My Behavior in GS -- How have I been doing?

[LordWarclaidhm]

As for the people that care to answer this question (I know some of the folks here will always hate me no matter what I do, but that's their problem), How have I been doing in Gemstone IV prior to that when I left for 7 months? Better? Worse?

I realize that some/most would say that I need to lay back on being annoying on the Psinet. I'm not trying to be annoying, of course, but I see how people can view it that way. Especially people here on this forum on which most have a short fuse on this type of stuff.


Although that, keep this in mind:
If people had the choice to either two things, (Where on this Psinet you are allowed to say anything you want without getting in trouble) A) Talk about nice things or B) Cuss everyone out and talk about all about negative things.

They would most LIKELY choose B. Why? Because they can do choice B and not in trouble. Plus, most humans have the habit of always thinking and dwelling on the negative; intsead of the positive.

Now, I don't want this thread to go off track and begin a debate on the above statement. I want this conversation to be about how I'm improved/if I've improved/ and if so how can I improve more.

Please, take this seriously and be honest.


Thanks for your help guys.

PS:
I also noticed there have been less and less threads about me now. Which must be a good thing..

>>I also noticed there have been less and less threads about me now. Which must be a good thing..<<

Capitalize on that.

[Edited on 10-3-2004 by Stanley Burrell]

[Latrinsorm]

>>Plus, most humans have the habit of always thinking and dwelling on the negative; intsead of the positive.

You can improve yourself by disproving that statement. Disprove to improve.

(also, read the Bible and the Bhagavad Gita)

[Tsa`ah]

Let me offer you this small bit of advice.

Don't ask how you're doing in a place that flames your ass to a charred briquette.

You don't want that attention.

You already answered you question by stating there are less threads about you.

KEEP IT THAT WAY!

[HarmNone]

I don't play, so I can't say how you're doing. I guess, if I were to make a suggestion, it would be to lie low, say little, listen much, and don't try to merchant. ;)

HarmNone

[Stunseed]

< don't try to merchant. >

Your posts on the official boards are like you never left.

Just leave and don't come back

[Syberus]

I haven't seen or heard of you doing something incredibly stupid yet if that helps.

[Souzy]

I haven't seen any threads so far. But, I don't play anymore, so...

Anyway, you shouldn't care, you pay for the damn acct. or your parents do. Why would you ask a spot where you was flamed? Why care? Do yo' thang. On a side note, do well in school and just say no to drugs. :cool2:

[Brattt8525]

I kow alot of people do not like him, but that odes not mean you should intentionally go out of your way to aggitate him. I have heard and seen many of you posters trying to make him act badly, or just plainly pick on him. So far I think he has been trying to change, and coming here to get some positive feedback might be JUST what he needs.

NOT being told to go away, or what have you.....sheesh sometimes when I read these boards, I think we are back on the playground of en elementary school.

[Meos]

I just think your a freak. You making this thread proves it to me.

[LordWarclaidhm]

Originally posted by Lalana
I haven't seen any threads so far. But, I don't play anymore, so...

Anyway, you shouldn't care, you pay for the damn acct. or your parents do. Why would you ask a spot where you was flamed? Why care? Do yo' thang. On a side note, do well in school and just say no to drugs. :cool2:

Thanks. I learned alot of how to behave on this flash movie: http://www.albinoblacksheep.com/flash/posting.php

That flash animation dun gone give me nightmares.

[Souzy]

Ugh...I've seen that one, from a CS forum? Thx for making my eyes hurt. Now you must die.

[GSLeloo]

In response to Bratt... I thought everyone here and in GS picked on Warclaidhm. I honestly felt bad for him. I tried to be his friend, I tried to stick up for him. Well as it always goes he basically backstabbed me. Sometimes when everyone hates a single person... it's for good reasons.

[StrayRogue]

Please stop begging for spells.
Please stop whining when someone won't help you.
Please stop saying things like "Anyone picking some boxes (levels 10-20)". The brackets are just as OOC as saying it.

[J-Tech]

I'm disapointed in your ass. We had a deep talk when you quit and i thought u were done 4 good. Guess i was wrong, another person i had faith in that fail to live up to there word. I hope your not acting like a jack ass again, cause you had good goals infront of your eyes, and i hope you've achieved at least a portion of those goals in your time gone.

J

[Bobmuhthol]

To add to Stay's advice:

Please shut the fuck up.

[LordWarclaidhm]

Originally posted by GSLeloo
In response to Bratt... I thought everyone here and in GS picked on Warclaidhm. I honestly felt bad for him. I tried to be his friend, I tried to stick up for him. Well as it always goes he basically backstabbed me. Sometimes when everyone hates a single person... it's for good reasons.


And how exactly did I backstab you? If I remember right, I asked you to forgive me for this long ago even though I didn't think I ever "backstabbed you". You rejected, and instead of trying to help me, you began saying negative comments and putting me, and others down.


Personally, you became from someone who is helpful and supportive, to someone who seems to hate you, and does nothing but put you down.


Not sure if you study the Bible or not, I don't, but there are many true things in there, this is one of them (and it said something like this, I don't remember it exactly:)

"Forgive your enemies, and be nice to your friends".


