Befriend list - does anybody clean this thing out from time to time?

[Nathala Crane]

It just occurred to me, playing as Teveriel, that over half of my befriend list is full of players who have been gone for years and will probably never return. Yet I can't bear to remove the old names, y'know, just in case. Anybody else?

Case in point:

>befriend list
1. Alisaire was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
2. Tehain was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
3. Lumiale was not found in Elanthia. (Warm)
4. Ferites was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
5. Evelith was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
6. Kardgar was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
7. Tsalim was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
8. Xiu was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
9. Altea was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
10. Treeva was not found in Elanthia. (Warm)
11. Geirson was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
12. Uniana was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
13. Salenn was not found in Elanthia. (Warm)
14. Aydan was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
15. Bristenn was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
16. Divone was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
17. Torverner was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
18. Jacina was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
19. Silvean was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
20. Menos is somewhere in Elanthia. (Neutral)


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[DCSL]

I've cleaned out mine maybe once or twice but not in a long, long time. Uniana is NEVER coming off the befriend list, even if she is owned by someone else now. And Fithra. WTF. Why is the merchant Fithra still on there? Nosferotu hasn't been around in an age and probably never will be again but I still miss him.

1. Uniana was not found in Elanthia. (Warm)
2. Jacina was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
3. Nosferotu was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
4. Fithra was not found in Elanthia. (Warm)
5. Aasterinian was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
6. Menos was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
7. Rhavnos was not found in Elanthia. (Warm)
8. Ranad was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
9. Lucio was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
10. Jolena was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
11. Mekthros was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
12. Divid was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
13. Livn was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
14. Weryn was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
15. Soledat was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
16. Marclar was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
17. Vyctus was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
18. Maleisse was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
19. Ceyrin was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
20. Silima was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
21. Amalexia was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
22. Ozizalisse was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
23. Raelee was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
24. Rohese was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
25. Laphrael was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
26. Corlyne was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
27. Naitalya was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
28. Barundar was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
29. Merelle was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
30. Julesia was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
31. Queleri was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
32. Rekarth was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
33. Vivaldi was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
34. Ascelon was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)

[GS4-Seomanthe]

I've deleted a few that I know aren't coming back, but one through five are on there for ever. Just can't bring myself to remove them!

1. Yetere was not found in Elanthia. (Warm)
2. Kassyopia was not found in Elanthia. (Warm)
3. Phatall was not found in Elanthia. (Warm)
4. Strones was not found in Elanthia. (Warm)
5. Kelandria was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
6. Aurien was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
7. Greganth was not found in Elanthia. (Warm)
8. Nisme was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
9. Ulaahn was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
10. Truekillr was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
11. Fremie was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
12. Karibeth was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
13. Whisker was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
14. Kanshrak was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
15. Cryheart was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
16. Vylina was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
17. Elandros was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
18. Ravashaak was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
19. Roelon is around the town of Wehnimer's Landing. (Friendly)
20. Vordern was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
21. Jeril is around the Rift. (Friendly)
22. Brinn was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
23. Kaig was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
24. Vivaldi was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
25. Rastavan was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
26. Ahmeuseng was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
27. Draccor was not found in Elanthia. (Reserved)
28. Holymoon was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
29. Julesia was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
30. Tarlina was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
31. Arpelli was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
32. Demyse was not found in Elanthia. (Reserved)
33. Cruxophim was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
34. Chisandra was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
35. Galenok was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)

[DCSL]

XD You have a WAY more friendly character than I do!

[Paradii]

I never had any friends. Waaaah.

[GS4-Seomanthe]

XD You have a WAY more friendly character than I do!

lol My character's husband has said if Seo is leading, it could take an hour to walk from the North Gate to TSC because I have to stop and talk to so many friends.

[Jeril]

Everyone is warm on my friends list, probably no surprise there. I should clean it up again too.

[DCSL]

The scripts for the warm and friendly demeanors just don't fit my character so neutral's as far as she'll go with most. Even with those marked warm or friendly, I'll occasionally change them to reserved or cold briefly for certain verbs before switching back. Even neutral status is an expression of trust for Strata. And for me too, 'cause it means I trust the person not to use a verb like "lick" or whatever. LICKing a person with neutral status towards you has them give you a firm punch or something and Strata would just not do that.

[Nathala Crane]

Tev's in the same boat as Strata. Neutral is "Hm. I guess I like you well enough." Friendly is, "You and me, we're bros." Warm is.. very, very rare and are for people I know aren't going to go giving him warm fuzzies in the middle of the hanging gardens or Victory Court, for example.

[Gweneivia]

I have "was not found in Elanthia." in my squelches, so if someone isn't around, they DON'T EXIST TO ME. So, with that in mind, I take it off squelch now and then and delete people that haven't been around in ages. There are a couple that probably won't ever come off though.

