A Toast to my Wife, Monique (Mellynia)

[Maeglyn]

A toast to my wife...

I wish you enjoyment in your new relationship... whichever of those men you choose it with.

I wish you security... remember to change your passwords before the next man you live with moves in.

I wish you good health...all those late nights and early mornings waiting for men to call can take a lot out of you.

I wish you good fortune...the phone bills to Korea, Florida, and Canada can't be cheap.

I wish you love .. in all of the many, sordid, on line forms you've pursued it.

And I wish you serenity.. as long as his wife in PA doesn't find out, or the wife in Missouri, or the...

I hope this toast fills you and your new found love(s) with the promise of all your tomorrows to come, may they all be as bright and as fulfilling as mine have been, this last year married to you.

Sincerely,

Vince
Maeglyn

[CrystalTears]

Good thing you're not bitter or anything. ;)

:hug2:

[Czeska]

You know my thoughts on this hun. Best wishes to you always.

[Brattt8525]

Hmm ouch, no one should have to go through what you went through. Some women, just don't know when they have a good mate!

Tara

[CrystalTears]

Although I may not know every intricate detail of their relationship, I do know that Vince is a sweetheart and deserves way better. For the bald head alone! :D

Have you ever considered unleashing a pwning on her?

- Arkans

[MPSorc]

Don't think i have ever met Maegyn in game, but My hunting partner in game is Mellynia, she is a sweetheart, Will be no PWNING of her in game while im around.

[Maeglyn]

Originally posted by MPSorc
Don't think i have ever met Maegyn in game, but My hunting partner in game is Mellynia, she is a sweetheart, Will be no PWNING of her in game while im around.


I'm surprised you had the balls to respond to this thread, Will. She's a bit more than just a hunting partner, as far as your correspondance with her shows. I'd be more than happy to post that email here for you, in order to refresh your memory. I'm sure your wife would get a thrill out of it, too.
What do you say, stud? It's your call.

Maeglyn

[Soulpieced]

*OOF*

[GSLeloo]

As I just said on the other boards, was it really necessary for you to post this three times? Seriously, if you loved her at all and had any respect for her despite what happened you wouldn't be trying to slander her. This is like Klaive-ish behavior.

(Let me add that my lion will pwn your wolf!)

[Edited on 9-8-2004 by GSLeloo]

[DeV]

Damn.

[Czeska]

No, if Vince had been making shit up and slandering someone for absolutely no reason.. that'd be Klaivish behavior. And considering the relatively calm tone of his post, I'd say he could've done a hell of a lot worse.

[Xinister]

Is this in GS or in Real Life?

If it's in GS, STFU.

Xinister

[Czeska]

I'll speak for Vince simply to say it's IRL, cause he's in another time zone and may not be on to reply.

[Chyrain]

Well I guess I don't have to watch Days of Our Lives today.


*grabs popcorn and a dr pepper*

[Tsa`ah]

Originally posted by GSLeloo
As I just said on the other boards, was it really necessary for you to post this three times? Seriously, if you loved her at all and had any respect for her despite what happened you wouldn't be trying to slander her. This is like Klaive-ish behavior.

(Let me add that my lion will pwn your wolf!)

[Edited on 9-8-2004 by GSLeloo]

Let me clue you in on something Leloo. You're still young, naive, and wet behind the ears and have this whacked out Disney on acid outlook on life.

When you actually move out of Mom and Dad's house, get your own place with your own hubby/wife, bf/gf, or life mate and know what a real relationship is all about, you may taste what it's like to be screwed over.

While I don't condone the actions of this guy, I can empathize with what it must be like to find out your significant other is screwing around on you with some married schmuck.

Until you know what that tastes like, the best thing for you to do would be to STFU.

For Maeglyn, sorry it had to be like that guy.

[Maeglyn]

Originally posted by GSLeloo
As I just said on the other boards, was it really necessary for you to post this three times? Seriously, if you loved her at all and had any respect for her despite what happened you wouldn't be trying to slander her. This is like Klaive-ish behavior.



(Let me add that my lion will pwn your wolf!)

[Edited on 9-8-2004 by GSLeloo]


We're not divorced (yet), and up until this afternoon, I was under the impression that we were trying to work things out between us, even if the end result was nothing more than friendship. Just this past Monday she and I did dinner together, to commemorate our 1 year wedding anniversery (her idea, for fuck's sake! I took the day off from work so I wouldn't feel so uncomfortable about our situation) Obviously, this was not the case--her cyber whoring has been going on for months. I show as much respect as I receive. As someone has already stated, Mirror happens.

[GSLeloo]

You can say it's Disney shit, but I would like to imagine that people will give you the same respect you give them. Maybe I'm naive or maybe you're jaded, it goes both ways. But it just seems like this wasn't exactly needed to be done when a private relationship ended, I simply believe things like that need to be kept private.

[Soulpieced]

Note to self, don't have in game relationship with anyone and ensure significant other learns nothing about Gemstone.

[Czeska]

Note to self. Don't fuck around on someone you're supposed to love :)

[GSLeloo]

I didn't mean it as a personal attack I simply believe that things like this should be kept private between the two people (three maybe) it involves rather than being made a public thing.

Didn't everyone get all pissed at Whirlin when he did it?

[Soulpieced]

Note to self, eliminate Czeska and steal her notes.

[Edited on 9-8-2004 by Soulpieced]

[Tsa`ah]

Originally posted by GSLeloo
You can say it's Disney shit, but I would like to imagine that people will give you the same respect you give them.