Don't quote me on this, it said somethinig similiar to that. And that's very true. I had much respect for you Leloo, but even if I did backstab you (which is what you think) don't take it so personally and try to resolve things. If that doesn't work, don't put me down emotionally, etc. That doesn't help ANYONE, and by doing that is showing that you are selfish, hence you did not seem to care for my feelings, or anyone elses.

Oh, and remember. For every action there is a potential consequence(s). Try to [b]think of that that of that consequence before you say it.

Ask yourself,

"If I say this to that person, will I hurt his/her feelings?"
Then,
"How would he/she respond?"
Then,
"Would this make the situation worse?"[/i]



Thank you for your understanding.

[Edited on 10-3-2004 by LordWarclaidhm]

[Edited on 10-3-2004 by LordWarclaidhm]

[Bobmuhthol]

<<Not sure if you study the Bible or not, I don't, but there are many true things in there, this is one of them (and it said something like this, I don't remember it exactly

"Forgive your enemies, and be nice to your friends".>>

Way to make shit up. You have no clue what you're talking about.

Heh, warclaidhms last post sounded really weird in the "I'm gonna kill you if you talk about me" kinda way

[GSLeloo]

Ok don't quote things that are beyond your intelligence level. I was upfront with you. I was honest with you. Then you proved yourself to be a shady bastard so I didn't bother to waste another moment on trying to help you.

Again...

I also noticed there have been less and less threads about me now. Which must be a good thing..

One time, ooh ah!

Twice times, ooh ah!

[StrayRogue]

Oh yes, stop fucking moaing on the boards when someone doesn't sell something to you/doesn't respond to you.

[longshot]

I thought you were in therapy to quit?

Warclitoris is no quitter, that's for sure!!

We knew you'd be back.

[Meos]

You could still win though, you can still quit.

[LordWarclaidhm]

Wow, I guess I was right.


90% of everyone on this forum are selfish people, who have no life, and yet harass/put people down just because they feel like it.

Leloo, I am intelligent. Perhaps you don't see that. I thought my post was clear enough. You still missed the point completly in the post.

What will people do if you take a bunch of people addicted to an online game (especially text), and put them on a forum with no rules? Do whatever the fuc* they want. That's what. Because there are no boundries, and if people have the choice of choosing the negative (harassing others, putting people down, etc) from the postiive, they will choose the negative

Look at the main titles of each thread. Which one has the most posts? Well, obviously, Gemstone Complaints. I wonder why?

There are always people out there that will hate another no matter what. Anyone, Bill Gates, you name it, anyone. There is always someone out there. On these forums, I have done mistakes in the past. But I'm coming back here with a sickening feeling in my stomach of how ruthless you folks are. I simply asked of my progress on these forums. And instead of answering my question maturely (or even answering it all), you go to plan B and harass me, and use threads to put me down.

It's upsetting that that's the best you can do. And it's pretty damn selfish too.

This statement goes to anyone who has done wrong with me. Sometimes its derseved, I can understand that. But sometimes it's not, and that's what upsets me.

If you REALLY can't understand that my posts here (especially on this thread) are intelligent, and helpful most of the time, I don't know what to say.

Especially you Leloo. I was trying to HELP YOU, with those tips. How is that not intelligent? It's alot more intelligent than you resorting to selfish insults to try and solve your problems.

[Edited on 10-3-2004 by LordWarclaidhm]

Leave the guy alone. If he's trying to improve, then let him go for it.

- Arkans

Shut up you degenerate

[Sean]

Part of your problem is that you just make things up or don't explain properly.

Things like gemstone complaints having the most posts which obviously isn't true. Off topic has over twice as many posts and socializing is close to complains and was created much more recently.

Using that as a basis for people are spiteful and nasty because gemstone complaints has the mosts posts really isn't a smart thing to do. Then again neither is making up numbers like 90%.

That being said I havn't had a problem with your IG because I don't go out of my way to interact with you. But RL all I can say is that I personally thing you should seek some help.

[Parkbandit]

Originally posted by Arkans
Leave the guy alone. If he's trying to improve, then let him go for it.

- Arkans

You must be new to these boards.. he's been posting shit like this here for a while.

Then he gets mad.. and says we are idiots and that he will never post here again.

Then he will make a new name up and redo the entire drama out again.

It was tired the first 3 times he did it.. it's still tired.

[GSLeloo]

Honestly you wanna try to improve then do. But don't come here and try to act like you're better than everyone else or try and seek praise for the fact that maybe you haven't been the creature you were when you left. Try changing without seeking praise for it.

I'm new to dealing with him. I'll give him the benifit of the doubt. Maybe if we just tried dealing with him on a clean slate..?

- Arkans

[Sean]

Kind of hard to deal with someone on a clean slate when they've messed it up so many times before. Like he did with des ka for example. Not only that but hes asking everyone to compare himself to his former self.

[GSLeloo]

Originally posted by Arkans
I'm new to dealing with him. I'll give him the benifit of the doubt. Maybe if we just tried dealing with him on a clean slate..?

- Arkans

I did that exact same thing. I protected him in threads, protected him in game. Tried to be nice to him.... well that blew up in my face.