[Jeril]

Warm fuzzies for everyone!

[Nathala Crane]

Warm fuzzies for everyone!

I AM GRIMDARK OF VOLN AND I WILL HAVE NONE OF YOUR WARMTH. *tosses emobangs with a forlorn, distant gaze toward the horizon*

[Jeril]

Good thing I never said you had a choice!

[DCSL]

Warm fuzzies for everyone!

Um, no thanks. I prefer waxed/shaved so if it's warm, it had better not be fuzzy.

[Jeril]

Damn, hard to argue with logic like that.

[Tisket]

I'm pretty sure a few people have my dwarf set to cold demeanor. He's a brat.

[Elvenlady]

I made it onto Strata's befriend list: I win GS! I actually purged mine recently because it was a depressing list of awesome people who no longer play.

[Tgo01]

I made it onto Strata's befriend list: I win GS! I actually purged mine recently because it was a depressing list of awesome people who no longer play.

I still play :(

[Elvenlady]

But have you been purged recently? (Don't answer that)

[tyrant-201]

But have you been purged recently? (Don't answer that)

I'm betting I'm not even on there!

That said, a lot of good players have left, but there's still hope. There's still a lot of great RP'ers around. Just not as easy to find as they once were.

[diethx]

Um, no thanks. I prefer waxed/shaved so if it's warm, it had better not be fuzzy.

Hehe. I love you. I can't wait for my next hug.

[Nathala Crane]

I'm betting I'm not even on there!

That said, a lot of good players have left, but there's still hope. There's still a lot of great RP'ers around. Just not as easy to find as they once were.

True that. I've come across a few I'd never known only since I returned last month.

[Divone]

I still play Divone Tev! Sometimes...Jeril stalks her. Touches her armor....

[HouseofElves]

I love everyone in this thread. <3

[Warriorbird]

<3 Krissi

[Nathala Crane]

Feel the <3


I still play Divone Tev! Sometimes...Jeril stalks her. Touches her armor....

Good, good. :) Play moar.

[tyrant-201]

I love everyone in this thread. <3

I certainly <3 you! Hope CLOK is treating you well!

[Kalishar]

Searching through the lands for your friends...

1. Miaah was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
2. Rendeal was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
3. Hotep was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
4. Evelith was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
5. Wulfhen was not found in Elanthia. (Reserved)
6. Kasia was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
7. Archevald was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
8. Linor was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
9. Lumaco was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
10. Atoyoz was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
11. Luthienda was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
12. Tiawren was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
13. Tremson was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
14. Kardgar was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
15. Eilnyn was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
16. Ial was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
17. Snowdrop was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
18. Lochlaen was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
19. Tymbir was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
20. Leung was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
21. Tepkin was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
22. Tiawyn was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
23. Tianae was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
24. Kymberlyn is somewhere in Elanthia. (Friendly)
25. Dasmik is somewhere in Elanthia. (Neutral)
26. Winsilt is somewhere in Elanthia. (Neutral)
27. Enzick is somewhere in Elanthia. (Neutral)
28. Drewain was not found in Elanthia. (Neutral)
29. Anathar was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)
30. Dunwirth was not found in Elanthia. (Friendly)

The first 23 of those are all from about 10 years ago haha I did remove a few that I only had on there to keep them at cold demeanor. Wulfhen, Evoz, a few others that I can't remember now. Oh and Jacina was on there too but its not the original player so I took her off when I found that out. I miss my peeps!

[Kaig]

I actually just cleaned my list up a couple weeks ago... Felt kinda bad removing a bunch of people that I used to RP with all the time though. I know a bunch of them are gone for good, or perhaps at least for a long damn time. My friend list feels lacking now, time to find some new RP friends!!!

[petiteSylvan]

It's pretty sad when most of the people on your friend list are played by two or three people. And then there are the weirdos on your list, like Jeril.. Dayko... you know.. those sketchy ones you see from time to time... ;D I just got rid of names I know I will never see again (or at least I think I'll never see again) - sadness.

[Dayko]

It's pretty sad when most of the people on your friend list are played by two or three people. And then there are the weirdos on your list, like Jeril.. Dayko... you know.. those sketchy ones you see from time to time... ;D I just got rid of names I know I will never see again (or at least I think I'll never see again) - sadness.
Nice to know I'm a weirdo :'(

[petiteSylvan]

But I love weirdos! <3

[Jeril]

Sometimes...Jeril stalks her. Touches her armor....
The armor has nice curves, what can I say?


I love everyone in this thread. <3
<3


And then there are the weirdos on your list, like Jeril.. Dayko... you know.. those sketchy ones you see from time to time... ;D.
Definitely weird, but what about me is sketchy? -squint-

[petiteSylvan]

I just wanted to use that word. And who better to use it on than my friends? <3

[Jeril]

lol <3