Like Arnold in T3, I am not shitting you.
If you really want a cold splash in the face, scroll down
this page until you get to suicides by age. It's not emotional teenagers or snotty kids or those college kids with their reefers. It's 50 year olds.
You are 100% right about how this is a bummer, and it's another thing to punch God right in the face for if you ever meet Him. What it means to be a bummer is we don't want to think about it, talk about it... and because we don't, nothing changes, it keeps on the same way. What kind of design is that? This shit wouldn't fly in beta, let alone public release.