Most likely the majority here is correct. I'll just continue to make my half-assed attempt in defending him until he fucks up. I feel bad for him, I guess.

- Arkans

[Parkbandit]

Originally posted by Arkans
Most likely the majority here is correct. I'll just continue to make my half-assed attempt in defending him until he fucks up. I feel bad for him, I guess.

- Arkans

Been there, done that. I've probably given him more clean slates than most.. and he inevitably shits on them.

He'll get nothing from me but honesty.

He's a dumbass.

[Bobmuhthol]

<<Do whatever the fuc* they want.>>

You need a lesson in internet etiquette. This means that you're a fucking retard.

<<Look at the main titles of each thread. Which one has the most posts? Well, obviously, Gemstone Complaints. I wonder why?>>

Sorry, that holds no weight. There's a Stats page and it says the following:

The most popular forum is Off-Topic with 95545 posts and 3038 topics

<<Anyone, Bill Gates, you name it, anyone.>>

You win the stupidest sentence ever award.

<<On these forums, I have done mistakes in the past. But I'm coming back here with a sickening feeling in my stomach of how ruthless you folks are.>>

Hey, I did you a favor and hacked a website to make the product more affordable. Get to buying it.

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v375/Bobmuhthol1/1337scooter.jpg

<<Especially you Leloo. I was trying to HELP YOU, with those tips. How is that not intelligent? It's alot more intelligent than you resorting to selfish insults to try and solve your problems.>>

You're still an idiot.

[Hulkein]

Wow man... You seriously have obsession problems.

I feel bad for this guys first girlfriend and the first guy who fires him from a job.

He's going to fucking stalk both of them asking 'WHY??? AM I BETTER? PLEASE GRADE ME I WON'T DO X Y AND Z ANYMORE.'

Showing up bi-weekly to ask those same questions will go over well I'm sure.

[Latrinsorm]

Originally posted by LordWarclaidhm
Personally, you became from someone who is helpful and supportive, to someone who seems to hate you, and does nothing but put you down.Dude, it's Leloo you're talking about. She's like the third nicest person here. I doubt this is a case of her being a meaniehead for no reason.

The "love your enemies" deal occurs right after the Beatitudes, and Jesus doesn't mention friends outside of "even dirty communists love their friends" (that's not a direct quote). I could have sworn it said "love your enemies and hate your friends", but it doesn't.

It almost sickens me that you quote such a beautiful message, then insult and order around those who you feel have wronged you. :( I was on such a good buzz after seeing Saved! too. And it's a sad, sad, SAD day when Arkans' empathy picks me up. Then again, Artha hasn't posted in this thread.

"And it's a sad, sad, SAD day when Arkans' empathy picks me up."


Hey! Wait a minute!!!

- Arkans

[Latrinsorm]

Yeah, that might have been undeserved. :saint:

[LordWarclaidhm]

Originally posted by Latrinsorm

Originally posted by LordWarclaidhm
Personally, you became from someone who is helpful and supportive, to someone who seems to hate you, and does nothing but put you down.Dude, it's Leloo you're talking about. She's like the third nicest person here. I doubt this is a case of her being a meaniehead for no reason.

The "love your enemies" deal occurs right after the Beatitudes, and Jesus doesn't mention friends outside of "even dirty communists love their friends" (that's not a direct quote). I could have sworn it said "love your enemies and hate your friends", but it doesn't.

It almost sickens me that you quote such a beautiful message, then insult and order around those who you feel have wronged you. :( I was on such a good buzz after seeing Saved! too. And it's a sad, sad, SAD day when Arkans' empathy picks me up. Then again, Artha hasn't posted in this thread.

If you were saved and a true christian:

A) You wouldn't visit these forums.
B) If you did (you do) visit these forums, You would be more supportive and helpful. I've only seen negative comments from you.

[Stunseed]

If you were saved and a true christian:

A) You wouldn't visit these forums.
B) If you did (you do) visit these forums, You would be more supportive and helpful. I've only seen negative comments from you..


And if the world was all in harmony, YOU wouldn't be reading these forums. YOU would not be a moron who makes generalized statements with no backing. Please don't "if" things, you will only make things worse.

[HarmNone]

Warclaidhm, there are a lot of people who post on these boards. There are Christian people, Jewish people, Islamic people, Pagan people, Wiccan people, Atheistic people, Agnostic people, and who knows who else. To make a statement that indicates that someone is not a true Christian if they post here is simply not the thing to do.

Personally, I don't think you should be playing GemStone. You're too sensitive to the judgements of others, and too unsure of yourself. You're a walking, talking, typing target, hon, in the game and on these boards. You really, really need to find another outlet for yourself, whether it be sports, or reading, or study, or hanging out with friends. Whatever it is, it should not be GemStone, and it should not be these boards. At least, not at this point in your life.

HarmNone, offering a bit of advice to someone who badly needs to listen.....

[LordWarclaidhm]

And if the world was all in harmony......


That is impossible, my friend.

[Latrinsorm]

I'd like to hear how my first post has anything but good vibes. I'd also like to hear how you have any grounds to declare these boards unfit for Christians.

More than either of those, I'd like to see you show me how a good person acts by living an example of said goodness. You certainly aren't bereft of role models.

