Okay.. Having sex and imagining someone else.. [Archive]

longshot

07-01-2004, 05:16 AM

Originally posted by Lady Shalla
Just ask me in IM brian, since you just msged me about it anyways :blush:

That's crap!

I don't do the "IM" thing.

You can't start a thread and then take it to IMs!!!!

:birdshit:

Shalla

07-01-2004, 05:19 AM

I don't do hard core drugs.. it was just the ganja.. and I don't even smoke.. it was just a party and I got offered.

LilHellcat

07-01-2004, 05:20 AM

Under the influence or not, if your imagining someone else while having sex, then maybe you shouldn't be having sex to begin with.

Then again I have to be emotionally connected to someone to actually have sex with them but thats just me. :shrug:

Scott

07-01-2004, 05:21 AM

"Ganja" made you hallucinate like that? What the fuck are you smoking, I'd sure like to know.

PS. Acid isn't hardcore.

Chadj

07-01-2004, 05:23 AM

Acid is a lot more hardcore than ganja. heh.

Shalla

07-01-2004, 05:23 AM

Well I don't smoke cigarettes, or pot.. it hits me hard when I do.. especially I have weak lungs and asthmatic. I coughed alot when I did. :thumbsdown:

Edit: As for hardcore drugs, I have never done it, and my friends who does it.. or have done it warns me and begged me not to even consider it.. because they know how I am, and they said I would simply like it too much. I have different group of friends, and some of them do it and I pretty much have the strength of will not to try.. although I'm curious how it feels like, since I like to try new things.. also wonder what it would be like to fight off doing it after.. but I know it's not a good idea.

[Edited on 7-1-2004 by Lady Shalla]

Chadj

07-01-2004, 05:25 AM

<---- Never coughed when he tried.

<---- Never tried a second time.

<---- May or may not be lying about the second statement.

Scott

07-01-2004, 05:26 AM

Originally posted by Chadj
Acid is a lot more hardcore than ganja. heh.

Well duh. Acid is a very safe drug though, and a lot more fun then weed. Both are easy to get and pretty safe..... however I've never heard of weed making you see shit.

Sean

07-01-2004, 06:01 AM

Yea, I've smoked my fair share in the past and I never hallucinated once. Thats some funky shit.

Apathy

07-01-2004, 06:04 AM

I have no moral qualms about imagining someone else, but I haven't felt the need to in a while, my current project is very gratifying.

Acid is considered a hardcore drug, especially by people who have never done it. I wouldn't really put it in the same hardcore category as meth or heroin, but if you take enough it can fuck you up pretty bad until it passes through your body.

And yeah, you sure it was weed?

Galleazzo

07-01-2004, 06:20 AM

Man, I thought you were about to say the face changed to look like Michael Jackson. Brrrrr.

:crutches:

SpunGirl

07-01-2004, 06:25 AM

Riiiiight.

-K

Miss X

07-01-2004, 06:56 AM

I hallucinated the first time I smoked it, I kept seeing spiders all over me and around the room, so it can happen for sure.

Shalla

07-01-2004, 06:56 AM

See? seeeee??? Thanks Chica. :up:

SpunGirl

07-01-2004, 07:09 AM

Shalla, weren't you talking like, less than two months ago about being a virgin? Just curious, it seems like a short amt. of time to be popping your cherry and having wild hallucinating sex. If I'm mis-remembering, sorry, but I could swear there was a post about that.

-K

Shalla

07-01-2004, 07:17 AM

Ok, so that sarcastic riiiiggghhtt was for me.

I am.. but don't confuse sex can only be done one way. Just because I have not done THAT.. doesn't mean I haven't done other things.. I mean seriously.. Could you not have asked this question in u2u?

Not that I'm bashful on the things that I do.. I certainly don't regret or ashamed of it..

[Edited on 7-1-2004 by Lady Shalla]

SpunGirl

07-01-2004, 07:19 AM

No harm intented, I mean, I wouldn't have even asked if you hadn't posted about it in the first place. But I get your meaning, it's all good.

And the "riiight" was intended for the wackiness that is this thread.

-K

Shalla

07-01-2004, 07:21 AM

I posted that months ago though and I think one or 2 people mentioned stuff about the things I've done that was supposed to be in confidence.. , but no harm done.

[Edited on 7-1-2004 by Lady Shalla]

Betheny

07-01-2004, 07:43 AM

I have, not recently though.

longshot

07-01-2004, 08:43 AM

Originally posted by Lady Shalla
Ok, so that sarcastic riiiiggghhtt was for me.

I am.. but don't confuse sex can only be done one way. Just because I have not done THAT.. doesn't mean I haven't done other things.. I mean seriously.. Could you not have asked this question in u2u?

Not that I'm bashful on the things that I do.. I certainly don't regret or ashamed of it..

[Edited on 7-1-2004 by Lady Shalla]

Whoa, whoa! You brought it up girl... don't be getting testy... we're your friends.

I see you even edited your first post... this is not good! We're here for you... really.

This virgin thing... does this mean that your house has a beatiful and unused entrance way... so that you make those that visit come around to the back door?

:popcorn:

We're here for you... keep expression yourself... you'll feel better... honest...

AnticorRifling

07-01-2004, 08:47 AM

Be all like "You're so ugly during sex you have to prentend that you're somebody else!"

Xcalibur

07-01-2004, 09:29 AM

Eh, pot is not an hallucinogene. IF you do see things, maybe you'D see them with alcool, or with drinking pepsi...

As for the rest:bye:

CrystalTears

07-01-2004, 09:31 AM

I'm getting sick and tired of people changing their initial post once the thread gets going. This thread made no sense after it. Quit it. If you don't feel comfortable with something you say, OMFG, don't say it at all. Changing it afterwards makes you look like a goober.

To stay on topic... kinda... I have thought of someone else while having sex. They kinda just pop in there. The person I'm having sex with is still in my thoughts, just mixed in with at least one more person. One devilishly yummy person. :D

07-01-2004, 09:53 AM

what about someone who is always on drugs but has some aspect of conscious thought in a sexual scenario?

Anebriated

07-01-2004, 10:09 AM

I would classify acid as a designer drug and not so much a hardcore drug. I dont like designer drugs because there is a greater chance something could have been added or messed up when made. Cannibis is all you really need.

btw, I have seen shifting patterns and whatnot but never something that took form like a spider or imagined a different partner...

Wezas

07-01-2004, 10:16 AM

Do you know how many times in my head I've had sex with Alyson Hannigan while actually having sex with someone else?

And on the other point - only real drug I've done is LSD in high school. And never had sex while tripping, did get some manual stimulation from my gf at the time though (I think she thought if I actually had sex with her my head would a-splode)

::edited to add, on LSD I only had a few visuals, but they were fun. Riding my bike back from a friends house (yeah, that's safe) there was a white buffalo chasing me. Another time I remember playing Wolfenstein 3d while tripping and then exiting the game and a blue guy with a machine gun was in my doorway, speaking in german.::

I'm hesitant to recommend doing acid to anyone. I never had a bad trip (even with the visuals above). However occasionally when I go from a standing position to sitting down (usually when I'm facing the chair and turn and sit down) I get that flashback feeling like everything's moving 1/2 second behind where it should. Also occasionally happens in large crowded rooms when I'm passing by people closely.

[Edited on 7-1-2004 by Wezas]

07-01-2004, 10:17 AM

If I eat a bottle of viagra, I have the excuse of crying out any girly's name I choose...

According to this thread, that is.

Weedmage Princess

07-01-2004, 10:22 AM

I've only thought about the person I'm having sex with...

AnticorRifling

07-01-2004, 10:29 AM

Originally posted by Weedmage Princess
I've only thought about the person I'm having sex with...

But you've never had sex with me.........

Edaarin

07-01-2004, 12:09 PM

Only hallucinations I've ever had involved me thinking I was Batman, me dying, going to heaven, then finding out God was in fact the Joker.

The most hardcore drug Gemstone101 has ever done is Robitussin.

DeV

07-01-2004, 12:58 PM

If you hallucinated from smoking cannibus, it might have been laced with some other drug. I would definitely class acid as hardcore, personally. I witnessed some of my doormates "high" after doing acid and it was not fun to watch people try to climb out of windows because they think they can fly, or freaking out because they are seeing giant spiders crawling the walls.

And to answer the initial question, yes.

Skirmisher

07-01-2004, 01:00 PM

Yeah, as long as in the end you know who you are with and who you want to continue being with a little fantasy never hurts.

Axhinde

07-01-2004, 01:01 PM

Originally posted by Chadj
<---- Never coughed when he tried.

Then you've never tried a big enough hit.

longshot

07-01-2004, 01:09 PM

Originally posted by Wezas
Do you know how many times in my head I've had sex with Alyson Hannigan while actually having sex with someone else?

The first time I read this, I read it as--

Do you know how many times in my head I've had sex with Alyson Hannigan while actually having sex with myself?

Wow, that was funny.

Okay... Shalla?? You're slipping girl.

Details.

07-01-2004, 01:10 PM

Edit* trying not to be mean

[Edited on 7-1-2004 by The Edine]

Wezas

07-01-2004, 01:13 PM

Originally posted by longshot
Do you know how many times in my head I've had sex with Alyson Hannigan while actually having sex with myself?

Wow, that was funny.

heh, yeah.

funny.

:wasntme:

Suppa Hobbit Mage

07-01-2004, 01:13 PM

So delete it instead, unless you left it for all us to praise you for your restraint?

Wezas

07-01-2004, 01:15 PM

Originally posted by Suppa Hobbit Mage
So delete it instead, unless you left it for all us to praise you for your restraint?

I need to learn to quote any of Edine's posts that may be offensive in any way. Just in case that happens.

I passed right by it.... :no:

Suppa Hobbit Mage

07-01-2004, 01:16 PM

It was crude, something you'd expect from him.

Latrinsorm

07-01-2004, 02:39 PM

Originally posted by CrystalTears
I'm getting sick and tired of people changing their initial post once the thread gets going. This thread made no sense after it. Uh, good. I was hoping that it was something besides me not having sex that made me not understand some of that.

But if I was, I would totally be up for some wild hallucinating sex. :up:

Artha

07-01-2004, 02:42 PM

I hallucinated the first time I smoked it, I kept seeing spiders all over me and around the room, so it can happen for sure.

Team Spider wins again!!!1

/knows nobody cares

Scott

07-01-2004, 02:52 PM

Originally posted by Elrodin
I would classify acid as a designer drug and not so much a hardcore drug. I dont like designer drugs because there is a greater chance something could have been added or messed up when made. Cannibis is all you really need.

btw, I have seen shifting patterns and whatnot but never something that took form like a spider or imagined a different partner...

I've never heard of someone getting bad acid and it hurting them. The only thing I've ever seen of was some guy trying to sell regular stamps off as acid, that was about it.

Weed is nothing like acid. Acid is a whole new experience. Weed is like "Everything is cool, I'm feeling good." Acid is like "Woah, Meatwad from ATHF just came out of the TV and is now talking to me."

Atlanteax

07-01-2004, 02:56 PM

Wezas

07-01-2004, 02:57 PM

Originally posted by Artha

I hallucinated the first time I smoked it, I kept seeing spiders all over me and around the room, so it can happen for sure.

Team Spider wins again!!!1

/knows nobody cares

BWAHAHAHAHA Jesus even X isn't still pushing his Team Foreign.

Weedmage Princess

07-01-2004, 03:02 PM

Originally posted by AnticorRifling

Originally posted by Weedmage Princess
I've only thought about the person I'm having sex with...

But you've never had sex with me.........

That wasn't you?!?!?!

<STARE> :weird:

Souzy

07-01-2004, 08:59 PM

Originally posted by LilHellcat
Under the influence or not, if your imagining someone else while having sex, then maybe you shouldn't be having sex to begin with.

