though to be honest, be it for damage control reasons or persuasion purposes. If you think you're going to embarrass me, go for it. I'm not embarrassed by anything I wrote. I am only embarrassed and ashamed for deceiving my girlfriend for so long.

Making shit up about someone doesn't result in them getting jealous btw, but nice try playing that card. As for those weird PMs you first quoted, consider it me trying to sweep things under the carpet while trying to give off the impression to my gf that I wasn't.



Isn't that convenient, considering how she said plenty of times she "couldn't wait" to move here and viewed me like a "dad" to her and how you "knew" I would be "so great" for you both, and that the drama with my gf is what made you want to "back out", not me being so-called "unstable", which is what you say about everybody btw, and I'm sure you'll say it about PK one day too. I just tried to convince you otherwise when the shit hit the fan with the drama, and I laid it on pretty thick in the process.

The fact is, my only problem with you was the fabricated bullshit you were telling people about me, all "He kept inviting himself to come visit and I said I just wanted to keep things in-game, and he went crazy!" which you can't deny anymore.

Therefore, mission accomplished. If anyone is unstable though, it's you. Stable people don't cry IRL day after day after day over negative rep someone left them. Stable people don't get all upset IRL because someone (in this case, Hedensk) posted a boob shot "to steal my attention" after you posted your minor cleavage shot back whenever that was. Stable people don't go all randomly emo for several days at a time like you would for literally no reason. Just to name a few things.

So either way, post whatever you want and throw out the cheesiest sounding things I wrote. I fully expected it before I posted, and it won't bother me one bit. After reading it again just now, I think it was pretty slick writing actually.

The cat is out of the bag with you and your bullshit ways, and that's all I came here for. Whatever happens after that, happens, and I won't be concerning myself with it. I did what I came here to do.



Incorrect. You replied to them all, just only one of them was on FB, and it was mostly about how you were randomly depressed again or some shit.



This is what you are failing to understand. I have moved on, and I've been moved on for quite a while now and have been quite content with things. The thought of you hadn't even entered my mind in a pretty long time, until someone IMed me recently and informed me of all the bullshit you were saying about me. That's when I decided to make this post. Other than that, you are nothing but a memory of a big mistake. I should have known better when I saw your tits before I saw your face, but I digress. Call me unstable or whatever all you want. You were quite the weirdo yourself. You would go on for hours/days at a time about Gracy, but you yourself aren't all that much different from her.

That should pretty much cover it. And you're welcome PC, for spicing up your day. It looks like things have been pretty boring around here lately.

The real moral of this thread is:

If you see a chick's tits before you see her face and she wants to hook up with you, chances are she's got issues.

[Rucca]

Thanks Rob.

[Misun]

If you see a chick's tits before you see her face and she wants to hook up with you, chances are she's got issues.

Seriously.

[Buckwheet]

No, basically it was this. I'm the type of person who gives everyone a chance. I gave him one. He blew it with all of the drama between him and his ex gf.

For the ones calling me a whore now, I'm far from. In fact, I probably have dated far less than most of you. Since my divorce 6 years ago, I have dated 6 times. Out of those 6 men, I met 3 here. Mistake? Maybe just with one. Methais. I don't see the harm with meeting people through PC or the internet. In fact, I'm definitely not the only one who has done so.
Now everyone knows a bit of my personal life. I hope it was good for you, because it wasn't for me.

Call it over sharing..dated one woman. Married her. So eat that sucker.

2 cents and all.

[Back]

I dunno, I like both Rucca and Methais. But I will say am I fucking glad Betheny didn't go all apeshit like Methais did, and then Rucca in retalitation.

Everything she told me about you I figured was angry break up shit and not worth repeating.

[4a6c1]

Methais, obviously calling someone who you once claimed to love a skank is not mature adult behavior. I'm not sure how that proves that you are the mentally stable person here.

[Warriorbird]

Its the workplace rule. Dont fuck your buddy. But it applies to any situation where you would like to maintain consistent platonic communication with a group of people. This applies to the PC!

ARGH. was responding to WB. This thread is flying.

I caught it. No worries. I'll make the occasional exception for you. Quoting rules. Workplace rules. American exceptionalism!

[NocturnalRob]

So eat that sucker.
I hope that's how you proposed.

[Buckwheet]

I hope that's how you proposed.

It was actually "So suck on that sucker."

[Methais]

Methais, obviously calling someone who you once claimed to love a skank is not mature adult behavior. I'm not sure how that proves that you are the mentally stable person here.

At what point did I post the word "skank"? Assuming you're making a serious post, which we should all know better by now.

[Suppa Hobbit Mage]

Everything she told me about you I figured was angry break up shit and not worth repeating.

I'm sure. Don't get me wrong, I did nothing I'm ashamed of. I just don't care to have my personal life all over the internet is all.

[Buckwheet]

Is this the part of the thread where someone says "Pics or it didn't happen?"

[Warriorbird]

Is this the part of the thread where someone says "Pics or it didn't happen?"

We've all been trying to forget those pics.

[Apathy]

10/10. Will read again.

[Rucca]

What I don't understand is where this is all coming from. I haven't even spoken to Methais since Jan/Feb of this year. I also have never felt the need to talk about him.


This thread needs more happy pussies.

http://i.imgur.com/ZM650.jpg

[Gizmo]

This is why I'd likely never date any real live girl from some game I played too.