I'm Atheist Jew, and that above statements about "true Christians" was enough to alert me to your bogus generalizations and the negative factors they will play if you continue posting here.

[Stunseed]

That is impossible, my friend.

So is the thought that ALL christians MUST act a certain way. People sin, get fucking used to it.

[LordWarclaidhm]

Originally posted by Latrinsorm
I'd like to hear how my first post has anything but good vibes. I'd also like to hear how you have any grounds to declare these boards unfit for Christians.

More than either of those, I'd like to see you show me how a good person acts by living an example of said goodness. You certainly aren't bereft of role models.

Perhaps you misunderstood me. I'm NOT declaring anything unfit for christians. That was not my point at all folks. I did not mean to offend anyone. Nor did I mean to try and say "the true" christian.

I simply said that one person on these forums mentioned, in a sense, that Jesus does not love everyone. And this is not the case. That is one of the #1 things in christian. Believing in christ. So I just said he probably isn't a true christian in my eyes if he doesn't believe in christ.

Does that make sense?

[Axhinde]

This isn't church. Why are you preaching?

[4a6c1]

Originally posted by Latrinsorm
>>(also, read the Bible and the Bhagavad Gita)

:lol:

Your the shit for putting those in the same suggestive sentence.

Edited to add the question: Who the hell is Warclaidhm and why are the I-hate-Coinner-and-Candor threads being neglected?

*tisk tisk*

:D

[Edited on 10-3-2004 by JihnasSpirit]

[Skirmisher]

LordWarclaidhm,

How many people here have given you the advice to not post here anymore while identifying yourself as Warclaidhm?

I know I have and that I said it in a manner that was intended in purely a benevelant manner. I know others did the same.

You only get so many chances with most people before they will write you off as a lost cause.

You need a new start. As was pointed out earlier, we have not had a huge number of threads about you since your return until you drew attention to yourself. I am forced to wonder if you simply crave the attention no matter how negative, or are saddled with a tremendous learning disability to not have absorbed your lesson here.

If you have indeed made a new start in GS I am glad to hear it. Do enjoy your time there but don't make a spectacle of yourself here and then complain and try to preach. Coming from one such as yourself with the history that you do it will just not ever play well.

[Vesi]

Originally posted by LordWarclaidhm
Does that make sense?

No. Nothing you say makes sense. I'm sorry but I've been nice before. You are too DENSE to take a hint. Quit posting. 90% of us are awful (your quote) remember? Run far far away.

If you want to play GS... then do it. Quit coming here for some stupid validation. I doubt your going to find it.

Vesi the heathen

P. S. Please don't U2U me like you have before asking why I don't like you or think you're sad. Thanks.

Fuck, no it didn't make sense, thanks Vesi, I just didn't want to come off as a prick with a blatant, "No dumbshit!" <3

[Vesi]

Originally posted by Stanley Burrell
Fuck, no it didn't make sense, thanks Vesi, I just didn't want to come off as a prick with a blatant, "No dumbshit!" <3

How'd I do Stanley?

A++ :D

[Vesi]

Originally posted by Stanley Burrell
A++ :D

Heh

[Miss X]

Wow I'm confused....

Firstly, I genuinely believe that you should not be playing Gemstone. You are correct in your observation, there have not been many threads about you here lately. If I were you I would have endeavoured to keep it that way, unfortunately you decided not to. I heard you on PsiNet talking about how it was weird that people don't create threads about you here anymore. :(

I feel sad that you come here for attention knowing that many people here have nothing pleasant to say to you hon. You should be getting positive attention and praise from other places. Your school friends, parents, teachers, church or where ever, not here.

You make too many generalisations too dear. For example, you claimed that 90% of people here are just here to give negative comments. That simply isn't true. We have a very eclectic mix of personalities on these boards, we have some people who will attack others without a second thought, we have some who flame on occasion, we have some who try their best not to. All of these people make the PC what it is and I think it's great.

You have to bare in mind that people judge us on our past behaviour, as humans it is the only way we can form an opinion about a persons identity. I'm sure you would be the first to admit you may have made mistakes and some people will have simply had enough. They don't want to forgive or interact with you, that is their choice and you won't change that. Accept what you cannot change hon, move on.

This has turned into a bit of an essay, but I do want to say a few more things. You are correct in your statement, if a person does not believe in Christ then of course they are not a Christian. Christianity as a religion is pretty much centred on the existence of Christ, or the faith in his existence. I may have been dreaming but if you are trying to claim Latrinsorm doesn't believe in Christ you perhaps need to do a little research. :)

That being said, just because a person does not believe in Christ doesn't mean they can't live their life in an inherently Christian way. There are good people everywhere who don't define themselves as Christian just as there are bad people who do. Are you suggesting that because I do not 'love' everyone I am not a true Christian? I sincerely hope not.

I'm afraid I have rambled on a lot, I perhaps should have U2U'd this to you instead but you are welcome to IM or U2U me if you have an issue with something I have said.

I hope you keep safe and well.

[Bobmuhthol]

I can't believe no one said anything about the scooter. :(

[LordWarclaidhm]

Originally posted by Miss X
I feel sad that you come here for attention knowing that many people here have nothing pleasant to say to you hon.


