I keep reading this as gentile - which is probably also accurate.
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Why am I attracting these people all of a sudden? So I'm at Wendy's and had just gotten my food and I'm getting a straw for my drink when someone comes in from outside and walks right up to me and starts going into this sob story about how he's 200 miles away from home because he was visiting his daughter who just had a baby and he doesn't have enough gas money to get home and he forgot his wallet (uh huh) and he talked to his wife (why wasn't she there for the baby?) and she said don't ask anyone and he told her "I'm going to ask someone because I believe in the goodness of people and someone will help me out and not think I'm just another bum begging for money." So I look in my wallet and all I had was a dollar (because I had just paid for my artery clogging bacon cheeseburger and chili) and I tell him all I can spare is a dollar and he looks at me like he's going to hit me, waves his hand at me in a dismissive manner and says "Just forget about it."
Well shit, assuming this guy's story was true what did he expect? The first person he comes across was going to give a total stranger in Wendy's 40 dollars to get home or what? Time to go back to my old cynical attitude and just say no while they're talking and walk away.
Effaqa, darling. You didn't really think he was talking about ears, did you?
Mixed results on my "dress for success" outfit. We had an MSW open house, and my field placement although professional, isn't super stiff on rules, so I was having a little trouble finding something I thought worked, but I also can't wear heels yet because I suck at walking in them normally, and my balance isn't right yet. So I wore my best pair of non-high heels, and still stumbled around cause they're leather boots, stockings, dress, sweater.
Professor and a friend said I looked nice, but friend said "you look like a dirty hippie trying to dress up" and another friend said I looked disheveled :| this made me frown.
It sounds like they were referring more to you yourself rather than your outfit. Considering you were just puking for a week straight, I think your friends were being a little harsh!
Dishevel is a weird word, it's from dis-hevel but we say dish-evel.
You know what else isn't super stiff............................................. ..........................
I thought it looked okay. I even wore makeup!!!
Well, disheveled girl is a bit of a bitch.
For a more professional look, I probably would have left off the wool scarf at the very least. You do look cute but not professional, no.
I don't think you look disheveled. You look pretty but not professional. Conflicting patterns are a no. The jewelry is a distraction because of its size. I almost always go with a sleek updo for work hair (but that's also because Texas = friz). Unless you have perfect hair don't wear it down. Your hair looks like prom hair. Formal is not professional.
A cute dark blazer and a simple chain w/charm instead of the pendant would have made it a neat appearance. I cannot see your bottoms but dark dress pants would have been best. Panty hose or dress socks and tasteful shoes heel height optional. It's not fair but as a woman you are always making a statement with your shoes. Shoes are everything for me. I always like to know who I'm trying to impress before I choose my shoes. All advice is based on the shirt which is cute and could be appropriate.
Its an A line dress that comes just past the bottom of my knee cap.
idk, some people had khaki's and (nice) crew neck shirts.
two girls wore jeans
:|
all good advice nonetheless, I need more tops for my dress pants.