And you would be 100% correct.

He is responding out of the respect and love he himself was shown.

Refrain from inserting your asinine opinion into matters you have no experience in. Also, take my advice on the STFU portion of my post.

[GSLeloo]

I don't think so because even though you're simply so sweet, when it comes to respect everyone can have their own opinion.

I've been screwed over before and I never did anything like this. And I have wanted to get revenge on someone to the point or murder, did I do anything? No. So please stop trying to be like I know nothing because I haven't done everything you have yet because I'm sure we could go the opposite direction too.

[Maeglyn]

Originally posted by GSLeloo
You can say it's Disney shit, but I would like to imagine that people will give you the same respect you give them. Maybe I'm naive or maybe you're jaded, it goes both ways. But it just seems like this wasn't exactly needed to be done when a private relationship ended, I simply believe things like that need to be kept private.


I would have considered it a private relationship if I hadn't been reading diary blogs by a THIRD PARTY discussing my relationship with my wife. My name is in that blog, her name is in that blog, her 8 year old daughter's name is in that blog!It doesn't get much more public than that. (I hate to break it to you, Will, but you'll need to take a number for a crack at my soon-to-be ex.)

[CrystalTears]

Originally posted by GSLeloo
I didn't mean it as a personal attack I simply believe that things like this should be kept private between the two people (three maybe) it involves rather than being made a public thing.

Didn't everyone get all pissed at Whirlin when he did it?

Considering that she didn't keep her relationships private, I can understand his resentment.

As for Whirlin, he's a little boy who can't get over the fact that a relationship ended badly. Shit happens. He, however, won't let it go and feels the need to bring her up once in a while in hopes that she quits the game and lets him have his toy back. It's not nearly the same thing.

[GSLeloo]

Meaning your wife was telling the third person all about your marriage? I do know how you feel about wanting to get them back as they got you but I guess I would've preferred you to not sink to her level.

[Tsa`ah]

Originally posted by GSLeloo
I don't think so because even though you're simply so sweet, when it comes to respect everyone can have their own opinion.

I've been screwed over before and I never did anything like this. And I have wanted to get revenge on someone to the point or murder, did I do anything? No. So please stop trying to be like I know nothing because I haven't done everything you have yet because I'm sure we could go the opposite direction too.

You can't equate a teenage fling that occurred that takes place during the same time you live with parents to a cheating spouse.

I've got probably 12-13 years more life experience on you girlie and I can spank your HS logic from this board to China.

We could do this poll fashion if you like.

The number of people on these boards in HS, the number of people on these boards in college, and the number of people on these boards that have gone through one or both and are out experiencing what the real world is like and see if any of them believe now what they believed then about relationships.

Call me when you reach 30 and still have the acid trip Disney thing going on. Chances are that you'll have matured by then and lost the naiveté.

[GSLeloo]

Tsa'ah when you have any idea anything about me then you can. But you know nothing about what I have been through or who I am. You don't know what I am talking about, some people on here actually do but not many. Until you know then you can't even begin to believe because I have been probably hurt worse than you ever could even imagine.

[Tsa`ah]

Teenage angst, the bliss of it.

I've so hurt, I'm so misunderstood, I'm so mistreated.

Stand in line with the rest of the unique snowflakes kiddo, we've all been through it. Rather unfortunate that every one your type thinks they've seen it all.

Next stop .... reality.

[Edited on 9-8-2004 by Tsa`ah]

[Czeska]

Note to self: This thread is about MAEGLYN.

[GSLeloo]

Tsa'ah, you ever want to know what really is going on you can IM me at any time but let me assure you it's not teenage angst so at the moment you really have no idea what you are talking about.

[Tsa`ah]

Originally posted by Czeska
Note to self: This thread is about MAEGLYN.

::coughs::

Yes it is.

::hands Czeska a job::

[CrystalTears]

You obvously handle situations differently than others. We get the point that you don't approve of his tactics for bringing this to the open.

However I will agree with Tsa'ah that you can't equate a torn relationship in school, to one where marriage was involved. No matter how much you loved this person, until you say your I-Do's and they end up saying I-Don't, you don't know what it's like to hear the person make vows to be faithful, and break that vow before your eyes.

THAT is what we're talking about here. No one is discussing how awful your life has been, and you need to stop bringing that up everytime someone disagrees with your need to tell someone off for their methods. We get it. You were hurt. WE'VE ALL BEEN HURT! Deal with it.

Vince, if you ever want to talk, look me up. :hug2:

[Edited on 9/8/2004 by CrystalTears]

[Soulpieced]

"... it's not teenage angst so at the moment..."

.

Mood: PMS :loveu:

Guess that answers that.

[GSLeloo]

None of you have any idea what I'm talking about.. the only two who even get it would be camri and Hellcat.

[GSLeloo]

Originally posted by Soulpieced
"... it's not teenage angst so at the moment..."

.

Mood: PMS :loveu:

Guess that answers that.

LoL that's been my mood for the past like four months.

[Tsa`ah]

The number one angst line is ...

Survey says?!!!


Originally posted by GSLeloo
None of you have any idea what I'm talking about.

:violin:

[Czeska]

Tsa`ah, quit making me snort laugh.
Oh and <3 Vince, just to stay on topic.

[Maeglyn]

Originally posted by GSLeloo
Meaning your wife was telling the third person all about your marriage? I do know how you feel about wanting to get them back as they got you but I guess I would've preferred you to not sink to her level.