I realize I get NO postive attention or reinforcement, or praise (except for a few people) on these boards. Even though I've been trying to change, most people hear have heard me say that a billion times and think, "Whatever, he's a dumbass, he will never. he's said it a billion times before, what makes me think this time is different?"


Well, for one. The boot camp really changed in alot of ways. If you realize it or not, I've been alot more helpful.

The reason I really do come here is that its the ONLY place I can go to to see what I'm doing wrong and how to improve. Even if people do nothing but harass me, there is a bit of truth to it. If I can see path the sarcasm, the flames, the harassment, and see the truth though these posts, then that will help me.

It's kind of useless posting this on the official GS forums:

1) They would delete it
2) No one would respond, give helpfu ladvice. There's not a place to post it.

So I come here. Even if I DO get negative comments (and I do..barely anyone says anything postiive) and it DOES hurt me alot emotionally, (i have sensitive feelings) I guess I'm just to passive. I'm too open. Sometimes this gets me in trouble

So my point is, the reason I keep coming back, even though these comments really do hurt me, no matter if I read them or not, no matter if I try to ignore them or not. They hurt me. In some way or another. I come here because there is a grain of truth of this, and there is a reason this many people hate me. and I'm trying to learn from it.

...Even if it means being harassed in the process. I'm sick of this.


The reason I WILL NOT under any circumstances, re roll in the game, or get another ID here is:

What good will that do? It's simply "hiding" or camoflaging who I think I am. That isn't improving yourself, that's hiding yourself. I realize not everyone will forgive me, and most won't, but some will. And getting some back is my goal. I have to improve, and simply giving up by re rolling or changing my ID IS NOT the answer.


Thank you.

[Souzy]

ugh...too many words.

[Bobmuhthol]

<<Well, for one. The boot camp really changed in alot of ways.>>

Hahahahahahahaha, this is probably as true as your "I'm a 30 year old cop!!!" story.

<<I guess I'm just to passive.>>

Dur. Fucking idiot alert.

<<So my point is, the reason I keep coming back, even though these comments really do hurt me, no matter if I read them or not, no matter if I try to ignore them or not. They hurt me. In some way or another.>>

There's a name for people like you. Masochistic.

<<...Even if it means being harassed in the process. I'm sick of this.>>

You're sick of something that you willingly and knowingly bring upon yourself? Looks like it's our fault, then, and not yours. <---- JUST KIDDING.

<<What good will that do? It's simply "hiding" or camoflaging who I think I am.>>

Exactly. You should just quit instead.

<<That isn't improving yourself, that's hiding yourself.>>

I've gathered that from the previous sentence. Learn how to get to the point, eh?

<<And getting some back is my goal.>>

Fuck.

[Bobmuhthol]

Username Time: What they are currently doing..
Bobmuhthol 07:32 AM Viewing members online
LordWarclaidhm 07:28 AM Reading a u2u

Giggle giggle.

[Adhara]

Warclaidhm you keep saying all the negative blah blah need more positive blah blah. Ok well let me hear the positive from you now. Tell me, take your time if you need to think about it, tell me what positive came out of this thread for you. What did you gain from making this thread? Did you find valuable advice? If so, what?

Then weigh the positive you received against the negative. Was it worth it? Does the positive outweigh the negative? You'll be coming up with no if you're as sensitive as you claim to be. I, too, saw you whining on PsiNet that no one was making threads on you anymore. Somehow you're willing to accept any kind of attention, good or bad, and that should be a wake up call for you.

Of course we have all been hoping for a long time that you would wake up and see it like it is. Well, if it's any consolation, some of us still hope.

[StrayRogue]

If you couldn't handle the responses you asked for, why did you post? Why did you ask people how you were doing in Gemstone? You asked for the PC's honest opinion on your performance and you got it. The fact is, like the petulent child you are, you couldn't accept the truth. You fob off everyone's reasons for hating you with shitty excuses.

Here's another little part of the Bible you are missing: You reap what you sew, do unto others as they would do unto you. You think these people are giving you hassle for the hell of it? Or maybe its because you've ripped people off, offended and caused trouble for so many of us before?

Why don't you take some of the advice here instead of creating excuses not to? I knew this would happen. It always happens with you. For God's sake have some self-respect.

[4a6c1]

I guess I'm going to have to do a search to find out about this Warclaidhm character. Damnit people, I'm lazy.

90% of you suck because your FORCING ME TO READ THESE THREADS and I'm lazy. (sorry, cheapshot. wont happen again)

le sigh

[LordWarclaidhm]

Originally posted by StrayRogue
If you couldn't handle the responses you asked for, why did you post? Why did you ask people how you were doing in Gemstone? You asked for the PC's honest opinion on your performance and you got it. The fact is, like the petulent child you are, you couldn't accept the truth. You fob off everyone's reasons for hating you with shitty excuses.

Here's another little part of the Bible you are missing: You reap what you sew, do unto others as they would do unto you. You think these people are giving you hassle for the hell of it? Or maybe its because you've ripped people off, offended and caused trouble for so many of us before?

Why don't you take some of the advice here instead of creating excuses not to? I knew this would happen. It always happens with you. For God's sake have some self-respect.

