You will have to forgive me Daid, though considering I showed up for those previous events that were canceled, because it is a requirement to attend both a meeting and an event to join BHA. I attended one of your meetings and everyone at that meeting seemed to be ok with my joining, including yourself.
Without going to deeply into detail, this person in the past has had the rules bent for them on the WI they so flippantly handed out. One would think that if they were about improving the house and the town they could easily set this prepubescent behavior aside for a weekend. I in know way spoke to this person, made any emotes towards them, I went out of my way to not be disruptive. There was no reason at all for this person to put in a report other than to cause their drama.
I was there to show support for your house, I was there to show support for the community. I have given to your house without being a member, I was the closest of friends with that houses founding members, books on your library shelves were written by my dearest friends.
I'm truly sorry to both you and the house, my wishes were to be an active member, one that shows up for events. As much as I hate to say and as much as it breaks my heart to say it, you folks have had the wool pulled over your eyes. I only wish there was a way I could make you and your members see how poor of a decision they have made.
I truly do have the best wishes for you all, but sometimes we have to live with our choices and learn from them, myself included.
~Lalkcriga