Hon, I'm talking about a FOURTH person (minimum)---let me do the math for you.

1. Me
2. Wife
3. Wife's married play partner
4. Wife's OTHER play thing
5. Who the hell knows how many others?

This isn't a love triangle, this is my wife passing herself around like a plate of cookies. These are men she met through Gemstone (which I foolishly introduced her to, thinking we'd have a common interest) that she's calling at all hours of the day and night, IMing and emailing from work, making plans to visit.
Consider this a public service announcement--I think any woman with a boyfriend or husband playing Gemstone should know she's out there. The next time he's all excited about this woman he's hunting with from Australia, you just might thank me.

[GSLeloo]

You remind me of my mom's friend Bonnie... her husband (Ok neither of them are attractive people, very poor, and have about six kids) left her for a young woman he brought over from England! Internet = bad for relationships.

[StrayRogue]

Originally posted by Tsa`ah
The number one angst line is ...

Survey says?!!!


Originally posted by GSLeloo
None of you have any idea what I'm talking about.

:violin:

She forgot the *stomps out of room screaming, "YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND"*. I miss being a teenager.

Anyway, back on topic:

Bitter much?

Here's some advice: GS (internet) + relationship = fucked up. It doesn't work except on the rarest of rare occasions.

But marriage is taken for granted now anyway. People will get married after spending a month together because "it feels right". I won't be getting married until my 30's, if then. Any younger is stupid, IMHO.

Anyway, mixing the game and a relationship is just asking for trouble.

[Parkbandit]

Originally posted by Tsa`ah
I've got probably 12-13 years more life experience on you girlie and I can spank your HS logic from this board to China.



With few exceptions.. I believe I am the expert in this field by that logic.:smug:

-Grandpa Falgrin

[Parkbandit]

Originally posted by Maeglyn
This isn't a love triangle, this is my wife passing herself around like a plate of cookies.

Ok.. this gets my vote for best line ever.

Sorry about your marriage Maeglyn. I don't know you or your wife, but anytime a marriage ends, it's sad.

Edited to be kinder and gentler.. a real 90's kinda man.

[Edited on 9-8-2004 by Parkbandit]

[Czeska]

Of course, the 90s are over.. but anyway.

I think the idea here is that if a person is not only playing the field, but reaping it, tending it, sowing it, standing in it, and whatever else may be going on in it...

Perhaps others should be forewarned. I know if someone hurt me bad.. and I could reasonably prevent it from happening to someone else, I would.

This whole situation is pretty rough and I'm sorry to hear this. Best thing to do is to keep truckin' forward. Easy for me to say and I'm sure you're all like "Yeah, fuck you.", but it all gets better in the end, y'know?

PS: Tsa'ah is correct.

- Arkans

[Suppa Hobbit Mage]

Originally posted by Tsa`ah
Teenage angst, the bliss of it.

I've so hurt, I'm so misunderstood, I'm so mistreated.

Stand in line with the rest of the unique snowflakes kiddo, we've all been through it. Rather unfortunate that every one your type thinks they've seen it all.

Next stop .... reality.

[Edited on 9-8-2004 by Tsa`ah]

:yeahthat:

Life is so rough is you constantly present yourself as the victim.

[Edited on 9-8-2004 by Suppa Hobbit Mage]

[Xinister]

Kill her and her boy pals in GS!

Xinister

[StrayRogue]

Originally posted by Suppa Hobbit Mage

Originally posted by Tsa`ah
Teenage angst, the bliss of it.

I've so hurt, I'm so misunderstood, I'm so mistreated.

Stand in line with the rest of the unique snowflakes kiddo, we've all been through it. Rather unfortunate that every one your type thinks they've seen it all.

Next stop .... reality.

[Edited on 9-8-2004 by Tsa`ah]

:yeahthat:

Like is so rough is you constantly present yourself as the victim.

All the while slitting your wrists while listening to the Smashing Pumpkins. Those were the days :D

[Aaysia]

Sorry about what happened to you. You seem like a nice guy and no one deserves that kind of treatment.

*hugs*

[Bobmuhthol]

UH OH LOOKS LIKE SOMEONE GOT GOTH SERVED.

[Czeska]

Originally posted by Bobmuhthol
UH OH LOOKS LIKE SOMEONE GOT GOTH SERVED.

And that means.. huh?

[Wezas]

Originally posted by Czeska

Originally posted by Bobmuhthol
UH OH LOOKS LIKE SOMEONE GOT GOTH SERVED.

And that means.. huh?

Goth Served (http://www.tvtome.com/tvtome/servlet/GuidePageServlet/showid-344/epid-322375/)

[CrystalTears]

I think she means... who got goth served?

[Czeska]

Well, no I meant "what's that mean" But then I went to the site.. and good gods, tried to read that rambling bunch of run-on insanity.

So now, I have decided not to care what it means, providing I don't have to claw out my own eyes.

[Maeglyn]

Well, after 25 minutes of sleep this evening, I'm off to work to attend a meeting with the owner of the company, and my wife. Did I mention that we work for the same small company?
Keep your fingers crossed, Will, I think today is going to be the day you've been dreaming about for 6 months now--either I'll be gone and she can continue cyber fucking you through IMs and email while she's at work without interruption by me, or she'll have all the time in the world to cry on your shoulder over the phone at home, unemployed. 52 printed pages of emails with you professing your love for her--I just hope you're man enough to back all this devotion and stand by her through these trying times. Let's look at your signature line again, shall we?
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Always do sober what you said you'd do drunk. That will teach you to keep your mouth shut. Ernest Hemingway

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Sincerely,

Maeglyn

[Shari]

:popcorn2:

[DeV]

What can a married man do for her?