Granted it is nice to have some chick who loves games as much as you do, I know first hand how that can be, in the end when it's like a Village train, I prefer to just hide my nerd-dom from the girl I'm with and pretend I don't do weird crap like this.

It works out rather well in the outside world! I think I've dated one girl who liked video games, but she also worked at Hooters near our college Campus and Game Stop as well Part-Time, so that in itself was a rare treat

[WRoss]

This is why I'd likely never date any real live girl from some game I played too.

Granted it is nice to have some chick who loves games as much as you do, I know first hand how that can be, in the end when it's like a Village train, I prefer to just hide my nerd-dom from the girl I'm with and pretend I don't do weird crap like this.

It works out rather well in the outside world! I think I've dated one girl who liked video games, but she also worked at Hooters near our college Campus and Game Stop as well Part-Time, so that in itself was a rare treat

Deny who I am and lie by omission. This is how you consider yourself a winner?!

[Liagala]

If you see a chick's tits before you see her face and she wants to hook up with you, chances are she's got issues.
I'd just like to go on record saying that this isn't always the case, especially with the boob thread here. Thx.

[AnticorRifling]

This is why I'd likely never date any real live girl

Going to quote this so I can use it out of context at a future date.

[BulletSponge]

Going to quote this so I can use it out of context at a future date.

http://www.hahastop.com/pictures/The_Trouble.jpg

[Methais]

What I don't understand is where this is all coming from. I haven't even spoken to Methais since Jan/Feb of this year. I also have never felt the need to talk about him.


The thought of you hadn't even entered my mind in a pretty long time, until someone IMed me recently and informed me of all the bullshit you were saying about me. That's when I decided to make this post.

http://languagearts.pppst.com/banner_reading.gif

[diethx]

Woooooooooow. Somebody will do ANYTHING for their girlfriend, especially if it's to make another look bad. Truth of the matter is this. If I felt the need to tell the entire world my personal life, I would. If I felt the need to tell the entire world that someone, who wanted me so terribly, was not the type of man I could see myself with or want, then I would.
I'm sorry Methais that you felt the need to make this thread. You are pretty much a troll and doing something like this to someone who actually cared about you at one time, proves it.
You left out a whole lot of crazy on your part. The main reason why I stopped talking to you completely as well as the reason I wanted nothing to do with you in real life.
Yes, I met Khastle about 3 years ago. We were both very close, single parents and it seemed like a great idea at the time. It didn't work out. That happens when people meet and date. Sometimes there is no connection. It doesn't make him a bad person, or myself for that matter...but it is what it is.
Your jealousy for PK is retarded. The reason you made this thread again, I'm sure. PK and I had a relationship, a real one. Nothing that you and I ever had. Nothing that I'd ever want or consider having with someone like you. I never EVER wanted to make you out to be a bad person Methais, nor have I talked about you to anyone other than PK. Especially nothing bad, since that is not the type of person I am...but now...consider it on.

I totally want to respond to this before reading the rest of the posts afterwards.

You got caught lying and being a psycho. Deal with it. I hope pk has enough sense to remove his head from his asshole, now. I mean honestly, before all this it was your fault. If he stays with you now, it's his.

[Gizmo]

Deny who I am and lie by omission. This is how you consider yourself a winner?!

I never dated a girl that played the same game as I, such as an MMO. MMO's are a harsh thing to play when dating a girl that plays it as well, case in point this thread.

I have dated a girl that played video games as much as I, and enjoyed them along with her working at a Hooters near our campus as well, since we both attended college together.

Guess the fat between your ears has you mistaken again.

[4a6c1]

At what point did I post the word "skank"? Assuming you're making a serious post, which we should all know better by now.

Not That Word, you know but you allude to many things emphasizing her breasts, her previous partners, the manner with which she contacted you to 'get to know you better', her ability to find various partners on the internet, etc.... Which obviously you had no complaints about at the time.

JUST SAYIN. I dont see any fault on Rucca here except maybe she owes you an apology for misrepresenting your character in private conversations to her new boyfriend?

I would say your jealousy is pretty transparent.

[Gizmo]

Going to quote this so I can use it out of context at a future date.

Fucker! I am Neg repping your Positive Rep now!!

[Jayvn]

I guess it's mandatory I post here too...
...
so not to derail the thread but I really need a new avatar...

[NocturnalRob]

This is why I'd likely never date any real live girl from some game I played too.

Granted it is nice to have some chick who loves games as much as you do, I know first hand how that can be, in the end when it's like a Village train, I prefer to just hide my nerd-dom from the girl I'm with and pretend I don't do weird crap like this.

It works out rather well in the outside world! I think I've dated one girl who liked video games, but she also worked at Hooters near our college Campus and Game Stop as well Part-Time, so that in itself was a rare treat
Holy shit, man. Your life is fucking sweeeeeeeet! Tell us more boring stories that distract from the storyline of this thread. Seriously. Hooters AND Gamestop?!?

[4a6c1]

This is why I'd likely never date any real live girl


Hell yeah. New sig!

[Warriorbird]

Fucker! I am Neg repping your Positive Rep now!!

Don't hate. That line will make you a hit with the Realdolls.

[AnticorRifling]

This thread might be the wrong spot for it but I'd like to go on record that if I was single I'd totally try and hook up with the Progressive lady. No idea why.

