View Full Version : Just so you know, it’s NOT that common! It DOESN'T happen to every guy! And it IS a big deal!!
Shalla
10-28-2004, 10:58 PM
Just what does that mean? Not getting an erection? Not keeping the erection? Not reaching climax? Women not getting orgasm? :?:
And uhm.. Is it really a big deal? :D
[Edited on 10-29-2004 by Lady Shalla]
It means I'm taking lexapro.
SpunGirl
10-28-2004, 11:02 PM
I believe it refers to losing the erection before the hot, sweaty sex is finished.
-K
Edited to add: Or before it's even begun.
[Edited on 10-29-2004 by SpunGirl]
Tsa`ah
10-28-2004, 11:03 PM
I sense a very disappointed woman.
I'm not sure what you mean.
It could mean the person is dysfunctional. It could mean he lost interest. It could mean he didn't have an interest. It could mean he was nervous. It could mean that he may doubt his sexuality, or is trying to convince himself that he is attracted to women. It could mean his pee pee is broke.
Who knows. :shrug:
A woman not reaching orgasm is very common however.
Ravenstorm
10-28-2004, 11:14 PM
That's a direct quote from a Friends episode :)
Raven
4a6c1
10-28-2004, 11:19 PM
Originally posted by Tsa`ah
A woman not reaching orgasm is very common however.
Thats sad. I'm left feeling sorry for whatever females have told you that.
:D
SpunGirl
10-28-2004, 11:19 PM
Yeah, it is. I don't think it's in reference to the woman, though, but the guy falling down at some point during the performance.
And it IS a big deal.
-K
Tsa`ah
10-28-2004, 11:39 PM
Originally posted by JihnasSpirit
Thats sad. I'm left feeling sorry for whatever females have told you that.
:D
It's a medical fact. :shrug: Pre-med, specifically anat/phys - reproductive units, and psychology.
I, nor my wife, have either problem when we actually do have sex.
Xcalibur
10-28-2004, 11:59 PM
Il n'y a pas de femmes frigides, que des hommes maladroits.
I still believe in that.
Arshwikk
10-29-2004, 12:31 AM
Hell yeah it's a big deal...blue balls...sick to the stomach and out of commission. No matter how intense the moment is, always remember to protect your sack!
4a6c1
10-29-2004, 12:46 AM
Originally posted by Tsa`ah
Originally posted by JihnasSpirit
Thats sad. I'm left feeling sorry for whatever females have told you that.
:D
It's a medical fact. :shrug: Pre-med, specifically anat/phys - reproductive units, and psychology.
I disagree :)
Tsa`ah
10-29-2004, 12:50 AM
If you're a woman, you're lucky.
If you're a man, you have been very lucky.
You can disagree with me, that's fine. It does negate medical fact however.
SpunGirl
10-29-2004, 01:01 AM
Having an orgasm actually increases a woman's chance of pregnancy, so you'd think nature would make it easier. Having said that, I've always been told that arousal starts in the brain. If more women aren't orgasming, I would be quicker to point to some kind of mental issue rather than a physical one. Many men fail to realize that women prefer to be dealt with on a mental level first.
-K
Tsa`ah
10-29-2004, 01:12 AM
Orgasmic disorder – Persistent or recurrent difficulty is achieving orgasm after sufficient sexual arousal and ongoing stimulation. Drugs, particulary selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors for depression, may inhibit orgasm. Depression is a leading cause of decreased arousal and orgasm. About 10% of women never attain orgasm regardless of stimulation or situation. Many women can attain orgasm with clitoral stimulation, but only about 50% of women regularly attain orgasm during intercourse.
Seems the AMA agrees as well.
Arshwikk
10-29-2004, 01:19 AM
Originally posted by SpunGirl
Having an orgasm actually increases a woman's chance of pregnancy, so you'd think nature would make it easier. Having said that, I've always been told that arousal starts in the brain. If more women aren't orgasming, I would be quicker to point to some kind of mental issue rather than a physical one. Many men fail to realize that women prefer to be dealt with on a mental level first.
-K
OMG! So that's why....
Arshwikk
10-29-2004, 01:22 AM
Originally posted by Tsa`ah
Orgasmic disorder – Persistent or recurrent difficulty is achieving orgasm after sufficient sexual arousal and ongoing stimulation. Drugs, particulary selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors for depression, may inhibit orgasm. Depression is a leading cause of decreased arousal and orgasm. About 10% of women never attain orgasm regardless of stimulation or situation. Many women can attain orgasm with clitoral stimulation, but only about 50% of women regularly attain orgasm during intercourse.