[MPSorc]

Originally posted by Maeglyn

Originally posted by MPSorc
Don't think i have ever met Maegyn in game, but My hunting partner in game is Mellynia, she is a sweetheart, Will be no PWNING of her in game while im around.


I'm surprised you had the balls to respond to this thread, Will. She's a bit more than just a hunting partner, as far as your correspondance with her shows. I'd be more than happy to post that email here for you, in order to refresh your memory. I'm sure your wife would get a thrill out of it, too.
What do you say, stud? It's your call.

Maeglyn

Well,

it has been a few hours since i looked at this thread, my how its grown, and for your information i am NOT Will. So keep your insinuations to yourself.

[Wezas]

I'm bored at work, post some of the E-mails.

[CrystalTears]

You're not Will?

The plot thickens.

[Czeska]

Who's your character, not-will?

[MPSorc]

Maeglyn you know, now that i have finished reading the entire thread, you really do need to figure out WHO THE FUCK YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT BEFORE MAKING ACCUSATIONS.

Melly is my friend, i have never talked to her on the phone, and have never sent some stupid cyber fucking e-mails, nor do i do that stupid shit in game, or on AIM.

[Wezas]

Originally posted by MPSorc
Maeglyn you know, now that i have finished reading the entire thread, you really do need to figure out WHO THE FUCK YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT BEFORE MAKING ACCUSATIONS.

Melly is my friend, i have never talked to her on the phone, and have never sent some stupid cyber fucking e-mails, nor do i do that stupid shit in game, or on AIM.

An honest mistake that you were Will.

I'm sure all of his comments about Will still stand, just not directed at you.

[MPSorc]

My character is Quynar, you really want the plot to thicken, well here goes, will used to be my barracks room mate, and this stuff was never mentioned while we roomed together, he plays my second account because he can't afford to play, and now that he is working a second job he barely has time to play, i think i have talked to him once in game in the last month.

Oh, and by the way my name is Louis. yeah yeah, nerd name i know.

[Suppa Hobbit Mage]

My name is Will(iam), or Bill

[Czeska]

Crazy stuff. Well, if Vince is at work, he may not see this for awhile. I don't know what was in those emails, but I do not doubt that if Vince misread, or was misinformed, or WHO KNOWS, he'll want the truth to be told. Sounds to me like the whole thing is one big clusterfuck.

[Hips]

Originally posted by Suppa Hobbit Mage
My name is Will(iam), or Bill

I never knew you had it in you. :lol:

[Suppa Hobbit Mage]

PS - Cheaters deserve to be unhappy, forever.

[LilHellcat]

Well if it means anything. I can verify that the Quynar and MpSorc that I know is infact named Louis, he's a good guy from what I know of. This Will person I have no clue who it is.

[Suppa Hobbit Mage]

Maybe this is the horrible, horrible, life ruining, nothing can compare stuff Leloo was saying happened to her.

[MPSorc]

Thank you LHC.

[MPSorc]

Members viewing this page: GS3 Michiko, LilHellcat, MPSorc, Parkbandit, Soulpieced, Syberus, Wezas

my don't we just love the Drama?

[Hips]

Originally posted by MPSorc
Members viewing this page: GS3 Michiko, LilHellcat, MPSorc, Parkbandit, Soulpieced, Syberus, Wezas

my don't we just love the Drama?

Took you that long to figure it out? :rolleyes:

[Parkbandit]

<Insert dramatic soap opera music here>

Being married - The best
Working with your wife - Painful
Catching your wife who is also your co-worker, cybering in a game with your online friends - Priceless

I don't know whether to give you a hug or shake some sense into you. Criminy.

[Soulpieced]

because he can't afford to play

.

Those are the real winners.

[Bobmuhthol]

My name is Will. Give me your wife. I'm sure if I read the e-mails I could verify that I wrote them, as well.

[Wezas]

Originally posted by MPSorc
Oh, and by the way my name is Louis. yeah yeah, nerd name i know.

Why would anyone think that's a nerdy name?

http://www.autograph-gallery.co.uk/acatalog/C78.JPG

Oh, right.

[MPSorc]

Well i will say one thing on my friend Will's behalf, he is a good guy, and my friend, ok thats two things. Any further taking up will have to be done by him, cause i obviously didn't know any of this was going on.

Kinda makes me wish i knew the whole story, both sides, all i know from melly is her and Vince seem to fight alot. Im at a loss for sticking up for her other than saying she is my friend, and in my opion is a good person. Won't go into some of the personal details i know, which sorta justifies everything that Maeglyn has been posting about her.

Well here is to hoping that the two of you can work this out peacefully, and i really hope he hasn't planned on taking his personal life to work, to ambush her in front of everyone and keep this in house like a real man should do.

[Souzy]

Ohhhh I finally got it! Ha! That's cool you're not like dwelling over it and stuff. Go you!

[Suppa Hobbit Mage]

Heh, why? She cheated on him. She's a whore and deserves to be outted in front of everyone.

Cheaters deserve what they get.

[Chyrain]

Originally posted by Wezas

Originally posted by MPSorc
Oh, and by the way my name is Louis. yeah yeah, nerd name i know.

