I HATE...........

[Souzy]

I hate people who drink too much and can't handle their liquor. I hate when stupid people drink so much that they cry, stumble and pick fights with everyone, oh especially knowing they got their ass beat by you more than once before. I hate people who are sloppy drunks, cos they fuck up my fun.

I was drunk earlier.
Only because I mixed pills though.
I wasn't violent, sloppy, or any of the above. Just darker by a few several polite shades of red.

I do not condone the aformentioned actions.

[Edited on 6-27-2004 by Stanley Burrell]

[SpunGirl]

I agree, Lalana. I've done some pretty silly things while drunk, said some stupid things maybe, or let something slip that I ordinarily wouldn't... but I've never fought with anyone, cried, hurt myself, or anything like that. I hate cranky drunks, people who drink and then whine all night about something or the other.

Sad.

-K

[Souzy]

You don't even know the half of it. Ever since she could drink the girl doesn't know how to handle her liquor. Then, I vowed never to go out drinking with her again. Last night was the first time in about 3 or 4 years, I've gone out drinking with her. I would think she'd grow up by then. NO. So she picked a fight with some little vietnamese dude, that was like shorter then me and about 100 lbs. lighter than me. I could only imagine what she must've said to him, for him to want to punch her in her face. She's the type where, she knows she pretty and therefore she thinks she's the shit, and she won't hessitate to tell you that you are ugly to your face. Yeah, she's really shallow and even worse when she's drunk.

Anyway, I tried everything in my power to seperate them two. His boy gets into it, this stupid little 19 year old got into it. I smooshed the girl and pushed the dudes off of her, the only two dudes that some what gave a fuck about my girl tried to seperate them too. I told them to walk the other way, told my girl to walk the other direction and tell them all to shut the fuck up, cos I've heard enough of these little bitches bitching out in the open. So, her two friends help me walk her a block up towards the car. On the way to the car, she tries to pick a fight with me, saying some drunk crap about me not being her girl, MY GOD. Then, goes off into some corner and cries about her ex boyfriend, cos she's a retard. Then, me and those dudes are like WTF?! So one of them is all, "Who's David?" I told them, her ex. Then they go, "ARE YOU FUCKIN' KIDDING ME BECKY?!" So they jack her up and we continue walking. We get her in the car, I tell them to put her seatbelt on, I walk to the drivers side, which she had crawled into the drivers seat. Everyone tries to get her back into the passenger seat. Then, we finally get going, I thank her boys and drive to my house.

I get home, ask her if she's ok, she said she wanted to go home (she's staying at her parents for the weekend). I said fine, drive to her house, cos she didn't wanna stay at mine. Ask her if she's ready to go in. She asks me where I was at, I said her parents like she asked. She said shit and that she can't go in like that. Okkkkkkkkkay...I go back to my house and said I'm not babying her ass, cos I'm too damn tired to deal with this shit. It was a mission to get her into my house. The girl first tried to pass out on my back porch, I piggy back her through my kitchen, through the dining room, finally hit the living room, which is where I gave up. She was bumping into everything and I didn't feel like waking up my room mate. So finally the girl pukes on my back all over my living room floor. I clean up what I could and leave her ass on my floor. I was done. I'm her girl, not super fuckin' woman. I leave a bag right under her head and call it a night, lolz.

She just woke me up at 7AM and complained how I left her on my floor and that it was cold. Then, jumped in my bed, which I said EWWWW. I told her that she puked all over herself and not even try to jump into my bed with those nasty clothes on. I grab her a tee shirt and forgot to grab pants or shorts. While I do this, I told her if she remembered that I was ready to throw down with two dudes and some chick cos of her. She cunt laughed, you know what she said? Well, was he cute though? WTF?! I said, "You don't fuckin' get it, do you?" Threw the tee shirt at her and said, when I wake up, I'll go through all of this with her, cos I was too tired to do it now. She threw on the tee shirt and jumped in my bed. Then I said EWWWWWWWW again and told her to get pants, which was right in front of her. Oh Christ on a cross, the girl flipped, cos it was just too much for her. Then, I told her she's a fuckin' drama queen, then she left. She forgot her cell phone, which I want to throw right out my window. So, I go downstairs. The spot I left her at is totally gross! She didn't even clean it up. This chick is suppose to be my bestfriend. I really am gonna start limiting my friends again. She's gonna be the first one gone. I really don't hang with girls and now I know why.

