*sighs*

[Solkern]

I just got back from the hospital today, One of my best friends died today, hung himself, His girlfriend and My friends sister got ina fist fight, and a few hours after that he hung himself.

I hope no matter what harsh things/times that come across in your life, you don't end your life on any account.

[TheEschaton]

Wow.

All I'll say is I've had friends who've killed themselves, and I'll tell you the one thing that most of my friends never heard enough: you are not alone.


-TheE-

[Snapp]

He hung himself because two other people fought? That can't be the reason.... I'm sorry for your loss though Solkern.

[HarmNone]

Solkern, I am so sorry for your loss. It is never easy to lose a friend, but to lose a friend to suicide is one of the most difficult things to bear. My sympathy to his family and friends.

HarmNone

[Solkern]

He was drunk, His sister and his girlfriend got in a fight, he slapped his siter out of a drunk rage i'm guessing, i don't know all the facts but he called some of his friends telling him he was leaving and it's goodbye, Justin drove over there, as did I but i was a good 45 min drive away, Justin got there 10mins after he called justin.

[Skirmisher]

I'm so sorry Solkern. Both for your friends family and for you.

I hope you are all able to support each other through this.

[Mint]

Please accept my condolences Solkern, I am truly sorry.

[Nieninque]

Im sorry for yours and your friends loss.

[Myshel]

I'm so sorry for your lose, sucide is the hardest of deaths to handle emotionally for those of us left behind. My prayers are with you.

[Betheny]

Terrible... I am very sorry for you, Solkern.

Your friend is at peace, now. Maybe you can find some comfort in that.

[Galleazzo]

That's rugged, guy, I'm sorry.

An ex-boyfriend of my daughter's hung himself last year off a bridge. The bitch of it is that a friend found out what was going down and talked Bill in, only he slipped climbing back up over and went down. Matt wasn't strong enough to save him and now that poor kid's going through his life thinking Bill died because of him.

No matter how bad it gets, I got a kid who needs me and a family. It ain't right to do that to them.

[Solkern]

Ok well I went to his funeral on saturaday, and I finally got to talk to myla and his sister and I found out what happened, the whole story


Abe was depressed as it was, He was drinking heavily that night and abe's sister and abe's girlfriend got in a fight, abe's sister jasmine beat up abe's girlfriend, abe then hit his siter, which he has always said is one thing he would never do, So he got more depressed, Abe and his girl where having a little problem as it was, small fighting, and with abe's family not likeing myla, myla broke up with him, so this depressed him even more, a few hours later, the cops show up, and abe being only 20, get an alochol ticket. And more depressed, that's when he called up friends, saying goodbye and hung himself
I'm crying like crazy right now, so don't mind me. but that's what happened

[MPSorc]

My sympathy for you Solkern, I know what its like to lose a friend.

[Solkern]

What made it hit me the hardest, was two days before he hung himself, I don't drink, But i took a shot with him, and our cheers was: To friendship for life

*sighs* God I miss him so much, It's to hard for me to picture him gone, it's like it doesn't seem right.

[Mint]

Hey, I am so sorry youre going through this. Don't forget to take care of yourself though. It is easy to forget your own needs when your grieving so try to remember to eat well, rest, and get excercise. Sounds lame I know but these two things are things we forget to do when someone we love dies. You will struggle through this because you must but try to remember it really does get easier with time. Sorry for the cliche but it is true.






[Edited on 3-29-2004 by Mint]

[Souzy]

That's rough. I totally understand you though. I didn't take it too well when I found out my ex of 4 years died from being shot in the head. My heart goes out to you. Be around loved ones to comfort you. Sometimes that helps a lot.

Edited bleh.

[Edited on 3-29-2004 by Lalana]

[Solkern]

I've been spending most of my time with marissa, she's is really the only one to compfort me, shes my best friend, and my love
And she gives me strength, and she's the one true happiness in my life, and I feel the best when i'm with her, So I've been spending most of my time after i Found out what happened with abe. and she has had this happen before so she knows what it's like

[Ilvane]

I'm sorry to hear about your loss Solkern.

-A

[Atlanteax]

Solkern, did Abe have a history of chronic depression?

Or was it just that one period of time of significant depression for himself?

.

I lost my father to similiar means 5 years ago yesterday.

He endured a business-related setback when I was very young, which effectively broke his spirit... and went into on-and-off depression since... then he was going through a 2nd major crisis which prompted him to give up.

.

It's really rough when you personally wonder if you could have done something... but there are just times when things are simply out of your control.

[Silverona]

That is so very sad, I wish I could give you a big hug, I'm glad you have someone to lean on, that's very important.

[Solkern]

I'm not really sure, abe could hide things rather well, I knew he was depressed, but i didn't know how badly, If you met him, wouldn't haqve a clue he was depressed, he was always in a great mood.

[Lord Deprav]

I think thats how people are sometimes though. I am having a hard time dealing with life right now also. My grandpa is have triple bi-pass heart surgery tomorrow. I don't deal with death very good. I am very glad to see you are talking about it with people here. Its always helps to get things off of your chest my friend. My thoughts are with you.

Stew

[Solkern]

Thank you all for your support.