Why would anyone think that's a nerdy name?

http://www.autograph-gallery.co.uk/acatalog/C78.JPG

Oh, right.

best. reply. ever.

[Wezas]

Originally posted by MPSorc
Well here is to hoping that the two of you can work this out peacefully, and i really hope he hasn't planned on taking his personal life to work, to ambush her in front of everyone and keep this in house like a real man should do.

He could just fire her for sending and receiving inappropriate messages (e-mails, IM's) using work computers.

[MPSorc]

Originally posted by Lalana
Ohhhh I finally got it! Ha! That's cool you're not like dwelling over it and stuff. Go you!

huh?

Im not dwelling on it, im worried about my friend who just had her own personal and life plastered all over this site. Hell i might not even see her again if she takes this to heart.

I don't think ill of her at all for this, its her business, just wish it wasn't posted up on a message board by someone who was already in the process (or on the verge) of getting a devorce when i first met Melly, as far as i knew.

[MPSorc]

damnit why didn't i just say my middle name, its biblical, and you would be blastfemers for making fun of it, ok, so Maim would get me but oh well.

ok from now on you can just call me Sarge or MPSorc. forget the metion of Lou...my real name.

[Suppa Hobbit Mage]

Suck getting caught cheating, don't it?

[Caiylania]

Originally posted by StrayRogue
All the while slitting your wrists while listening to the Smashing Pumpkins. Those were the days :D

I never listen to them anymore, walked in on my friend doing just that. It rained out at the stable so I went to her house unexpectadly. Heard music blasting and knew her parents were at work, so went in. Opened the door to see her starting to cut down her arm.

I have never been so thankful it rained.

As for Maeglyn, man, that was a creative bash. Can't say I wouldn't feel the same if I found out my husband was doing shit like that. Not knowing either of you, all I can say is..... I hope the situation works out for your best interests and that you are able to move on from here.

[Edited on 9-8-2004 by Caiylania]

[Souzy]

Originally posted by MPSorc

Originally posted by Lalana
Ohhhh I finally got it! Ha! That's cool you're not like dwelling over it and stuff. Go you!

huh?

Im not dwelling on it, im worried about my friend who just had her own personal and life plastered all over this site. Hell i might not even see her again if she takes this to heart.

I don't think ill of her at all for this, its her business, just wish it wasn't posted up on a message board by someone who was already in the process (or on the verge) of getting a devorce when i first met Melly, as far as i knew.

You lost me? I was responding to the FIRST post man! I didn't bother to read the rest as I do with most of the threads here, lolz. I'm just responding to a post on another forum where he had did the toast and said I was lost. Now I get it and that's cool that he's getting past all of this. Yeah, that.

[Souzy]

Oh yeah, I dunno about their personal relationship. Yup, what ever what ever. Good luck with that, shit happens I guess?

[SpunGirl]

:popcorn2:

[Shari]

<moves over to sit next to Kristin and hands her a box of Red Vines>

[Edited on 9-8-2004 by Jesae]

[SpunGirl]

Ever make a flute out of a Red Vine? I love doing that.

-K

[Caiylania]

::intercepts the red vines and grips them tightly::

Mine!

[SpunGirl]

Grr, Caiy....

I vote for emails to be posted.

-K

[Caiylania]

:whistle:

[Chelle]

Wait a sec. Okay so this girl is married to Vince. Girl is cybering with various men. Is she also meeting them in person too? If she is just cybering them, who the hell cares? It's just text. I realize there is probably more to the story than we know, though. So might as well post the emails too so we have a clearer understanding. Since everything is like all hanging out now, why stop there?

Personally I think cybering is stupid and a waste of time when you can do it with a real person.

Vince I am sorry you have been hurt by this person. Don't let it get to ya babe. There is always someone better out there. Good luck to you and well wishes.

[GSLeloo]

In my defense this is what I will say...

First of all the conversation was between Tsa'ah and myself and the comments were not being applied to everyone but for the situation we were discussing. The reason I said no one understands is because none of you did. You kept going on about relationships and teenage heartbreak when it had nothing to do with relationships and is something that could happen in any age group. So therefor none of you had any idea what I was talking about. The reason it even came up was because Tsa'ah assumed that because of my age and what is known about me that I couldn't understand the pain and anger that Maeglyn was going through.

He and I have talked off of here and hopefully after we finish that he will actually understand what I meant. And that's it. So you can continue the "teenage" jokes but it had nothing to do with what I was talking about and is thoroughly wasted.

[Ylena]

If you all are hogging the Red Vines and the popcorn, would you please pass the box of Junior Mints?

This thread is like a car wreck, I can't stop watching it. It's even more dramatic than my wedding-ending gesture of slamming my band flat in a drawer and throwing it at my ex!

[CrystalTears]

Yeah Leloo, you're probably talking about a hurt in your life that has NOTHING to do with what's going on. Is it getting dumped by your husband who had an affair behind your back? No? Then it doesn't apply to your particular pain and something you actually haven't experienced yet!! Get it? Got it? Great.

[Czeska]

Red vines = skinny twizlers??!

Originally posted by Czeska
Red vines = skinny twizlers??!

Yeah yeah, fork em over.

[Bobmuhthol]

<<Is it getting dumped by your husband who had an affair behind your back? No? Then it doesn't apply to your particular pain and something you actually haven't experienced yet!! Get it? Got it? Great.>>

Who are you to say how painful something is when you haven't experienced it? Even if you have, the 15 other people that replied most certainly have not.