That's my rant and the most fucked up night of my life (well recently). I just realized the most drama I've had since I was 18 was with her. The girl is full of it. The last time we hung out, she got the same way, but that time I threw her on the cement and dragged her by her head up two parking spaces and kicked her in her face. After that, I never hung out with her again, only when she was sober I would hang with her. Ugh...she talks so much shit, to the point where it starts fights and then runs to me like I'm her body guard. After not hanging out like that with her for 3 or 4 years, she does it again. I really hate her at this moment and I wanted to knock her out. Instead, I just told myself that this is it. I am not ever gonna talk to her again, she's totally cut off as a friend. SHE IS.

[Jazuela]

So, you've been friends with a drunk for over 5 years. I think I've grasped this part - though WHY you've been friends with a drunk for over 5 years I'm not quite getting.

The last time before this current time she behaved badly with you - you beat her up. Hm. Maybe this helps me understand WHY you're friends with a drunk. Not completely sure yet though...let's move along.

You stopped hanging out with her for awhile - smart move on your part if you ask me. But then - just like an alcoholic having "only one more" - you go out with the chick again - KNOWING that she's trash, KNOWING that she's shallow, KNOWING that she's trouble. And - you're surprised that she behaved trashy, shallowly, and caused trouble? You're upset with HER for being exactly who and what she's been the whole time?

Why not, instead, be upset with yourself for choosing to have such lousy "friends" and for having such piss-poor judgement?

I dunno - it sounds like a bunch of yahoos, between yourself, your "friend" and the guys who "helped you" - none of whom know squat about how to behave yourselves, drunk or sober. Maybe some kind of college frat or something. If you've known her since you were both around 18 and you've known her for around 5 years, that makes you around 23 years old. Time to grow up chickie. Get out of the trash pile and cultivate some better quality friends.

[SiKWiDiT]

Is she hot?

[DianaBanana]

I almost fell down a flight of stairs once when I was drunk. Lesson learned.

[Souzy]

Originally posted by Jazuela
So, you've been friends with a drunk for over 5 years. I think I've grasped this part - though WHY you've been friends with a drunk for over 5 years I'm not quite getting.


I've known her for over 5 years. I just said that I didn't go out drinking with her for about 3- 4 years, not the length of time I've known her. I've known her since HS. Don't get me wrong, she's there and has been there for me when I need her. The only time she gets stupid is when she drinks, which is when I'm not around her, for that reason alone. Me beating her down, was something I did when I was younger. I wouldn't even do something like that now, prolly cos I have more patience and think about my reactions now. Other than that, I really thought she grew up. Guess I was wrong.

Yes she is hot. But, when she opens her mouth, but she's REAL ugly when she drinks. I mean it.

[Souzy]

Originally posted by Jazuela
You stopped hanging out with her for awhile - smart move on your part if you ask me. But then - just like an alcoholic having "only one more" - you go out with the chick again - KNOWING that she's trash, KNOWING that she's shallow, KNOWING that she's trouble. And - you're surprised that she behaved trashy, shallowly, and caused trouble? You're upset with HER for being exactly who and what she's been the whole time?

Why not, instead, be upset with yourself for choosing to have such lousy "friends" and for having such piss-poor judgement?

I dunno - it sounds like a bunch of yahoos, between yourself, your "friend" and the guys who "helped you" - none of whom know squat about how to behave yourselves, drunk or sober. Maybe some kind of college frat or something. If you've known her since you were both around 18 and you've known her for around 5 years, that makes you around 23 years old. Time to grow up chickie. Get out of the trash pile and cultivate some better quality friends.

Hmmm...I just read this whole thread. Did I post that I knew her since I was 18? I gotta reread my post, anyway, nope, I'm actually 25. I however have a certain group of friends whom I hang out with and whom I go out with. Yesterday was actually the first in a couple years, I've decided to go out with her again. She met up with a group of people that she just came from a birthday party with, I just came from work. I already did the pick and choose thing with my friends. It's impossible to try to just seperate her from me entirely. Her family is close to my family and I've known her for too damn long to try to avoid her.