You got a good point there. As to why I post, I've already mentioned that in my last post. It was a very detailed post and I thought most folks here would understand it.But alas, that gets critism too eh.


Your next question. Same answer as above.

Yes that one time a few weeks ago I did ask for peoples honest opinion (I wasn't playing GS at the time) and was surprised at how nice everyone was. I guess that time was shortlived, or was a fluke, because obviously most of the folks have not changed.

Yes, I realize I've burned down many bridges. I realize that not many folks like me because of my redundance of questions. Annoyance, "betrayal" (Leloo comes to mind), etc.

Alot of the folks here DID like me at one point. Truth is I managed to sabatoge that somehow. So if you think I'm BS when i say ive come back from this camp and it has helped me in game and out, well, thats understandable since ive said the same thing before a billion times.

I don't expect everyone to like me. I don't want to re roll or change my ID here again. If I did, that would be giving up. That is giving up my effort to change. I've already explained in the above post all the questions you asked.

And for this ..

[Q]Why don't you take some of the advice here instead of creating excuses not to? I knew this would happen. It always happens with you. For God's sake have some self-respect. [/quote]


Umm, for that. I don't know what to say. Yes, I can see at times I have not shown "self respect". But, is everyone (most everyone) cussing me out on these boards, and harassing me senselessly having self respect either? Is that mature? No. Is that immature way to deal with problems? Yes.


I do that sometimes too. But at least now my posts are not flame attacks to anyone.

The fact is, (And I know this will happen), the people here (the majority at least) would not give a shit what I just said above. Instead, they'd pick out stupid flaws that totally negligates the entire point. Like, me saying "My posts are not flame attacks". Sure, I've had some "flame attacks" you might consider recently, but that's not the point.


No use in dealing with most the folks here. They themselfs just want to toy with me, and skip the point just because they can? :Shrug: Bob's an expert at this.
(No offence bob)

[b]**EDITED: A word added to include "most everyone". Because if I said everyone, there would be a giant argument about it, once again.

[Edited on 10-3-2004 by LordWarclaidhm]

[Artha]

I don't want to re roll or change my ID here again. If I did, that would be giving up.

Making something easier isn't giving up.

[Hulkein]

Someone give this kid a wedgie.

[Warriorbird]

I gave Warclaidhm the benefit of the doubt until he took part in a huge item scam and claimed to have a scooter accident that caused memory loss (miraculous how he knew about it that quickly) to get attention a few minutes after the RL death of a GM was announced in game.

[hectomaner]

you just wasted 10 minutes of my life by putting this post here and me reading it


die

[crazymage]

warclaidhm ->:club:<- Everyone else

[Bobmuhthol]

<<But, is everyone (most everyone) cussing me out on these boards, and harassing me senselessly having self respect either? Is that mature? No.>>

Self-respect and maturity are two entirely different concepts, retard.

<<Like, me saying "My posts are not flame attacks". Sure, I've had some "flame attacks" you might consider recently, but that's not the point.>>

Your example implies that you're a hypocrite, but you're saying that doesn't make a difference.

[Edited on 10-3-2004 by HarmNone]

[Xcalibur]

Guy (Warclaidhm) has a HUGE identity problem. Just read his post carefully, each time he's getting attacked, it's the other one the problem, the person doesn't understand him, he doesn't know how much Warclaidhm's intelligent, et cetera.


You can bet 100$ that his mother was never at home and he got raised like a dog, always someone telling him to shut up and to lay low, bla bla bla.

Boy is what now, 17? Sad to say, but there's some people in life that would be dead 100 ago, prior to wether physical weakness or mental one.

He's surely one of those.

p.s. I hope you are aware (warclaidhm) that you end up justifying yourself on these forums for, like, the 10th times for a game that is nothing to you.

Wake up, there's life outside and there's WOMEN. Your penis is your most pleasuring toy on your body, GO ENJOY THE FACT THAT YOU ARE A MAN.

Fucking idiot.:oops:

[Chelle]

Geez, okay um NO ONE is harassing you. It's not like WE sought you out and started yelling at you. YOU came here asking how you were doing. You got answers, very honest answers. Okay?

YOU chose to come here. If you truely wanted to change you would change EVERYTHING including the Warclaidhm name. I am sorry, but the negativity to the Warclaidhm name was brought on by yourself.

The definition of insanity is repeating the same behavior and expecting different results.

You make new name say you changed you ask for input and get honest opinions. Repeat.

Edited to add: I seriously do not understand why you care so much what people here think of you. Why do you need our approval? If you want to change, then do it. It takes time, or even a very very long time if you've built up a bad rep. What you wanted was to come in and say hey I change and the people here to be all like okay we :heart: you now! yay! No that's not how it works. Sorry.

[Edited on 10-3-2004 by Chelle]

[Double0RX7]

Holy fuck... After just reading a few posts in this thread I need to say something: WHAT THE FUCK?????? ITS A GAME PEOPLE. STOP ALL THE FUCKING DRAMA IT IS JUST THE INTERNET? YOU FEEL "HURT" BY ANYTHING ON THE INTERNET WTF??? Ok, sorry I just had to get that out. Seriously though, reading this shit I have now wasted 10 minutes of my life I can never get back. God help me.