[CrystalTears]

You can't compare one pain or tragedy in your life to everything, that is my point. This is about a marriage gone bad because of infidelity. You can certainly sympathize with someone's suffering, but you can't go on saying "my suffering is worse! I know what it's like! You don't know what I've been through" when it doesn't have to do with the situation at hand.

If that is the source of her pain, then I take back my comment and apologize. But this isn't the first time she pulls out the pity me because I hurt in my life card so that she can be part of all dramas.

Sorry Leloo, I do like you, but sometimes you need to step back and let things go.

[Edited on 9/8/2004 by CrystalTears]

[Caiylania]

Originally posted by Czeska
Red vines = skinny twizlers??!

Other than similiar shape, the taste and texture are different. I enjoy both for their own unique selves. :D

Erm..... to not make to light of this.. I don't believe it matters if it was just e-mails and online sex vs the real thing if its matters of the heart. She betrayed him in her heart and mind. Just because her body and the other guys bodies didn't come in phyisical contact doesn't really change the fact that she was willing to hurt him. Anyone willing to tell someone other than their spouse the things it sounds like she told these guys......

That is betrayel.

[Betheny]

Originally posted by MPSorc
damnit why didn't i just say my middle name, its biblical, and you would be blastfemers for making fun of it, ok, so Maim would get me but oh well.

ok from now on you can just call me Sarge or MPSorc. forget the metion of Lou...my real name.

I don't get it.

[Betheny]

Originally posted by GSLeloo
In my defense this is what I will say...

First of all the conversation was between Tsa'ah and myself and the comments were not being applied to everyone but for the situation we were discussing. The reason I said no one understands is because none of you did. You kept going on about relationships and teenage heartbreak when it had nothing to do with relationships and is something that could happen in any age group. So therefor none of you had any idea what I was talking about. The reason it even came up was because Tsa'ah assumed that because of my age and what is known about me that I couldn't understand the pain and anger that Maeglyn was going through.

He and I have talked off of here and hopefully after we finish that he will actually understand what I meant. And that's it. So you can continue the "teenage" jokes but it had nothing to do with what I was talking about and is thoroughly wasted.

How's the lithium working for your sidewalk angst?

[Betheny]

Originally posted by Ylena
If you all are hogging the Red Vines and the popcorn, would you please pass the box of Junior Mints?

This thread is like a car wreck, I can't stop watching it. It's even more dramatic than my wedding-ending gesture of slamming my band flat in a drawer and throwing it at my ex!

I love Ylena, and I vote she posts more.

[Caiylania]

Originally posted by CrystalTears
You can't compare one pain or tragedy in your life to everything, that is my point. This is about a marriage gone bad because of infidelity. You can certainly sympathize with someone's suffering, but you can't go one saying "mine is worse! I know what it's like!" when it doesn't have to do with the situation at hand.

If that is the source of her pain, then I take back my comment and apologize. But this isn't the first time she pulls out the pity me because I hurt in my life card so that she can be part of all dramas.

Sorry Leloo, I do like you, but sometimes you need to step back and let things go.

[Edited on 9/8/2004 by CrystalTears]


Valid point. If someone looses their legs in a car crash, I doubt they are going to join a support group for people that have lost their sight from diseases.

Both are tragic, but you can't equate the two in empathy. The understanding won't be the same.

He is sharing the fact that his wife of one year, who he hoped to work things out with, was cheating on him with more than one man.

So really, the only people who can truly understand that are ones who have been cheated on in some way by their significant other.

That isn't saying that NO ONE understand to a point, or empathizes. But I hope this is slightly understandable.

[Betheny]

I just hope the two of them don't have any children. Not even necessarily together, but children involved in the relationship AT ALL.

[Caiylania]

Originally posted by Maimara
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Originally posted by Maimara
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Originally posted by Maimara
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Originally posted by Maimara
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Maimara's post whoring!!!!

::hands Maimara a red vine::

*Edited to add a Maimara post because like..... she snuck one in while I was writing this post. Damnit.

[Edited on 9-8-2004 by Caiylania]

[Vesi]

Sometimes relationships really suck. Revenge can be sweet though.

Vesi speaking from experience

P. S. Give me a Twizzler please.

[Betheny]

Originally posted by Caiylania

Originally posted by Maimara
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Originally posted by Maimara
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Originally posted by Maimara
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Maimara's post whoring!!!!

::hands Maimara a red vine::

No... I had to refrain from posting at work... heh. I read the thread and I was all set to go nuts. I'VE BEEN HOLDING IT INSIDE....

Psykos is a post whore, I'm just full of angst from getting lost on the way home today and not getting home til JUST NOW

[Vesi]

Originally posted by Maimara
I just hope the two of them don't have any children. Not even necessarily together, but children involved in the relationship AT ALL.

He mentioned an eight year old daughter.

Vesi

[CrystalTears]

I have a feeling the girl may be hers, not theirs. Even so, I feel bad for her as well. :(

[Caiylania]

>>Psykos is a post whore, I'm just full of angst from getting lost on the way home today and not getting home til JUST NOW<<

Another angst filled person!!!!

Today's word is ANGST. Brought to you by the letter A.

:weird:

[Caiylania]

Whether or not the child is both of theirs or just hers, what a role model the young lady has to look up to. :no:

[HarmNone]

Ish! I wouldn't touch this thread with a 40-foot pole! Just keep it reasonably coherant, and the insults to a minimum, please.