But, what pissed me off most is that what I went through last night, I haven't gone through for years. Now if I wanted to act like I was 21 or 23 all over again, I would've punched the chick in her face (not my girl) and I would've grabbed those dudes by their throat, with no question asked. Now, that would've been me when I was that age. But, for the fact that I tried to seperate everyone and avoid any kind of fight, that was effort. I really think everyone's too damn old to be trying to brawl at a bar.

Anyway, she totally ruined my weekend. I think I'll stick to my own group of friends that I normally hang out and go out with. Oh right, and there will be no more going out with her. For the fact that I haven't hung out with her for the longest time and actually thinking maybe she grew up but didn't, ummm...I'll actually keep things the way it has been for the last 3ish years. Hanging out with her when she's sober is nice, being reminded why I never go out to the club/bar with her made a huge dent in our friendship. Like I said, I guess people don't change.

[longshot]

Originally posted by Jazuela

Why not, instead, be upset with yourself for choosing to have such lousy "friends" and for having such piss-poor judgement?



Wow... you're a cunt.

[Weedmage Princess]

You're smart to have a set of friends who you go out with and who you don't. Now you know you have to stick to it. ;) I had the same issue with this chick who was my best friend all through high school. I loved hanging out with her, but once you get her out with a little liquor in her, she's a totally different person. She's very vulgar, all over guys and had no problem dragging them off to different areas of the club and/or going home with them. A few of the other girls in the group I'd go out with were like that, too and you know how it is if some chick happens to like the guy...then they get all pissed off and want to fight the girl and her friends...then you find yourself in the middle of that crap. That topped with all the other dudes think you're the same way cause hey, the girls you're hanging with are doing it. They don't understand why they got slapped into the middle of next week for grabbing your ass or your breasts. Good times. :rolleyes: I haven't gone out with them since my 20th birthday when she got kicked out of a club for fighting cause she was having sex with some girl's boyfriend...and you know 8 years later, even if I did keep in touch with her I seriosly doubt I'd go out with her again unless I knew for a fact she wasn't like that anymore.

It's just not in your best interest to hang out with some people...sounds like this friend of your's is one of them.

[Lord Deprav]

I'm always drunk.

Deprav

[Souzy]

Originally posted by Lord Deprav
I'm always drunk.

Deprav

But do you cry? You know you do...

[Myshel]

Originally posted by longshot

Originally posted by Jazuela

Why not, instead, be upset with yourself for choosing to have such lousy "friends" and for having such piss-poor judgement?



Wow... you're a cunt.

Why is that? After wading though that post I too thought the same. Why people want that drama in their lives it beyond me. What happened to civilized behavior, what is getting drunk, punching people out? Loyalty to what? As my Mama used to say its called low lifes, no class, no clue. I wouldn't have a friend who would do that, let alone go out in a public place with them. I suggest you take Juz's advice and start choosing yours better. You are who your friends are.

[Sean]

Why would you let 1 act, being drunk, which may or may not even be a common occurance determine who your friends are? I spend a lot of time with friends when they aren't drunk some of whom I avoid when they are drunk for the same reasons in lalanas post. It doesn't mean I shouldn't be friends with them it just means I should be careful when I spend more or less time with them, atleast not to me.

[Edited on 6-27-2004 by Tijay]

[Betheny]

My ex husband was like that... Very annoying. This is one of the major reasons I don't drink much... because I don't really trust myself to have control. It's much better to have a good time sober than to ruin everyone's time because I'm so drunk I can't walk or talk.

[Myshel]

This might be an unpopular opinion, but I believe that what people do when they are drunk, stoned, ect are very much who they are. They just hide it, ie control it better when they are sober. So if someone is a asshole, bitch, promiscuous, beligerant, ect. drunk, they are a asshole, bitch, promiscuous, beligerant, ect. sober, just under control and sneaky about it.

[CrystalTears]

I have some great friends, one of them I wouldn't go out drinking with cause he's obnoxious sober, he's worse when he's liquored. But I adore him all the same and is very fun to be with and talk to, I just choose not to socialize with him in that aspect.

Just because someone has one bad habit doesn't make them a bad person. You just have to pick and choose what to do with said person.

And I disagree with you, Myshel. Being drunk brings out your inhibitions. It brings out the worst in people who wouldn't normally act in that way. It makes you lash out and be something that you control yourself from being.

You have controls in your life to stop you from being a certain kind of person. I'm a natural flirt. I don't like when I drink because I find myself flirting with all sorts of people, especially those I know I shouldn't be. I specifically don't drink to avoid myself from acting that way. Are you saying that I'm just a slut dying to get out? :D

If I was drinking specifically to let that slut out, I'd agree with you. However people who use alcohol in that way are the problem, not your casual drunk.

[Edited on 6/27/2004 by CrystalTears]

[Latrinsorm]

Originally posted by Jazuela
Why not, instead, be upset with yourself for choosing to have such lousy "friends" and for having such piss-poor judgement? Yeah, Lalana, how dare you give someone a second chance. :lol:

From what I can tell, you did the right thing up until you let her leave without cleaning up her own puke. That's just gross.

[Myshel]

>>>And I disagree with you, Myshel. Being drunk brings out your inhibitions. It brings out the worst in people who wouldn't normally act in that way. It makes you lash out and be something that you control yourself from being.

You have controls in your life to stop you from being a certain kind of person. I'm a natural flirt. I don't like when I drink because I find myself flirting with all sorts of people, especially those I know I shouldn't be. I specifically don't drink to avoid myself from acting that way. Are you saying that I'm just a slut dying to get out? <<<

I have just found that people use drinking to excuse their bad behavior. As in.. "Oh I was drunk so thats why I ..... whatever...."

The key sentence CT was "I specifically don't drink to avoid myself from acting that way." If Lalana's friend knows she gets the way she does, and I'm sure her friends have told her this and she cont. to do it, then she WANTS to and uses drinking as a excuse for being herself.

Being drunk does bring out your inhibitions, acting on them though is what your character is.

[Edited on 6-27-2004 by Myshel]

[Edited on 6-27-2004 by Myshel]

[Betheny]

Maybe Lalana hangs out with a crowd that thinks drinking is a necessary part of social interaction -- and that's maybe why this chick is inclined to get drunk.

I know that feeling. I don't drink much, and sometimes people my age get offended or think I'm some kind of a straight laced weirdo or what have you. It's annoying. If I say I don't want a drink, they have to interrogate you.

[Souzy]

Wow, I got some interesting responses. The most surprising is from Myshel. I really never expected that kind of answer from her. Each one of my friends have different characteristics. There is no way they are the same, cos then, my group of friends would be pretty damn boring if they all acted the same. I am no where like most of them, cos I am my own person.

Like I said, it took me a couple years to hang out with her like this again, only to find out that she's still the same when she goes out. It was a flash back to when I was 21. I really thought she did grow up and became a responsible drinker. It's such a disappointment to know that she's still the same. She's an awesome person, when she's sober. She's just an obnoxious drunk.

I really don't think you are your true self when you drink. No way is that true. Drinking just hinders your judgement. Oh and I recapped everything that happened to her just now. I told her that she's still the sloppiest drunk and that it's kinda pathetic that she's like that, blah blah. Then, I just told her that I'm never gonna go out drinking with her again. If she wants to hang out, then we can hang out, they'll just be no alcohol involved. It went to the point where she didn't even want me to tell her anymore, but I continued. Cos she's going to hear how stupid she gets when she drinks. Then, I randomly said I hope when she hangs out with her so called friends in Boston, that she doesn't get like that on the regular. Her friends there, would just walk away and not even try to break up the fight, so she might one day wake up with a broken nose if she doesn't cut this shit out.

Anyway, my friends that I go out with are responsible drinkers. They know their limits and will gladly take my car keys away from me if they feel that I'm incoherent. They are my group of friends whom I've known for about 5 years. Our rule is, if you come out with us, you leave with us. I wouldn't allow them to go home with someone else, when they're shit faced, nor would they allow me to. Oh, I'm repeating this story to my friends too and telling them I wish I had gone out with them instead of her last night. They're just like, "Wow...she's still the same."




Yeah, Lalana, how dare you give someone a second chance.

From what I can tell, you did the right thing up until you let her leave without cleaning up her own puke. That's just gross.


Ummm...hellooooooooooooo. Jesus is my homeboy, that's why! I'll only give second, third, fourth, ect chances to a select few.

Oh and I'll only clean up after a select few too. Yes, it was gross, but leaving it on my floor would've been way nasty and the smell would've been worse in the morning if I left it there.

[Back]

Being drunk dosen't mean you're more who you supposedly really are. Being drunk is you without any means of rational judgement.

Also, I do not act like this person so its safe to have a beer with me. ;)

:gulp: <-- Just found this. Its kinda hot.

[Jazuela]

Thanks for clearing that up Lalana. In your post that I first responded to, the tone and events leading to it left me with the impression that you were behaving just as badly as she was, and that you hadn't grown up since you were 20.

That you've got a "higher quality" group of friends shows otherwise - so I apologize for misunderstanding your first post.

HOWEVER... (you knew that was gonna happen, right?)

If it was me in the situation - I wouldn't have tried to break up the fight. I'd have left her to clean up her own mess and solve her own problems - or not. She made it by getting drunk in the first place, she can damned well clean it up. And I don't mean the puke - I wouldn't have given her a ride to my house in that condition in the first place. I'd have just left her at the bar having the fight with the little Vietnamese guy.

The moment you take responsibility for someone else's actions, you give them an excuse to continue behaving that way. In the matter of teenage kids and parents it's called "Tough Love" and it's something I am extremely emphatic about.

When someone is old enough to know better and chooses to remain ignorant, I wash my hands of them and let them rise and fall on their own merits.

I ain't gonna EVER let anyone use me as a doormat again. If you have trouble, and you're too stupid to figure out a way to resolve it, go cry to someone else. I don't wanna hear it.

If that makes me a cunt - eh. Whatever. It also makes me someone who doesn't get used. REAL friends don't do that shit to each other. If she was really your friend she wouldn't have gotten so drunk that she was incapable of taking care of herself. That's not a friend. That's a drunk, and when you help her you become an enabler. You gave her permission to BE a drunk, by "solving" her problems that night. Hindsight and all that - now ya know, and it sounds like you're smart enough that you won't get sucked into it again.

[Blosum]

Heh, funny that you started this post, last night the exact thing happened to me.

Went to a party and a good friend drank way to much , became obnoxious and insulting, then sad and hugging, was so pathetic.

Needless to say, ruined my night and wanted to smack her silly.

[Betheny]

You should have slapped her. She probably would have liked it.

:jerkit:

OH MY GOD WHO CREATED THIS SMILEY IT'S MY FAVORITE

[Blosum]

[quote]Originally posted by Maimara
You should have slapped her. She probably would have liked it.

Yea? You know these things? Is that how you are when you are drunk?

[Souzy]

HOWEVER... (you knew that was gonna happen, right?)


Nope, I posted that many times too. Years pass and you'd think someone would grow up. Apparently for her, she didn't work on that area. I expected her to be cocky, but not vulgar, obnoxious and then to start a fight? Yeah, she's cut off. I told her to give up drinking, cos she's gonna find herself in a hospital. It really is a shame.

[Betheny]

Originally posted by Blosum
[quote]Originally posted by Maimara
You should have slapped her. She probably would have liked it.

Yea? You know these things? Is that how you are when you are drunk?

I like it even when I'm not drunk, honey.

[Rhynik]

All these sappy, angry drunks give us happy drunks a bad name.

[Souzy]

Originally posted by Rhynik
All these sappy, angry drunks give us happy drunks a bad name.

Exactly! And they ruin my fun, which pisses me off to the extreme.

Well, I didn't read all the long posts in this thread because I'm lazy, but I'd say the best bet is to just let her get her ass whooped and let her wake up in a couple alleys for her to get the point.

P.s. Give her my # I'll have her all fucked up in the head.