[Artha]

You'd just have spent it masturbating anyway.

[LordWarclaidhm]

Originally posted by Chelle
Geez, okay um NO ONE is harassing you. It's not like WE sought you out and started yelling at you. YOU came here asking how you were doing. You got answers, very honest answers. Okay?

YOU chose to come here. If you truely wanted to change you would change EVERYTHING including the Warclaidhm name. I am sorry, but the negativity to the Warclaidhm name was brought on by yourself.

The definition of insanity is repeating the same behavior and expecting different results.

You make new name say you changed you ask for input and get honest opinions. Repeat.

Edited to add: I seriously do not understand why you care so much what people here think of you. Why do you need our approval? If you want to change, then do it. It takes time, or even a very very long time if you've built up a bad rep. What you wanted was to come in and say hey I change and the people here to be all like okay we :heart: you now! yay! No that's not how it works. Sorry.

[Edited on 10-3-2004 by Chelle]

That's right, it was my choice to come here. It was your choice (and most everyone elses) to respond cocky and selfishly.

[Bobmuhthol]

Xcalibur has the most logical argument so far: women. <3<3<3<3<3 tehh l4di3z.

[Bobmuhthol]

<<to respond cocky and selfishly>>

I can't even describe how fucking long and hard I just laughed.

[Xcalibur]

at 17, with your hormones on the roof, every men should only have one priority, at least above the rest: Reproduce.

His is to play games and be loved here.

Everyone should realize what that mean.

Thanks!

[Edited on 3-10-04 by Xcalibur]

[Chelle]

Most of us respond because:

1. We feel sorry for you. (Which I personally have given you postive and constructive advice here. I wasn't one of the ones who are all like, u sux0r go die nowz)


2. Some are just amazed that you keep coming back for more, and they don't understand why.

3. Are flabberghasted (sp?) that you expect acceptance over such a short time after stating that you have "changed".


I am telling you right now people are NOT going to smother you in smoochies just because you simply say you changed, while not changing.

Posting here like you have, asking for critizism and then not able to ACCEPT it, proves you have not changed. They aren't just making stuff up, Warclaidhm. True changing will take time. Maturity to accept opinions whether you like them or not will take time. The name Warclaidhm may never recover and you have to accept that too. That's why as I said earlier you will have to change EVERYTHING even the.... no, especially the name. And NOT telling people that you used to be Warclaidhm. I am sorry but that seems to be the only way, for you, right now. Either that or quit GemStone completely. Which isn't a bad idea either.

[Dhuul]

warclaidhm avoid use of these verbs

'
"
say
whisper
shout
yell
think
chat

and you'll go up in my book

[Adhara]

Originally posted by LordWarclaidhm
[...] (and most everyone elses) to respond cocky and selfishly.

You're wrong. If the people who responded were really selfish they wouldn't take of their time in the hopes that their advice will benefit you. Show me an example of selfishness in this thread other than your own.

[HarmNone]

Warclaidhm, if you come back here, please try the site linked below. Under Community, they have both a chat site and a forum. This would be a much better place for you to chat, post, and learn about yourself and how to better get along with others. The PC is not the place to do that.

http://www.support4hope.com/depressionpage2c.htm

HarmNone

[GSLeloo]

Honestly if you wanted to change then you wouldn't come here and bother trying to seek attention on yourself. Also if you want anyone to think anything good about you then try to stop PRETENDING that you're somehow more mature than everyone else. You remind me of my brother after he took one psych class and thought he was now brilliant. Whatever book you read, whatever class you read, stop trying to make like it made you a better person.

[Bobmuhthol]

I know HarmNone was being serious, but OH MY GOD ROFL ROFL ROFL.

So. Fucking. Owned.

[Betheny]

Originally posted by Xcalibur
at 17, with your hormones on the roof, every men should only have one priority, at least above the rest: Reproduce.

His is to play games and be loved here.

Everyone should realize what does that mean.

Thanks!

You have issues.

[HarmNone]

Originally posted by Bobmuhthol
I know HarmNone was being serious, but OH MY GOD ROFL ROFL ROFL.

So. Fucking. Owned.

No "owning" involved, Bob. I thought about U2Uing the site address, but I wasn't sure War would get it, and I felt it might be helpful to others who might wander through...at least, to those who realize they have a problem and are smart enough, and tough enough, to try to get help. :)

HarmNone

[longshot]

Originally posted by HarmNone


I thought about U2Uing the site address, but I wasn't sure War would get it,



There's been no evidence thus far that he's gotten anything that we've ever told him.

You might get through to him if you staple it to his forehead.

[Xcalibur]

Originally posted by Maimara

Originally posted by Xcalibur
at 17, with your hormones on the roof, every men should only have one priority, at least above the rest: Reproduce.

His is to play games and be loved here.

Everyone should realize what does that mean.

Thanks!

You have issues.

Pardon me?

Thanks, HarmNone, for the correction.