Leloo, if I were you, I'd keep my own personal experiences out of this one. Parkbandit might think he's the board expert on such things, but...well, he ain't. Yet, what has happened to me, or to others I know, does not compare with what has happened here. The same people were not involved. The same circumstances were not involved. My life events and someone else's life events are not the same.

Maeglyn needed to vent, and he did. I can understand his hurt and his frustration. While I would not choose to vent such things on a public message board, he has made a different choice. I cannot fault him for doing so, as his feelings and ways of handling stress differ from mine. So turns the small, blue planet.

I'm sorry for what happened, Maeglyn. I'm sorry you've been hurt and that you feel betrayed. Hopefully, all of you involved can go on with your lives. There are better times ahead. You just have to get started making them happen.

HarmNone

[Czeska]

It's his wife's daughter.

[Caiylania]

>>So turns the small, blue planet.<<

Harmnone just gave me size envy. :(

Mars is smaller!!!!

[Betheny]

It doesn't matter. If you date/marry someone that has a child, you impact that child's life. And no matter what that whore did, I'm sorry, but if you act this way around that child, you're a lot worse than she is. That child does not deserve to suffer more than she has to.

And by the way, if someone gets all moral on me and flips out, let me pre-emptively say fuck you, because I'm right, even if it does sound harsh and grating and mean.

[Czeska]

... wow.
Also, I doubt that his step daughter is reading the boards.

[Chelle]

Maimara I liked that phanthom guy avatar you had, better.


:cracks open a box of junior mints:

[Betheny]

That's why I said, 'if you act this way around the child.'

I love the INternet if only for the sole purpose that people can get their frustrations out and not have to bring it with them back home. If this is Maeglyn's way of getting it out, KUDOS. But seriously, I seriously doubt he would(take it home and treat a child like th at), just from reading some of his posts and whatknot, but I stand by my statement. Not just for him, that's blanket morality right there. Kids don't deserve to suffer for their parent's mistakes.

Edited to clarify what statement I was making.

[Edited on 9-8-2004 by Maimara]

[Betheny]

Originally posted by Chelle
Maimara I liked that phanthom guy avatar you had, better.


:cracks open a box of junior mints:

It's more 'me', isn't it?

[GSLeloo]

I didn't make it off topic. I had been saying that in my opinion maybe he shouldn't make a private thing (yes we later solved that part) public. Then I got told that I can't understand cause I don't understand pain and blah blah blah. That's how it got off topic and yes the whole thing could've been solved in IMs but instead it was put here. So keep telling me how wrong I am but I wasn't off topic to begin with, I was dragged into it because I haven't had sex so I don't know anything.

[Betheny]

Originally posted by GSLeloo
I didn't make it off topic. I had been saying that in my opinion maybe he shouldn't make a private thing (yes we later solved that part) public. Then I got told that I can't understand cause I don't understand pain and blah blah blah. That's how it got off topic and yes the whole thing could've been solved in IMs but instead it was put here. So keep telling me how wrong I am but I wasn't off topic to begin with, I was dragged into it because I haven't had sex so I don't know anything.

I don't think anybody cares.

[Chelle]

Originally posted by Maimara

Originally posted by Chelle
Maimara I liked that phanthom guy avatar you had, better.


:cracks open a box of junior mints:

It's more 'me', isn't it?

Yeah, and it was cool looking.

A foreboding feel my wrath thing going on.

[Caiylania]

Perhaps is he is venting here to get it out of his system SO THAT he doesn't do anything stupid in front of the girl or coworkers etc....

[Betheny]

Originally posted by Caiylania
Perhaps is he is venting here to get it out of his system SO THAT he doesn't do anything stupid in front of the girl or coworkers etc....

yeh I covered that already

[Caiylania]

Originally posted by Maimara

Originally posted by Caiylania
Perhaps is he is venting here to get it out of his system SO THAT he doesn't do anything stupid in front of the girl or coworkers etc....

yeh I covered that already

Wasn't aiming that at you, my bad :D

So I'll just say..... it's an .... err.... overall comment.

[Betheny]

Originally posted by Caiylania

Originally posted by Maimara

Originally posted by Caiylania
Perhaps is he is venting here to get it out of his system SO THAT he doesn't do anything stupid in front of the girl or coworkers etc....

yeh I covered that already

Wasn't aiming that at you, my bad :D

So I'll just say..... it's an .... err.... overall comment.

Sorry, I'm so on the defensive now. :(

<3 Caiy!

[StrayRogue]

Just to agree with Tayvin, cheaters are the scum of the earth.

[DeV]

I love the word, angst.

[Caiylania]

I've never understood cheating.

If your single, be with whoever, how many, you want. No one cares. WHY get married if you don't want to be with the same person, and only that person, for as long as you remain alive?

I have guy friends who love being able to get with a new girl whenever they want. They know the risks and are no where close to having a girlfriend let alone a wife. Do I agree with their lifestyle? That's a whole nother argument. But at least they aren't out getting married to someone when they want to keep experiencing different people.

Cheaters therefore are scum, because they claimed to want only one person, and lied to themselves (if at all) and to the person they wed.

Stay single, or stay with your one and only.

*Edited to say, I do realize some people believe in 'open marriages'. So I will restate in another fashion:

If the person you are marrying believes they will be the only person you love/sleep with for the rest of your life, then cheating is bad. :P

[Edited on 9-8-2004 by Caiylania]

[Czeska]

1. I'm assuming the kiddo in your sig is your child, Caiylania. Adorable!

2. Speaking as one who was cheated on while in marriage counseling.. trust me. It can really easily be the final straw. I don't know what Vince has done today, out of anger or revenge, but I do know he's been my friend for nearly three years, and has never been anything but classy. I also know he has no plans to bring any of this around his stepdaughter.