Then again I have to be emotionally connected to someone to actually have sex with them but thats just me. :shrug:

So true Amby. If you felt like that about him, I wouldn't have banged him hon.

I once doinked my ex while shrooming, I didn't/wouldn't imagine anyone else, but I saw aliens in Toy Story pop in out of planet Krypton.

Edited to add a couple things.

[Edited on 7-2-2004 by Lalana]

CrystalTears

07-01-2004, 09:02 PM

Hehe.. Lalana said doinked. :D

And yes! I admit it! Angelina Jolie and/or Salma Hayek is in most of my fantasies and sexual encounters. There! I said it! Sue me!

Latrinsorm

07-01-2004, 09:33 PM

Originally posted by CrystalTears
And yes! I admit it! Angelina Jolie and/or Salma Hayek is in most of my fantasies and sexual encounters. There! I said it! Sue me! But those are women. :!:

Ravenstorm

07-01-2004, 09:33 PM

Originally posted by LilHellcat
Then again I have to be emotionally connected to someone to actually have sex with them but thats just me. :shrug:

It sometimes takes experimentation to realize that about yourself. Guys especially, are "supposed" to fuck anything that moves in the lifelong pursuit of 'getting some' (yes, I'm being deliberately crude). Given that stereotypical expectation so often foisted upon each other in college, it's not terribly surprising that it requires realization after the fact that there's a deeper, more emotionally satisfying component to sex.

That being said, yes, I'm guilty of the topic. What can I say? She wasn't doing a thing for me.

Raven

CrystalTears

07-01-2004, 10:07 PM

Originally posted by Latrinsorm

Originally posted by CrystalTears
And yes! I admit it! Angelina Jolie and/or Salma Hayek is in most of my fantasies and sexual encounters. There! I said it! Sue me! But those are women. :!:

So? The question wasn't specific, it just said if you think of someone else while having sex. Thus... I do.

Oh yeah... Antonio Banderas has crept in a time or three.

CrystalTears

07-01-2004, 10:10 PM

Hey how emotionally connected are we talking here? As in, "gee I could see myself with this person for a long time", or "wow this guy has a great ass!" ?

Atlanteax

07-01-2004, 10:12 PM

Originally posted by CrystalTears
Hey how emotionally connected are we talking here? As in, "gee I could see myself with this person for a long time", or "wow this guy has a great ass!" ?

CT is shallow! :wow:

(in jest :saint: )

Betheny

07-01-2004, 10:13 PM

I don't think I've ever fantasized about someone else while having sex.

CrystalTears

07-01-2004, 10:16 PM

When it comes to physical needs and desires, yes I am!

I'm not going to go into my personal depiction of sex since it's an unpopular one, so I'll just say.. sex is good. :D :moon2:

Shalla

07-01-2004, 10:17 PM

I too, think Angelina Jolie is one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen. My sexuality can so get bent for her. I loved the movie Gia too.

Artha

07-01-2004, 10:20 PM

She's not that great.

edit: Not that I'd kick her out of bed.

[Edited on 7-2-2004 by Artha]

Back

07-01-2004, 10:21 PM

Originally posted by CrystalTears
Hehe.. Lalana said doinked. :D

And yes! I admit it! Angelina Jolie and/or Salma Hayek is in most of my fantasies and sexual encounters. There! I said it! Sue me!

If "getting off" for you depends on thinking of other women, you might consider going full-time lesbian.

If its every so often when you are bored, talk to the hubby about involving your girlfriends. I'm guessing it would be pretty rare for a man to decline.

As for myself, I've tried. In some cases it can return stimulation for me but, truth is I get off on the here and now. Spiritual, physical or mental and not neccessarily in that order.

Betheny

07-01-2004, 10:21 PM

Originally posted by Artha
She's not that great.

edit: Not that I'd kick her out of bed.

[Edited on 7-2-2004 by Artha]

I'm going to start thinking about Artha when I'm doing it.