[HarmNone]

Welcome, X! :)

[Disrupture]

Warclaidhm,

As a former "trouble maker" in GS (I've been locked out 3 times now, and if I get another I'll likely be perma-banned) I know what it can be like trying to make rebuild a reputation that you have ruined. But let me give you some advice:

Don't ask for validation for your actions. It just makes you look unsure of what you are doing. You shouldn't need praise if you really do want to change, because the happiness at affecting that change should be all you need.

So stop with the "Am I doing okays" on the boards and psinet. All you are going to get by coming here is insulted, and you obviously can't seem to handle that because you are "sensitive."

Or even better: Quit and run far, far away from Gemstone. And maybe, someday, come back. When you are older and wiser.

[Betheny]

Would it be easier to say that talking to / posting in / participating in anything having to do with Warclaidhm or Warclaidhm's player will give you crabs? Or syphilis? Because this bullshit needs to stop. If he needs attention that bad, seriously, drink some dish soap and call it a suicide attempt.

[DeV]

Therapy.

[DCSL]

I couldn't stand reading this and not saying something. I want to claw my eyes out. Does the whining never end?! Reminds me of that song Moe from The Simpsons sang.

[LordWarclaidhm]

Originally posted by Adhara

Originally posted by LordWarclaidhm
[...] (and most everyone elses) to respond cocky and selfishly.

You're wrong. If the people who responded were really selfish they wouldn't take of their time in the hopes that their advice will benefit you. Show me an example of selfishness in this thread other than your own.

That's my point. The fact is, most people WON'T want to give advice to help benefit me. Perhaps they do so in a cocky and arrogant way, but that's not the same. I've already mentioned several times that I've accepted the fact that Warclaidhm cannot change.

Do I need to repeat that? I've mentioned it over several times this thread.

[Tsa`ah]

Originally posted by LordWarclaidhm
That's my point. The fact is, most people WON'T want to give advice to help benefit me. Perhaps they do so in a cocky and arrogant way, but that's not the same. I've already mentioned several times that I've accepted the fact that Warclaidhm cannot change.

Do I need to repeat that? I've mentioned it over several times this thread.

Why would anyone want to give beneficial advice to you of all people?

Any that ever offered you ignored. You act like some shit head in game, that gets you attention here. Attention you obviously crave ... any attention is better than none for the likes of you.

You cry, you plead, you say you'll change and then you quit. Starting the cycle over again?

I offered this once to you and I'll offer it again.

This is not the place YOU want to come for advice considering your history.

The best thing for you to do is ignore what happens here and play your game.

Shit, you beg for attention and then you fucking cry when you get it. You didn't come here for advice or critique ... You're just like any other attention whore.

[Double0RX7]

Warclaidhm, you're a fucking pussy. Just be yourself. Otherwise you're a pussy. Do whatever you fucking want in GS, and who cares what everyone else thinks? It's your 15 bucks. It's the internet, who gives a fuck anyways. Do all the bad shit, and act as retarded if you want. Especially if people goad you on.

Truly Yours,
Double 0, one who is content with his "assholeness"

[Edited on 10-4-2004 by Double0RX7]

[Betheny]

Originally posted by Maimara
If you need attention that bad, seriously, drink some dish soap and call it a suicide attempt.

I'm just reiterating this, Warclaidhm. That's some good, serious advice right there.

[Xcalibur]

Don't suicide.

Don't, that's the solution of cowards.

Just stop being yourself.

I think you're doing fine so far. If you want to be accepted, just take the advice of some people. You don't really need to hide your name or who you are, just follow the behavior people accept around here and you'll be welcome soon enough.

- Arkans

[Caramia]

Don't come looking for approval from a bunch of people that really are not your friends. Find friends outside of the game and get to know them. Don't make what people online think about you so important. If you've only been back a week or two, it's too early to make a sweeping generalization about your behavior anyways. Don't look for attention in all the wrong places... wait, I'm not sure there's a right place to seek attention out. Hmmph.

[Edited on 10/4/2004 by Caramia]

[Artha]

just follow the behavior people accept around here and you'll be welcome soon enough.

This'd be good advice if it was to anyone but Warclaidhm. People are always going to see him as he doesn't want to be seen, and not much he can do is going to change that.

[Chadj]

Originally posted by Xcalibur
Don't suicide.

Don't, that's the solution of cowards.

Just stop being yourself.

HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH :thumbsup:

[Xcalibur]

I am so sure the guy isn't that dumb still.

That he's playing around and manipulating the majority's opinion.

That he's just fooling around and getting sympathies for whatever reasons.

But, when thinking about it, when remembering what he did, I get the feeling the guy is just an empty shell wanting to be filled, but at the wrong place...

Booh:grouphug:

[Nakiro]

Develop a sense of apathy towards the online community.

[Ylena]

It would be much easier to take this question seriously if you weren't killing people who decided not to buy your overpriced warclaidh. Just a thought.

[HarmNone]

Ylena has a good point, Warclaidhm. Another good point might be that you come here asking how you're doing, and saying you wish to change. You ask for advice, but you never take any that is given you. After awhile, it gets really old. :(

HarmNone has tried, but will not try again

[Adhara]

Originally posted by HarmNoneYou ask for advice, but you never take any that is given you.

That's because he's not really looking for advice. He wants validation.

[Xcalibur]

An intelligent AND cute woman CANNOT be wrong.

:smilegrin: