I've never had to mess around with it before, but probably in your Simu/Wizard/Gemstone folder. There are several settings there for each character,...
You will never, ever have this problem because you aren't smart enough for anything, let alone making a smart declaration or realizing it was smart....
"I mean sure.. we pretended that Trump was ZOMGCOLLUDING WITH RUSSIA and ZOMGQUIDPROQUO WITH UKRAINE and ZOMGARMEDINSURRECTION AND COUP.. and none of...