CrystalTears

07-01-2004, 10:25 PM

Heh, no, I don't think of them because I'm bored or because I'm not satisfied with the sex or my sex life for that matter. It's actually quite spectacular. I have said before that who I'm having sex with is always on my mind, it's just that I throw some other people in there from time to time just for mental flavor, nothing more.

It's like a big juicy steak. Putting onions or mushrooms on it doesn't make it taste better, but it's still yummy.

We've discussed including other women. We just haven't found someone we trust enough to be not a complete mental case and willing to have us both.

SpunGirl

07-02-2004, 12:03 AM

If a "team" debate gets going again as a result of your comment, Artha, I'm going to ... (insert threatening message that does not violate TOS) you.

-K

Wezas

07-02-2004, 12:45 AM

Originally posted by Lalana
I saw aliens in Toy Story pop in out of planet Krypton.

The one time I went to the movies while tripping was to see Toy Story. And the best part was with all the little green aliens. I looked over at my buddy (who was tripping with me) and he was staring at the screen and grinning ear to ear.

Wezas

07-02-2004, 12:47 AM

Originally posted by Maimara
I'm going to start thinking about Artha when I'm doing it.

Why, you need to last longer?

Betheny

07-02-2004, 08:06 AM

Indeed.

07-02-2004, 10:35 AM

Originally posted by Suppa Hobbit Mage
So delete it instead, unless you left it for all us to praise you for your restraint?
It was left so she would know that I was going to say something.

DeV

07-02-2004, 11:24 AM

Originally posted by CrystalTears
Heh, no, I don't think of them because I'm bored or because I'm not satisfied with the sex or my sex life for that matter. It's actually quite spectacular. I have said before that who I'm having sex with is always on my mind, it's just that I throw some other people in there from time to time just for mental flavor, nothing more.
I have to agree. There has been a time or two or three when my fantasies have involved a man. That doesn't mean it's not as awesome a experience if I didn't have those thoughts. It just adds a bit of flavor and its not something that happens very often, it's once in a while. However, the thoughts, images, feelings, emotions and passion of your lover are always at the forefront even with the fantasies present. Everyone has them, not everyone admits to having them is how I feel. I could be wrong.

CrystalTears

07-02-2004, 11:34 AM

Exactly DEV!

Besides, if a man said to his woman that he was thinking of her and someone else, she would have a conniption. It's not something that your typical spouse/lover would approve of.

Nakiro

07-03-2004, 12:53 AM

I've never had sex.

Does masturbation count?

07-03-2004, 01:10 AM

Only if it's infront of a member of the opposite sex.

07-03-2004, 01:10 AM

Your mom walking in and giving you blue balls don't count either. Sorry.

07-03-2004, 04:21 AM

Originally posted by Xcalibur
Eh, pot is not an hallucinogene. IF you do see things, maybe you'D see them with alcool, or with drinking pepsi...

As for the rest:bye:

Way to go at being wrong.

Pot is not a downer as commonly thought.

It is a psychodelic drug, though a weak one. Smoke enough of it and you start to hear shit and then visuals follow.

- Arkans

Chadj

07-03-2004, 04:44 AM

I assume you mean psychodelic=hallucinagenic?

Artha

07-03-2004, 04:58 AM

They're the same thing.

07-03-2004, 05:03 AM

The best drugs are prescriptions. They keep you alive, amongst many other wonderful things.

Red Devil

07-03-2004, 08:49 AM

Originally posted by Stanley Burrell
The best drugs are prescriptions. They keep you alive, amongst many other wonderful things.

bleach is a keeper too,cleans you out so you dont have shitcrumbs, you could even buy a bleacheatingfreaks.com t-shirt after, ::COMMANDER AND CONQUER GLA ******* VOICE:: WOULD YOU LIKE TO TRY SOME? HAHAHA.

ps i hoep everyone that works at EA dies a HORRIBLE HORRIBLE HORRIBLE DEATH for killing westwood

[Edited on 7-3-2004 by Red Devil]

[Edited on 7-3-2004 by HarmNone(http://www.ebaumsworld.com/doodoocaca.html)]

[Edited on 7-3-2004 by Red Devil]