The Breaking Up Chain Reaction

[DianaBanana]

So as many of you know, I'm no longer seeing that juggle boy. Anyway, this seems to have set off some weird chain reaction because now three of my friends have either been dumped or have dumped their significant others in the past two weeks. Strange. Well, at least I wont be the only single friend anymore. :shibby:

[Bobmuhthol]

Juggling sucks.

[Edaarin]

Further evidence that women are insane.

[Bobmuhthol]

THIS IS THE PWNED POLICE! WE HAVE YOU SURROUNDED!

[DianaBanana]

Kiss it mofo. :moon:

[DianaBanana]

Hey Edaarin, my friends that are all single now...they're all guys. So this has nothing to do with women being crazy..we're crazy for different reasons. :P

[Jonty]

Originally posted by DianaBanana
three of my friends have either been dumped or have dumped their significant others in the past two weeks.

This is preparation for the summer. :)

[DeV]

If you keep one on the side, you will bounce back very quickly. :grin:

[DianaBanana]

Yeah, I'm going to take this moment of being single, being 23, and most likely unemployed to enjoy my summer to the fullest. :cheers:

DarkElf's avatar is ummm...mesmerizing.

[Edited on 5-9-2004 by DianaBanana]

[Edited on 5-9-2004 by DianaBanana]

[DeV]

Originally posted by DianaBanana


DarkElf's avatar is ummm...mesmerizing.

If youve ever had mind-alterning, luscious, bountiful moments of pleasure with your partner... then you can understand need yielding to force and need yielding to need such as presented in my avatar. :saint:

[Blazing247]

The Summer of George!

On a serious note, I have helped many girls bounce back (and up and down, too) post-breakup. I offer my services freely.

I'm sorry, did that make me sound like a heartless manwhore? Ah well. :bleh:

[DianaBanana]

Originally posted by Blazing247
The Summer of George!

On a serious note, I have helped many girls bounce back (and up and down, too) post-breakup. I offer my services freely.

I'm sorry, did that make me sound like a heartless manwhore? Ah well. :bleh:

Whore! :socool:

So in other words you have sabotaged at least 3 relationships because you don't wish to feel alone?

[DianaBanana]

Originally posted by RangerD1
So in other words you have sabotaged at least 3 relationships because you don't wish to feel alone?

I had nothing to do with any of them. I dont even get to see these friends all that much anymore.

:baa:

[Edaarin]

Man, you could be a little more subtle hitting on her.

[Blazing247]

<Man, you could be a little more subtle hitting on her.>

Girls like to be hit on. So anyways Diana, when we getting together? The club I work at has great bands on Saturday nights...

:cheers:

[DianaBanana]

Originally posted by Blazing247
<Man, you could be a little more subtle hitting on her.>

Girls like to be hit on. So anyways Diana, when we getting together? The club I work at has great bands on Saturday nights...

:cheers:

:help:

[Atlanteax]

Originally posted by DianaBanana

Originally posted by Blazing247
<Man, you could be a little more subtle hitting on her.>

Girls like to be hit on. So anyways Diana, when we getting together? The club I work at has great bands on Saturday nights...

:cheers:

:help:

:lol:

What's the problem, Diana?

You're obviously an attractive and fun person...

... and you're now Single. ;)

[DianaBanana]

I've decided that dating is evil. :down:

But thanks for the compliment. :up:

ain't nuttin wrong wit a lil bump and grind.

[Hips]

Originally posted by DianaBanana
I've decided that dating is evil. :down:


Agreed. :thumbsup:

[Blazing247]

Who said anything about dating? :smug:

Don't make me whip out a picture to convince you.

[Meos]

If you want my body
and you think I'm sexy
come one baby let me know!

[Atlanteax]

Originally posted by DianaBanana
I've decided that dating is evil. :down:

But thanks for the compliment. :up:

Bummer for the Guys!! They're definately missing out....

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But yes, dating can be evil at times... especially when things are going great, she keeps showing an interest in going out again... then instead totally flakes out and I don't hear from her for whatever reason. :weird:

As for the most recent one, I text-messaged her cellular... saying "Hey, I haven't heard from you for awhile, is everything okay?" She replies back saying "Yea, I'm fine but my computer is broken :o("

I've sent her a few messages since, but no response... which surprises me, because we'd usually talk every night (sometimes day too), and if I'm not online one night, she'd leave an email note saying something like "Missed you tonight", and if she's a no-show, she makes a subtle apology (if she earlier said she'd be there) and talk about what kept her busy.

Hence how I'm confused by her silence... :?:

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All I know is that she spoke briefly about having a rough (rebellious) childhood where she made some mistakes, but is learning from.

That she had a horrible ex, who decieved her, had a criminal record (that she didn't know about) and got her into debt (that she had to work her way out). So bad, she basically stopped dating for 2 years... and I think it's only been roughly 6-10 months since she "started dating again" (but not really) before meeting me.

She commented how she's writing a book about her earlier experiences... and has met with a publisher over it.

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Gone out a few times, but not yet on a "real date". Was about to two weeks ago Thursday, but she ended up asking if we could reschedule it that afternoon, when in the morning she said that she was going to call the bowling alleys (she made the date for us) to ensure that there's no "league night" going on.

Later she said that she just felt mentally out of it... the next day she commented that she hopes that she doesn't have mono (after having it 2 years ago) ... and then the next day, shortly before her computer apparently broke, she asked if I ever got depressed on certain occassions, to which I said yes.

She commented that she has this "anniversary" thing coming up soon... said that it wasn't a relationship thing or anything like that... but declined when I inquired if she wanted to talk about it, saying maybe later.

So, whatever the "anniversary" thing is, is obviously tied to some event in her past... which I don't think it's family-related (I've met them, great people, they all seem to get along well) ... so either ex-related or one of those "mistakes" when younger.

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A few other galpals of mine, who knows a bit more detail , commented that they think she's handling this ("rescheduling" deal with the eventual silence) poorly... is likely dealing with insecurity issues... and that I probably shouldn't expect to hear from her again. :?:

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So yes, Dating is evil. :weird:

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But if anyone wants to comment on the story I just laid out (guess once I got going, decided to type it all out) for advice/insight... feel free to do so.

[DeV]

Wow, she has alot of emotional baggage. Dating is probably not her top priority right now.

[Chyrain]

actually, it sounds like a load of crap to me.

was this someone you met online and have never met in person before?

[Atlanteax]

Originally posted by DarkelfVold
Wow, she has alot of emotional baggage. Dating is probably not her top priority right now.

Yea, I'm inclined to believe that she is still struggling to resolve some of her issues...

I didn't sense anything "wrong" when I was with her in person though.

But I apparently may have underestimated the difficulties she referred to when speaking of her past.

Told her awhile before that if there's ever anything she needed, I'll be there for her... so until then, I'll just leave her be.




Originally posted by Chyrain
actually, it sounds like a load of crap to me.

was this someone you met online and have never met in person before?

Met online, but have met up in person 4 times... leading up to the first "real date" as I mentioned.

The 2nd of those 4 times, was after a musical that she performed in (brought her a rose, of course). After she introduced me to her family, her mother had her invite me along with the family for coffee afterwards (hence meeting her family, and knowing they're good people).

So, after having already met... and enjoying each other's company both online and off-line...

... why the total flake-out? :?:

[Latrinsorm]

Originally posted by Atlanteax
... why the total flake-out? :?: Women are insane.