[Methais]

Not That Word, you know but you allude to many things emphasizing her breasts, her previous partners, the manner with which she contacted you to 'get to know you better', her ability to find various partners on the internet, etc.... Which obviously you had no complaints about at the time.

JUST SAYIN. I dont see any fault on Rucca here except maybe she owes you an apology for misrepresenting your character in private conversations to her new boyfriend?

I would say your jealousy is pretty transparent.

Calling someone out for being full of shit, and then shutting down their inevitable "That never happened!" response before they could make it = jealousy? If you say so, but I disagree. I've since made things right with my gf (wasn't easy, but then again it shouldn't have been) and I'm more content with my life now than I've been in a long time. Only thing I'm pissed off about is that I have to wait 12 more days for Mortal Kombat to come out. And that is your fault.

[Gizmo]

Holy shit, man. Your life is fucking sweeeeeeeet! Tell us more boring stories that distract from the storyline of this thread. Seriously. Hooters AND Gamestop?!?

True story Mex

[NocturnalRob]

Rucca made reference to her "relationship" with PK in the past tense. Is that already done too? I'm going to blame the Hollister if so.

[Buckwheet]

This thread might be the wrong spot for it but I'd like to go on record that if I was single I'd totally try and hook up with the Progressive lady. No idea why.

Because her name is Flo.

[Gizmo]

Because her name is Flo.

Damnit you already beat me to it, fucking wireless shit

[diethx]

Robin I think you're missing the point here. Meth totally liked Rucca and was sad it ended the way it did. This whole thread wasn't over jealousy about pk.

This whole thread is because Rucca was telling pk that Methais was a psycho, that he was trying to bring their relationship RL and she totally resisted it and never hooked up with him, when in fact Rucca flew to LA and fucked Meth's brains out. She instigated the RL relationship, not him.

But she totally lied to pk about it and made Meth into some crazy stalker (which from what I hear, she seems to do that with every PC/online person she fucks and then is ashamed to let her next online conquest know she fucked, or whatever).

[4a6c1]

Calling someone out for being full of shit, and then shutting down their inevitable "That never happened!" response before they could make it = jealousy? If you say so, but I disagree. I've since made things right with my gf (wasn't easy, but then again it shouldn't have been) and I'm more content with my life now than I've been in a long time. Only thing I'm pissed off about is that I have to wait 12 more days for Mortal Kombat to come out. And that is your fault.

Tank girl is in MK?!? BUYING IT.

[Rucca]

I totally want to respond to this before reading the rest of the posts afterwards.

You got caught lying and being a psycho. Deal with it. I hope pk has enough sense to remove his head from his asshole, now. I mean honestly, before all this it was your fault. If he stays with you now, it's his.

Diethx. Thank you for your input. The same input as usual. Negative.

[Yellow00]

This thread might be the wrong spot for it but I'd like to go on record that if I was single I'd totally try and hook up with the Progressive lady. No idea why.

Flo can get it done.

[diethx]

Diethx. Thank you for your input. The same input as usual. Negative.

Hey, don't blame the messenger. I didn't make you lie to pk about your past conquests.

[Buckwheet]

Flo can get it done.

http://i878.photobucket.com/albums/ab346/Dj_Kasharine/Funny/awkwardness-joking-with-flo-progressive-insurance-demotivational-poster-1282085041.jpg

[Methais]

Tank girl is in MK?!? BUYING IT.

No...BUT KRATOS IS! (On PS3)

Yes, Kratos! FWHUFGIOAHFGLAGFAGL;ARGHAR;ARJK;ARL

http://image.gamespotcdn.net/gamespot/images/2009/225/kratos01-Render_71611_640screen.jpg

[Sinanju]

God, Kratos has serious saggy nipples. Or he's very cold. Or excited. Hard to tell with his perma-scowl.

[Gizmo]

Tank girl is in MK?!? BUYING IT.

I hate and love you at the same time, this needs to change

[4a6c1]

Robin I think you're missing the point here. Meth totally liked Rucca and was sad it ended the way it did. This whole thread wasn't over jealousy about pk.

This whole thread is because Rucca was telling pk that Methais was a psycho, that he was trying to bring their relationship RL and she totally resisted it and never hooked up with him, when in fact Rucca flew to LA and fucked Meth's brains out. She instigated the RL relationship, not him.

But she totally lied to pk about it and made Meth into some crazy stalker (which from what I hear, she seems to do that with every PC/online person she fucks and then is ashamed to let her next online conquest know she fucked, or whatever).

I'm totally defending the chick and I dont care about facts OKAY STEFFY?!!!!!

Also this thread makes me want to go watch a Greys Anatomy marathon. I might go do that.

Unless PK pops in and is all like YES IT IS TRUE I HAVE A BIG DONG. Then I will commence with the rofflez

[Jayvn]

avatar switch complete..back to trusty 'd'

the internet makes me a sad panda sometimes...
on another side note..if these lortabs don't kick in ..in like..5 minutes i'm going to fucking karate chop my desk in half to draw attention away from the pain in my belly button right now

[Apathy]

Flo can get it done.

Twice.

To make sure she did it.

[Suppa Hobbit Mage]

Robin I think you're missing the point here. Meth totally liked Rucca and was sad it ended the way it did. This whole thread wasn't over jealousy about pk.

This whole thread is because Rucca was telling pk that Methais was a psycho, that he was trying to bring their relationship RL and she totally resisted it and never hooked up with him, when in fact Rucca flew to LA and fucked Meth's brains out. She instigated the RL relationship, not him.

But she totally lied to pk about it and made Meth into some crazy stalker (which from what I hear, she seems to do that with every PC/online person she fucks and then is ashamed to let her next online conquest know she fucked, or whatever).

And how do you know all this?

[Jayvn]

also <3 rucca and rojo and caffeine and flo

[Suppa Hobbit Mage]

Flo is annoying as shit to me, and not attractive at all.

[AnticorRifling]

And how do you know all this?

Backtraced it.

[diethx]

I'm totally defending the chick and I dont care about facts OKAY STEFFY?!!!!!

Also this thread makes me want to go watch a Greys Anatomy marathon. I might go do that.

Unless PK pops in and is all like YES IT IS TRUE I HAVE A BIG DONG. Then I will commence with the rofflez

OKAY I ALLOW!

[NocturnalRob]

And how do you know all this?
I just want to say, while everyone is being honest, your sig is incredibly annoying.

Carry on.

[AnticorRifling]

Flo is annoying as shit to me, and not attractive at all.

You're dead to me.

[Suppa Hobbit Mage]

Backtraced it.

This actually made me laugh snort. Nice :)

[Gizmo]

And how do you know all this?

Because people of the PC know all, fuck, you should know this by now

[4a6c1]

I hope you feel better D. Did you get a belly button ring?

[Suppa Hobbit Mage]

I just want to say, while everyone is being honest, your sig is incredibly annoying.

Carry on.

Oh I forgot about that. I bet it is.

[diethx]

And how do you know all this?

Because pk told me directly what she said. And I told Meth. And anyone who's not a fucking idiot knows that 20394823498 online guys aren't going to stalk her all the while she's resisting every single one of their advances and saving herself for pk.

I mean come on, you'd have to be an idiot (and no, i'm not calling pk an idiot, just deluded) to believe that shit.

[NocturnalRob]

You're dead to me.
As dead as your dong to stimulation from a female.

[AnticorRifling]

So you're saying it's your fault?

[Rucca]

Hey, don't blame the messenger. I didn't make you lie to pk about your past conquests.

Are you the one messaging Methais then about what I say to PK? My personal life is none of your concern. What I choose to tell someone about who I have been with in the past is my concern, not yours. I will choose to do it when I feel the time is right and necessary.

[Jayvn]

I hope you feel better D. Did you get a belly button ring?

if by belly button ring you mean surgery, yeah..belly button ring.. I was going to at one point... get a belly button ring..but my belly button is off center.. don't fucking ask.. apparently i'm the ONLY person in the world with an off center belly button.. it's literally half a belly button space to the right of where it should be.. Maybe I should sprinkle some glitter on the cut that wont fucking heal to make me feel better about it though...
then I can name my belly button robert patterson

[Rucca]

Because pk told me directly what she said. And I told Meth. And anyone who's not a fucking idiot knows that 20394823498 online guys aren't going to stalk her all the while she's resisting every single one of their advances and saving herself for pk.

I mean come on, you'd have to be an idiot (and no, i'm not calling pk an idiot, just deluded) to believe that shit.

Wow.

[Bobmuhthol]

Are you the one messaging Methais then about what I say to PK? My personal life is none of your concern. What I choose to tell someone about who I have been with in the past is my concern, not yours. I will choose to do it when I feel the time is right and necessary.

WOAH WHAT DID ANYONE ELSE NOTICE THAT THIS IS COMING FROM THE PERSON FUCKING A BUNCH OF GUYS HERE AND POSTING ABOUT IT???

HEY WAIT ISN'T THIS ALSO THE BROAD WHO IS TOTALLY AND OPENLY LYING ABOUT THE NATURE OF HER RELATIONSHIP WITH METHAIS???

[AnticorRifling]

Bob has his angry text on because his penis wasn't invited to the party.

[NocturnalRob]

then I can name my belly button robert patterson
Or Mariah Carey

[HJFudge]

This thread keeps getting better.

LOL at Methias for being ok with messing around behind his gf's back (from what I gather its a bit hard to tell) but when someone talks poorly about him behind his back? TO THE FORUMS! THIS WILL NOT STAND!

LOL at Rucca for being kinda creepy but trying to act all innocent like shes been nothing but an innocent flower thats just horribly put upon. I don't doubt Methias version is the truth.

LOLS for everyone!

[diethx]

Are you the one messaging Methais then about what I say to PK? My personal life is none of your concern. What I choose to tell someone about who I have been with in the past is my concern, not yours. I will choose to do it when I feel the time is right and necessary.

Yes, i'm the one who told Methais what you said to pk. Normally I would agree with you that your personal life is none of my concern, however when I find out that you're lying about one friend and trying to manipulate another friend by those lies, well, it DOES concern me.

Don't lie about fucking my friends and call them stalkers and I won't tell people what you said. Simple as shit.

[Apathy]

http://laserpointerforums.com/attachments/f50/19687-still-failing-make-jr-dorcy-laser-funny-pictures-cat-challenges-you-fight.jpg

[Anothi]

Ha! Such a great blessing that I'm happily married.

[Keller]

Because her name is Flo.

I got my haircut today.

My barber (he is a "stylist" but fuck him) asked me (like he does every fucking time) whether we use clippers or scissors.

Just to fuck with him I said, "flowbee".

[Rucca]

Yes, i'm the one who told Methais what you said to pk. Normally I would agree with you that your personal life is none of my concern, however when I find out that you're lying about one friend and trying to manipulate another friend by those lies, well, it DOES concern me.

Don't lie about fucking my friends and call them stalkers and I won't tell people what you said. Simple as shit.

I haven't been in a relationship with anyone since PK. I met Methais in July of 2010, it didn't work out. I stayed single up until PK who has been the only one I have been with since.
You are starting shit for no reason. The problems I had with Methais were a couple months ago, and over and done with since. I thought everyone had moved on. There was no mention of Methais' name to PK or anyone else for that matter since all that drama a few months back.

[diethx]

I haven't been in a relationship with anyone since PK. I met Methais in July of 2010, it didn't work out. I stayed single up until PK who has been the only one I have been with since.
You are starting shit for no reason. The problems I had with Methais were a couple months ago, and over and done with since. I thought everyone had moved on. There was no mention of Methais' name to PK or anyone else for that matter since all that drama a few months back.

A) i'm confused as to why you seem unable to comprehend my point in previous posts

B) I didn't start shit, actually. pk told me the lies you said about Methais. I was shocked and told Methais those lies. He came here and called you out on being a lying whore.

End. of. story.

[Krayton]

I love lamp.

[Jayvn]

=/

[Fallen]

Moral of the story, don't talk shit about your X's.

[AnticorRifling]

Guys Diethx said end of story so that's it, no more, she said so.

[AnticorRifling]

Moral of the story, don't talk shit about your X's.

Or don't talk to women because they don't keep anything private. Either is pretty accurate thus far.

[Yellow00]

Moral of the story, don't talk shit about your X's.

More like don't get caught....

[Methais]

Guys Diethx said end of story so that's it, no more, she said so.

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s2QpxygObSo/SGCHBTb8RvI/AAAAAAAAA4s/rgr7OPeee48/s400/arphid.JPG

[diethx]

Guys Diethx said end of story so that's it, no more, she said so.

errrr no no no please, let the thread go on lol.

I'm just saying, that's all this is about. She's trying to make it about other shit, I dunno really.

[Back]

Ahh, so the real person stirring up shit here is Diethx. Color me not surprised.

[diethx]

Ahh, so the real person stirring up shit here is Diethx. Color me not surprised.

Your reading comprehension is stellar, as always. Maybe you'd like to date Rucca next.

[WRoss]

I am going to bed and I expect this thread to be at at least 400 posts in 9 hours! GO!

[Falling Further]

Methais is in a fundamental no win situation here.

1. He admitted in the opening post that at one point in his life, he was trying to string along two women (each of them single mothers) like a player.
2. This puts the women who don't know Methais in direct opposition with him.
3. The men of the board are all angling for more pics of the women's tits, so they'll go along with whatever their target agrees with.

I'll be siding with GR. Good luck on winning her over, Meth!

[Rucca]

A) i'm confused as to why you seem unable to comprehend my point in previous posts

B) I didn't start shit, actually. pk told me the lies you said about Methais. I was shocked and told Methais those lies. He came here and called you out on being a lying whore.

End. of. story.

You. are. a. hater.
Again, since you can't comprehend much either. Methais and I both, at the time agreed to not bring our relationship out into the open, hence my lying about being with him. My private life is my private life, and I did not find it necessary to be out on PC for everyone to make fun of.
That was the extent of my lying. Nobody knew, not even PK, since it was a new relationship and he didn't need the drama.
You calling me names is also pretty weak.

[NocturnalRob]

Bobby Flay rules.

[AnticorRifling]

Bobby Flay rules.

He's one of the worst on Food Network.

[Jayvn]

didn't he stand on his prep table? that's disgusting

[diethx]

You. are. a. hater.
Again, since you can't comprehend much either. Methais and I both, at the time agreed to not bring our relationship out into the open, hence my lying about being with him. My private life is my private life, and I did not find it necessary to be out on PC for everyone to make fun of.
That was the extent of my lying. Nobody knew, not even PK, since it was a new relationship and he didn't need the drama.
You calling me names is also pretty weak.

There's a difference between not wanting to talk to pk about your past relationship and telling pk that Methais wanted to take your relationship IRL, invited himself out to California to meet you which freaked you out, and then started obsessively stalking you.

You could've just decided not to mention it rather than fabricating some crazy fucking story that Meth didn't deserve.

[Methais]

You. are. a. hater.
Again, since you can't comprehend much either. Methais and I both, at the time agreed to not bring our relationship out into the open, hence my lying about being with him. My private life is my private life, and I did not find it necessary to be out on PC for everyone to make fun of.
That was the extent of my lying. Nobody knew, not even PK, since it was a new relationship and he didn't need the drama.
You calling me names is also pretty weak.

Actually you were the one all hell bent crazy about that and would flip your shit hardcore anytime you even thought I might have mentioned it to someone. I didn't give a shit one way or another if anyone knew or not.

I also respected your wish to keep things private after it was all done and over with until I found out you were making shit up about me to PK.

Either way, does this mean you're not going to pay me back the 10m silver you borrowed for Ebon Gate?

I have to go make a thread about something funny and unrelated now.

[Apathy]

Bobby Flay annoys the shit out of me. How many different ways can you present a tomatillo sauce, really?

Also, he was banging the hot blonde lawyer from Law & Order. Jealous :(

[Rucca]

Actually you were the one all hell bent crazy about that and would flip your shit hardcore anytime you even thought I might have mentioned it to someone. I didn't give a shit one way or another if anyone knew or not.

I also respected your wish to keep things private after it was all done and over with until I found out you were making shit up about me to PK. Bad choice.

Either way, does this mean you're not going to pay me back the 10m silver you borrowed for Ebon Gate?

I have to go make a thread about something funny and unrelated now.

Sure

[Bobmuhthol]

I still enjoy the shit out of Rucca's name.

[diethx]

He's one of the worst on Food Network.

Seconded. Hate him.

[AnticorRifling]

So Meth what you're saying is she told one person something (true/false/whatever) and you decided it was important to tell us all something (true/false/whatever) based on info from a third party instead of talking to that one person?

[Methais]

Sure

http://www.americarx.com/admin/ARXPRODUCTIMAGES/Simages/SureDeodorants/520106.jpg

I'm out.

[Bobmuhthol]

Rock it right!
Bring the night!
We don't care as long as you come tonight!

We can tell you're watching us, baby
We're on a roll.
We can tell you're watching us, honey
We're in control

Pleasure! (Pleasure!)
Let your feelings come alive!
Pleasure! (Pleasure!) (Ooooh yeah!)
Until the Daymoon-rise!

Rock it up!
Lock it down!
We're going all night so, baby, keep your boots on the ground!

We can tell you're watching us, baby
We're on a roll.
We can tell you're watching us, honey
We're in control

Pleasure! (Pleasure!)
Let your feelings come alive!
Pleasure! (Pleasure!) (Ooooh yeah!)
Until the Daymoon-rise!

Rock it up! (Rock it up!)
Lock it down! (Lock it down!)
Rock it right! (Rock it right!)
Bring the night! (Bring the night!)

Pleasure! (Pleasure!)
Let your feelings come alive!
Pleasure! (Pleasure!) (Ooooh yeah!)
Until the Daymoon-riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiise!

[Jayvn]

is Bobby Flay related to Will Ferrell?

[Back]

Your reading comprehension is stellar, as always. Maybe you'd like to date Rucca next.

No one knew anything about any of this until you got involved. Now three (or more) people’s private lives are all over the internet now. Happy?

[Warriorbird]

Seconded. Hate him.

We might have to vote you out of the region BEFORE you move.

[Buckwheet]

I came into this thread thinking this:

http://likefunbutnot.org/img/Cocks-Whores.jpg

I am leaving it let down.

[diethx]

No one knew anything about any of this until you got involved. Now three (or more) people’s private lives are all over the internet now. Happy?

Wait, I thought no one knew anything about any of this until Meth posted on the PC?

OR AM I METH IN DISGUISE!!!!!!!

[diethx]

We might have to vote you out of the region BEFORE you move.

Hehe, well if you must, please vote me into a nice little home on LI's south shore near the beach and in a good school district.

[Xorai]

Wait, I thought no one knew anything about any of this until Meth posted on the PC?

OR AM I METH IN DISGUISE!!!!!!!

You're dumb and can't even comprehend your own posts...

[diethx]

You're dumb and can't even comprehend your own posts...

Totally. Derp derp.

[Xorai]

Totally. Derp derp.

At least you can admit it, I guess.

[Warriorbird]

Hehe, well if you must, please vote me into a nice little home on LI's south shore near the beach and in a good school district.

Of course. Our culture of honor doesn't mean we're not nice.

[RichardCranium]

No one knew anything about any of this until you got involved. Now three (or more) people’s private lives are all over the internet now. Happy?

I did, but I'm a steel trap baby. <3 for rucca, f for meth

[Rucca]

There's a difference between not wanting to talk to pk about your past relationship and telling pk that Methais wanted to take your relationship IRL, invited himself out to California to meet you which freaked you out, and then started obsessively stalking you.

You could've just decided not to mention it rather than fabricating some crazy fucking story that Meth didn't deserve.

That was all true. All of it. And are you telling me you don't tell your boyfriend things that upset you? You just keep it in and don't mention it?
The only harm done here is that my boyfriend decided to tell someone like you what I shared with him, privately.

[diethx]

That was all true. All of it. And are you telling me you don't tell your boyfriend things that upset you? You just keep it in and don't mention it?
The only harm done here is that my boyfriend decided to tell someone like you what I shared with him, privately.

Rucca, come on, really. You were lying to manipulate pk, and got caught. Deal with it, ok?

I surely do tell my husband about things that upset me. I don't lie to my husband and tell him I have multiple stalkers.

[Bobmuhthol]

That was all true. All of it. And are you telling me you don't tell your boyfriend things that upset you? You just keep it in and don't mention it?
The only harm done here is that my boyfriend decided to tell someone like you what I shared with him, privately.

I'm seriously inclined to believe Methais here. Your "boyfriend" could not have been too serious, considering it's Androidpk and you started fucking him a few months ago at most, so the idea that you have some sacred bond is fucking pathetic.

PS. You're still an inspiration for me to continue being successful at life, so thanks. Hope your daughter doesn't follow your example and fuck up her chance at being someone (she will).

[Stretch]

bitches is crazy.

[Rucca]

Rucca, come on, really. You were lying to manipulate pk, and got caught. Deal with it, ok?

I surely do tell my husband about things that upset me. I don't lie to my husband and tell him I have multiple stalkers.

You know nothing about me. Nothing. Nor do you know what is truth and what isn't. You are a hater. Period. You did not need to stir up all of this shit. You did it to be mean.
I have never tried to manipulate PK. Because I didn't tell him about a pretty embarrassing situation involving one man playing me and his ex at the same time?
Give me a break. You upset Methais with this bullshit and myself, and more than likely PK too. Good job.

[Tgo01]

Damn you all why did this have to happen when I'll be busy all week? I don't have time to read this all right now :(

[Rucca]

I'm seriously inclined to believe Methais here. Your "boyfriend" could not have been too serious, considering it's Androidpk and you started fucking him a few months ago at most, so the idea that you have some sacred bond is fucking pathetic.

PS. You're still an inspiration for me to continue being successful at life, so thanks. Hope your daughter doesn't follow your example and fuck up her chance at being someone (she will).

Little boy, leave my child out of this.

[Bobmuhthol]

Sorry, I just have this unexplained intolerance for shitty parents.

Just kidding, it's really well documented: I hate shitty parents for ruining the lives of their children.

[diethx]

You know nothing about me. Nothing. Nor do you know what is truth and what isn't. You are a hater. Period. You did not need to stir up all of this shit. You did it to be mean.
I have never tried to manipulate PK. Because I didn't tell him about a pretty embarrassing situation involving one man playing me and his ex at the same time?
Give me a break. You upset Methais with this bullshit and myself, and more than likely PK too. Good job.

You can try to put the blame on me if you want to, that's okay. At the end of the day i'll be happy I was able to inform my friends about your lies, and you'll still be batshit crazy.

[Rucca]

You can try to put the blame on me if you want to, that's okay. At the end of the day i'll be happy I was able to inform my friends about your lies, and you'll still be batshit crazy.

Whatever makes you sleep good at night.

[Delias]

Moral of this thread is:

Don't have sex with random, creepy people from this game.

Least that would be my best advice to anyone, regardless of flavor.

I think we can all agree this means random creepy people OTHER than me.

[NocturnalRob]

He's one of the worst on Food Network.
You is ignant.

[waywardgs]

This thread =
http://students.kennesaw.edu/~sjacobs9/roflstomp.JPG

But I'm not sure who's the duck.

[Jayvn]

I'd have to say paula deen is the worst.. with her fake i'm SOOO southern... she improperly places Y'all whenever she feels like to sound more 'southy'... There are proper placements of 'y'all' here in the south...

[diethx]

Also, just to put things in perspective:



There's a difference between not wanting to talk to pk about your past relationship and telling pk that Methais wanted to take your relationship IRL, invited himself out to California to meet you which freaked you out, and then started obsessively stalking you.

You could've just decided not to mention it rather than fabricating some crazy fucking story that Meth didn't deserve.
That was all true. All of it. And are you telling me you don't tell your boyfriend things that upset you? You just keep it in and don't mention it?
The only harm done here is that my boyfriend decided to tell someone like you what I shared with him, privately.


You know nothing about me. Nothing. Nor do you know what is truth and what isn't. You are a hater. Period. You did not need to stir up all of this shit. You did it to be mean.
I have never tried to manipulate PK. Because I didn't tell him about a pretty embarrassing situation involving one man playing me and his ex at the same time?
Give me a break. You upset Methais with this bullshit and myself, and more than likely PK too. Good job.

Man you change your story minute to minute here. You should really pick a story and go with it.

[4a6c1]

I'm seriously inclined to believe Methais here. Your "boyfriend" could not have been too serious, considering it's Androidpk and you started fucking him a few months ago at most, so the idea that you have some sacred bond is fucking pathetic.

PS. You're still an inspiration for me to continue being successful at life, so thanks. Hope your daughter doesn't follow your example and fuck up her chance at being someone (she will).

Very astute. The child is clearly pre-disposed to fail at life as a direct result of the parents sexual voracity.

OR

ANGRY BOB MAKE NO SENSE KID DUMB U FAIL I MAD NO SEX ARGHHH

[shad0ws0ngs]

Bahahahahahaha,, so hilarious

[Bobmuhthol]

I don't have a formal study to link you to, but I am more than confident that there is a direct correlation between being an adolescent girl with a fucked up mother and growing up to be a fucked up mother. I see it enough anecdotally alone.

[AnticorRifling]

Very astute. The child is clearly pre-disposed to fail at life as a direct result of the parents sexual voracity.

OR

ANGRY BOB MAKE NO SENSE KID DUMB U FAIL I MAD NO SEX ARGHHH

Lol I'm glad you got to this first, you're nicer than me.

[Gizmo]

Very astute. The child is clearly pre-disposed to fail at life as a direct result of the parents sexual voracity.

OR

ANGRY BOB MAKE NO SENSE KID DUMB U FAIL I MAD NO SEX ARGHHH

It's ok, I'm a Nympho too...Just a tad bit more smart and responsible about it

[Anothi]

I don't have a formal study to link you to, but I am more than confident that there is a direct correlation between being an adolescent girl with a fucked up mother and growing up to be a fucked up mother. I see it enough anecdotally alone.

SON! GET 'UM!

[Rucca]

Also, just to put things in perspective:





Man you change your story minute to minute here. You should really pick a story and go with it.

Let me explain it to you. Since you can't comprehend.
When I said it was true, all of it. I am talking about Methais wanting to come out to see me, and me telling him no. That was true. Again, none of your damn business.
The second part is me being led on by Methais. He openly admits to keeping me and his gf in tow, and if things didn't work out with her, he'd have me.
So how is that changing the story?

[Back]

It's ok, I'm a Nympho too...Just a tad bit more smart and responsible about it

So are you single?

Ba-dum tish.

PS. Just in case anyone tries to use this against me in the future this post was made for the solicitation of lulz and nothing else you cheeky bastards.

[4a6c1]

Back is for teh gays?

[Bobmuhthol]

I think it has something to do with the part where you don't deny that Methais "invited himself out to California to meet you which freaked you out, and then started obsessively stalking you," and yet when you describe it you simply say, "Yeah, what you said I said happened is what happened; he asked and I said no."

[waywardgs]

If you're a single mother, where are you finding the time to fly all over the country to have teh secks with random internet dudes?

[Bobmuhthol]

Woah, hold on there bro, don't question her parenting skills.

[Back]

Back is for teh gays?

Why do you have to label everything?

[diethx]

Let me explain it to you. Since you can't comprehend.
When I said it was true, all of it. I am talking about Methais wanting to come out to see me, and me telling him no. That was true. Again, none of your damn business.
The second part is me being led on by Methais. He openly admits to keeping me and his gf in tow, and if things didn't work out with her, he'd have me.
So how is that changing the story?

Then shouldn't you have said "That's true, one small bit of it." and then elaborated, instead of "That was all true, all of it."?

Alright, I can't keep running around in batshit insane circles here with you.

You got caught, deal with it. Next time you invite drama into your life by lying about people, well maybe just don't do it? I dunno. Maybe your batshit insane brain can't help it.

[HJFudge]

If you're a single mother, where are you finding the time to fly all over the country to have teh secks with random internet dudes?

I was kinda curious as to that myself. What, exactly, do you tell the sitter?

"Oh hey, gonna bang I guy I met in a game. Take care of Junior for me!"

[Methais]

Let me explain it to you. Since you can't comprehend.
When I said it was true, all of it. I am talking about Methais wanting to come out to see me, and me telling him no. That was true. Again, none of your damn business.
The second part is me being led on by Methais. He openly admits to keeping me and his gf in tow, and if things didn't work out with her, he'd have me.
So how is that changing the story?

Actually it went like this, in late September or October I believe it was, which was already after you came to visit in July, for the calendar impaired:

You: We need to find a way for you to come visit sometime soon.
Me: /agree

A while later:

Me: What do you think about the possibility of me coming to see you sometime soon if no more crazy drama happens?
You: I wouldn't be opposed to that, but let's wait and see what happens.

Then a couple weeks or a month or whatever later I ask again and...

You: Well, the reason I say let's wait right now is because I'm still considering moving out there with you, and if I do, you need to save up your money.

What didn't happen was:

Me: Hey can I come visit you?
You: No!
Me: OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG /stalker

Nice try though.

[waywardgs]

Woah, hold on there bro, don't question her parenting skills.

I wasn't questioning her parenting skills. I want to know who taught her the mad time management skillz.

[Rucca]

I think it has something to do with the part where you don't deny that Methais "invited himself out to California to meet you which freaked you out, and then started obsessively stalking you," and yet when you describe it you simply say, "Yeah, what you said I said happened is what happened; he asked and I said no."

It's because I'm not an asshole. This is all third person bullshit anyway. You do not have my exact words to PK about how I felt in all of this. You are listening to someone like Diethx who clearly has it out for me.
I truly cared about Meth and didn't want to hurt him. I also didn't want him to come out to see me when there was no chance of us being together. Not once did I ever claim he was obsessively stalking me. He did bombard me with tons of IMs and PMs after the fact, and I shared that with PK, since he was the only one I had to talk to about it.
Forgive me for not being a name caller and a shit talker.

[Sam]

I can't keep up. Need more summarization.

[diethx]

You are listening to someone like Diethx who clearly has it out for me.

Why on earth would I have it out for you? OH WAIT, I must be a Rucca-stalker too.

Jesus titty-fucking christ, you're a psycho.

[Anothi]

I was kinda curious as to that myself. What, exactly, do you tell the sitter?

"Oh hey, gonna bang I guy I met in a game. Take care of Junior for me!"

I think she totes her daughter along with her...

[Rucca]

Why on earth would I have it out for you? OH WAIT, I must be a Rucca-stalker too.

Jesus titty-fucking christ, you're a psycho.

Actually you are. For starting all of this, for no reason at all. There was nothing bad going on, Methais and I had stopped talking a few months ago. He moved on and so did I.
There was no name calling, no talking shit, nothing.
You IMed Methais with all of this info from something I told someone I was close to, in private, back in December.
I applaud you. Maybe there is hope for you yet as a guest star on Jersey Shore.