Breaking up

[DianaBanana]

Breaking up sucks. That is all.

[Skirmisher]

Yeah. It sure as hell does.:(

[Edaarin]

I usually look at it as seeing the shackles being broken...

[DianaBanana]

It's gonna be a long day. :down:

[Chadj]

Yup, it can suck. :(

A lot.

[Miss X]

Sucks a whole lot. Time is the best healer though.
Hope you are doing ok. :)

[DianaBanana]

I have great friends. Stacey made me lunch at her apartment. I'm not sure if I wanna make an appearance at juggling or not..I'll probably go. Maybe I'll just stay an hour.

[Suppa Hobbit Mage]

Is this the guy you went to MD with and kind of got the disapproval of your Mother for not staying home for Easter?

[DianaBanana]

Oh my parents liked him. My mom just wanted me home for Easter...which i ended being home. We only went down for friday and saturday. When I broke the news to them late late last night the first thing they said was "I hope you're gonna stay friends with him."

[AnticorRifling]

Without knowing the reasons and details behind the breakup I'm not going to say stay friends or kill him. I am, however, sorry to see you upset. Remember beer always loves you :cool:

[Sweets]

Good friends are a life saver during a break up. Go to juggling. It will help keep your mind off it. Any chocolate easter bunnies about? They can help too.;)

[DianaBanana]

My buddy Erik is buying the first round on friday night. I might need something stronger than a fuzzy navel this time.

[Suppa Hobbit Mage]

Could always get a "Hairy Anal", in leau of the Fuzzy Navel.

[DianaBanana]

Originally posted by Suppa Hobbit Mage
Could always get a "Hairy Anal", in leau of the Fuzzy Navel.

OMG gross. :weird:

[Xcalibur]

Prefer to break and be free to be still with the person and be unhappy.

[Celexei]

i wish ya the best...i just got over my breakup took me four months but i found another and i'm quite happy....even though i SWORE i'd never be happy again... i by far wish you the VERY VERY best

[DianaBanana]

Thank you.

[Celexei]

Not a problem at all...if you need anyone to talk to about ANYTHING please please feel free to AIM me

[Sean]

Originally posted by Xcalibur
Prefer to break and be free to be still with the person and be unhappy.

She gave no indication that she was unhappy or vice versa, just that their relationship ended.

[Celexei]

Originally posted by Tijay

Originally posted by Xcalibur
Prefer to break and be free to be still with the person and be unhappy.

She gave no indication that she was unhappy or vice versa, just that their relationship ended.


hmmm but the first post was:

Breaking up

Breaking up sucks. That is all.


so something that sux is never a good thing

[Sean]

But if you read his post hes not refering to post break up depression.

[DianaBanana]

The relationship didnt suck, the breaking up did. I wont go into detail but I'm not angry or bitter towards him (like i'd normally get after something like this). He's a great guy and I'm going to try my hardest to remain friendly with him.

It just wasnt meant to be I suppose.

[Celexei]

at least you keep possitive on the fact...well as much as can be i guess

[DianaBanana]

Originally posted by Celexei
at least you keep possitive on the fact...well as much as can be i guess

It's not normal for me to be like this after a break up but then again I never dated anyone like him before. Besides, him and I are stuck seeing each other on tuesday nights so it would be best to try and keep it friendly.

I just hope the future brings something good my way eventually. I'm tired of feeling let down.

If you need a good rebound my harem is always open ;)

just kidding, hope it works out for you.

[Betheny]

It's a lot easier to hate the person you're not with anymore.

I'm still friends with my ex husband, but it took me a lot of soul-searching and pondering to be able to do it.

It also caused me a lot of frustration, depression, wondering if maybe things co uld have worked/should have worked if only I/he had...

Yeah, it's not an easy thing to do.

[Xcalibur]

Better to be hated than to be ignored (from the breaker's point of view)

[DianaBanana]

Ya know, the last couple days I was doing alright. Hell, I even had dinner with the boy tuesday night (and it was fun), but just suddenly tonight I get all down again. This blows. That is all.

[HarmNone]

You will have your ups and downs, hon. However, all this will pass and a new relationship will come along. In the meantime, learn to love yourself and to enjoy your own company and the company of friends. Hatred and anger only prolong the agony. :)

HarmNone

[SpunGirl]

Breaking up is hard enough (woaah)
Say you have nothing but I call your bluff
You've got my sweaters, my hat
I can't find my cat
The hardest part of breaking up
Is getting back your stuff.

-K

P.S. Seriously, good luck with everything.

[Caiylania]

Best wishes always. May your next relationship fullfill what this one lacked, whatever that may be :)