3. If I misread your intent or your post, Maimara, my apologies. :)

[Betheny]

Originally posted by Czeska
1. I'm assuming the kiddo in your sig is your child, Caiylania. Adorable!

2. Speaking as one who was cheated on while in marriage counseling.. trust me. It can really easily be the final straw. I don't know what Vince has done today, out of anger or revenge, but I do know he's been my friend for nearly three years, and has never been anything but classy. I also know he has no plans to bring any of this around his stepdaughter.

3. If I misread your intent or your post, Maimara, my apologies. :)

I dunno if you did or not, at least you didn't jump my shit about it though. That's why I clarified.

[Caiylania]

Originally posted by Czeska
1. I'm assuming the kiddo in your sig is your child, Caiylania. Adorable!

2. Speaking as one who was cheated on while in marriage counseling.. trust me. It can really easily be the final straw. I don't know what Vince has done today, out of anger or revenge, but I do know he's been my friend for nearly three years, and has never been anything but classy. I also know he has no plans to bring any of this around his stepdaughter.

3. If I misread your intent or your post, Maimara, my apologies. :)

Yes she is. Thankyou :) Her name is Kiara.

Though I am one of the lucky ones, I've seen what friends have gone through when it has happened to them. Enough of it anyway, to know how lucky I am and that I never want to know all the emotions that it brings to bear or what it does to the deepest parts of our heart to be betrayed by one we love.

[Maeglyn]

My apologies to you, Louis. I was aware that you and Will were roomies of sorts in Korea, and that you were both MPs. My contempt for Will still stands, but was directed at the wrong nickname. I sent Will a letter last night, and included some information that should have been sent to you.
During the Dhu, my wife offered me your account name and login. Personally, you and I don't know each other from a bag of apples, and the thought that she would pass on that information to a total stranger (to you) bothered me greatly. She asked me at the time not to mention it to you, but at this point, all bets are off. Thought you should know this, if she never got around to mentioning it herself.

Maeglyn

[Betheny]

You guys broke up over a guy that's umpteen thousands of miles away -- and she hasn't met?

Dude, don't feel bad. That means she's seeking an unrealistic standard, or that she likes to torture herself with negativity.

[Adhara]

My heart goes out to you Maeglyn. Do whatever you need to do to get the closure you need so you can move on. For the sake of convenience I suggest you keep it on the legal side but aside from that, anything goes. :)

In times like this the only way to go is "selfish" mode. There are people that will disagree with your methods, some loved ones might even try to corner you into a guilt trip but don't listen. Heal that wound; only you really know what needs to be done.

[SpunGirl]

1. I feel bad for the guy who got cheated on. That blows.

2. Leloo, please know when to shut the fuck up. If you can demonstrate that you know that, people might be willing to believe that you've got a few life experience cookies in your cookie jar.

-K

[Chadj]

I like cookies.

[Shari]

This has been really bothering me. Clearly it bothers the original (sorry don't remember the name, and too lazy to look!) poster as well.

Dude...if you're married, engaged, with someone, and you're LIVING UNDER THE SAME ROOF AS THEM...and you're feeling horny, how hard is it to walk over to said person, strip naked and say, "I"m horny, please take me."

I've had invitations to cyber with people in GS and it just baffles me when I can get up, wake up my boyfriend and pounce him. And for those people instigating this cyber....get a hooker, a siginficant other, a fuck buddy, or something irl, PLEASE.

And now back to our regular programming...

[The Cat In The Hat]

Originally posted by SpunGirl
2. Leloo, please know when to shut the fuck up. If you can demonstrate that you know that, people might be willing to believe that you've got a few life experience cookies in your cookie jar.

-K

I love you Spun. I'll refrain from posting my thoughts on the cheating subject as it's been pulled every way it can and it's all already been said. In the end, all our opinions really don't matter, the cheater and the cheatee will do what they will.

But, I do think some people need to know when to let things go. No matter what you've been through in life, and how bad it is. I can guarantee there's someone that went through WAY more than you. Also, nobody can compare what they went through with someone else thats uninvolved in their own drama.

I've read the "what I've been through" line 1000 times now, it's starting to get to me as bad as the "Ive been playing gemstone 25 years" line.

[Souzy]

Ohshit.Ijustreadthisandmyspacebarisbroken!dramadra magoodlawd!

[Parkbandit]

Originally posted by Chadj
I like cookies.

[Gan]

Originally posted by The Cat In The Hat
I've read the "what I've been through" line 1000 times now, it's starting to get to me as bad as the "Ive been playing gemstone 25 years" line.

:clap:

I concur, its getting old...
:deadhorse:

[NOSEY]

Umm, I haven't read many posts on this forum but when I do it seems this Leloo person is always trying to make every conversation about her. Just an impartial opinion.

Also I give Vince mad respect I love how he handled this. She had no regard for his feelings it seems. Therefore he's set his aside!:up:

This situation needs to be solved with a fist fight in a predetermined location.

- Arkans

[NOSEY]

Originally posted by Arkans
This situation needs to be solved with a fist fight in a predetermined location.

- Arkans

I will be selling tickets to the event please feel free to contact me. RESERVE YOURS TODAY!!:yes: