They either should stand up and say "Fuck you dreaven because we can and so we do" and ban your activities (at least that would be an honest reason instead of hiding behind arbitrary policy enforcement) or they should find a way to just make this work for the Elanthia we now live in. Not sure it's possible, but could they create a new table at the Wayside Inn that is reserved for Dreaven and has unique settings to minimize the large amount of activity that takes place? Same of HotA, give them 2 secret access rooms in Reim with similarly tailored settings to address the probelms cropping up. I think both groups have put in enough effort at this point to deserve it. In any case, ban it cause you want to or work on a solution. Spending time working on a way to make it against the rules is dumb.
As you navigate this shit show Dreaven, be wary. It's clear there are those who wish you ill and they are in positions to do that if you get loose. They may not officially monitor LNET but that doesn't mean they can't use it to send you the "tap" command on some random alt and still peg you for botting. Maybe have a rewritable paper your "bots" could collect names on then you actively trigger the script that runs of that list? I don't know. You're obviously an intelligent guy and will figure something out. I've never been shy about my personal dislike of the dreavenings, but I dislike the way this is being handled and misrepresented exponentially more so.
"Hi, my name is Ososis and I'm blaming my shitty life for being such a fragile, soy drinking, emotionally unstable loser. My triggers are: Red reputation, ANY mention of MacGuyver and being called a fragile, soy drinking, emotionally unstable loser."