[Vesi]

When I was still single, I would go over to my friend's house and we would drink, listen to music and play games. (Scrabble, Boggle, etc) We usually didn't go out because she was married (even though her husband was usually on the road because he is a musician) and I was sort of sick of the club scene.

This friend would get so drunk and her personality would change so much we gave her a seperate name for her drunk self so when we talked about her the next day we would just use that. She would get drunk and want to get in the car and drive with all the windows down and the music blaring.(yeah... safe and what a way not to attract cops!) So, when I saw her headed towards being that drunk, I would park my car behind her's and take her keys. She would cuss me up one side and down the other when I took her keys. I would just laugh. Ten minutes later she would be passed out on the couch with the face of an angel.

I'd tell her the next morning that Lola (her drunk name) had visited and of course she didn't remember a thing. She just thanked me for hiding the car keys. We are still best friends to this day and if she drinks to excess, Lola can still appear. Normally, I'm not around these days when that happens since we don't have our 'slumber parties' anymore. However, I do get some very odd IMs from her. hehe

Vesi

[Snapp]

Annoying or over-emotional drunks are the worst. I agree with a couple of the posts here, if you do hang with her again and she drinks, let her fight her own battles. Let her get her ass beat down a few times. She'll either learn to behave herself, or to stop drinking so much (or end up in the hospital).

[Souzy]

The girl has gotten her ass beat good and by me. When I said I stopped going out with her about 4 years ago, cos of a fight she started between her girl and I. Her girl got stupid and she got stupid, I told her girl to drop it cos my girl was drunk and she's a drama queen when she drinks. Her girl decided to get loud and did that hand thing in my face. I took her hands put them in her lap, proceeded to tell her to speak to me at the right tone, cos I wasn't listening if she was yelling. Then, she threw up her hands, cussed at me and screamed real loud in my face. I stepped back from the car, grabbed her by her arm, pulled her out of the drivers side, kicked her under my cousins car, knocked her out. Turned around, grabbed my girl by her throat, threw her on the cement, pinned my knee on her throat and broke her nose. It took about 5 dudes to get me off of her. I ended up dragging her by her head across the whole parking lot, then they hemmed me up and I just ended up kicking her face in with my knee high boots since I couldn't punch her.

I refused to talk to her for about 3 months. Everyone told her what happened and she felt bad, tried to call my brother and my friends to talk to me. I actually talked to her when I could stand to hear her voice. What I said to her, is basically just like what I said to her today. Enough is enough, but I'm not going to throw away a semi-good friend. She's been there for me through thick and thin, which is why I give her way more chances than she deserves. I just won't be around her when she drinks. So ass beating apparently doesn't work with her.

Dude, Lalanna will you marry me? You can lay the smacketh downeth

[Souzy]

OK I hate the way Ashley Simpson sings. Why the hell is she trying to come out? WHY?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh, as an update Lalana stood me up for our wedding in vegas

[Souzy]

We're sooo still getting married and you WILL have my love child, oh yes you will.

[MPSorc]

because you know you really like her music thats why

[Souzy]

Originally posted by MPSorc
because you know you really like her music thats why

Do you want me to start not liking you?

[GSLeloo]

Originally posted by Lalana
I hate people who drink too much and can't handle their liquor.


LIES! You like my brother and he pukes every morning after drinking!

[Latrinsorm]

Originally posted by Lalana
OK I hate the way Ashley Simpson sings. Ashlee is cute. I've only heard one of her songs, and I wasn't all that impressed, but still.

Also, I found out I'm (probably) a weepy drunk, so I'll make sure to stay away from angry Asian chicks. :)

[MPSorc]

Do you want me to start not liking you? [/quote]

how could you not like me?

[Souzy]

Originally posted by GSLeloo

Originally posted by Lalana
I hate people who drink too much and can't handle their liquor.


LIES! You like my brother and he pukes every morning after drinking!

ROFL! I've never seen him like that evar! Oh gross. I did make a comment on how he drinks too damn much. I'm like dude, give it a break. I mean I drink when I go out, but not to the point where I'm puking, ew. But, he drinks when he's doing nothing, I mean yeash. I haven't talked to him a while, how is he? :(

MP - keep on making comments like that and I so not like you anymore. :rant:

[MPSorc]

<3 Lalana