Seems the AMA agrees as well.
Geez, as a guy, wouldn't you hate to be deemed the placebo in that study?
Wezas
10-29-2004, 01:27 AM
Originally posted by Lady ShallaWomen not getting orgasm? :?:
If that happens, it's the woman's fault. :saint:
4a6c1
10-29-2004, 02:11 AM
Originally posted by Tsa`ah
Orgasmic disorder – Persistent or recurrent difficulty is achieving orgasm after sufficient sexual arousal and ongoing stimulation. Drugs, particulary selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors for depression, may inhibit orgasm. Depression is a leading cause of decreased arousal and orgasm. About 10% of women never attain orgasm regardless of stimulation or situation. Many women can attain orgasm with clitoral stimulation, but only about 50% of women regularly attain orgasm during intercourse.
Seems the AMA agrees as well.
You have proven both our points. I disagreed that women who are not able to reach orgasm regularly were not a majority. I suppose I was 50% wrong.
:)
Tsa`ah
10-29-2004, 02:13 AM
I said common not majority. :P
1 out of 2 is very common.
4a6c1
10-29-2004, 02:15 AM
:lol:
longshot
10-29-2004, 02:33 AM
Originally posted by JihnasSpirit
Thats sad. I'm left feeling sorry for whatever females have told you that.
:D
Wow dude... you have the magic stroke.
The master cock.
The meat staff of doom.
You are super duper sweet in the sack.
You get all the fly bitches to make noises they've never made.
You happy?
Seriously, it's fucking weak. If you are indeed sexually active, then you should at least have the common fucking sense to tell that Tsa'ah was relating statistical information, and it had dick to do with his own personal experience.
Fucking retard...
Anyways, Shalla, the 'it happens to a lot of guys" comes from them either
1. Not getting it up
2. Loosing it in the middle of the ride.
As has already been stated, it can come from nerves, blood alchohol level, medication, or any number of things.
The response, "It happens to a lot of guys" is something a chick would say to try and make a guy feel better about the situation.
Edaarin
10-29-2004, 02:39 AM
I *think* JihnasSpirit is a woman.
And while I haven't had the problem someone's Tsa'ah's age often has, alcohol will indeed render performance severely subpar. Drunk girls are worse though...teeth marks, ouch...
longshot
10-29-2004, 02:51 AM
Originally posted by Edaarin
I *think* JihnasSpirit is a woman.
I just read the profile.
Congratulations, JihnasSpirit,...
You have the master quivering cooch.
You can get off just being in the same room as a washing machine.
Your roast beef needs no Au Jus sauce.
Now, being 22 and from Texas might offer an explanation as to why you are too fucking stupid to understand that a single person is not representative of an entire group of people.
Just because you get off when you watch your husband polish his pickup truck every week before the big Nascar race does not mean that every other woman does.
Fucking Hick...
And while I haven't had the problem someone's Tsa'ah's age often has, alcohol will indeed render performance severely subpar. Drunk girls are worse though...teeth marks, ouch...
So true.
Let's also not forget the "log" position...
<Now, being 22 and from Texas might offer an explanation as to why you are too fucking stupid to understand that a single person is not representative of an entire group of people. >
While I'm not 22, I am from Texas and I'm taking offense to your over-generalization. I R an Educated Texan damnit...
If you've got a hard-on for this particular poster then please find another way to attack him/her rather than attempt to insult them based on their geographical status. In other words, think of something more creative since you hail from somewhere other than Texas where we're all stupid according to you.
mmm, thx
Kaeral
10-29-2004, 08:09 AM
Originally posted by longshot
Anyways, Shalla, the 'it happens to a lot of guys" comes from them either
1. Not getting it up
2. Loosing it in the middle of the ride.
I think longshot's the only one that actually got the answer to the initial question.. though it did seem pretty obvious to me in the first place when I saw that Friends episode..
Betheny
10-29-2004, 08:10 AM
I don't think it's uncommon, nor do I think it's that big of a deal. Shit happens.
Tsunami
10-29-2004, 08:16 AM
Wow, this went from damn funny, to perhaps hitting a nerve?
I remember that episode of Friends...the line is spoken by Rachel to Ross...and Chandler's response of 'I KNEW it!!' leads me to think yeah, it the lack of woodie being refered to.
AnticorRifling
10-29-2004, 08:20 AM
Originally posted by SpunGirl
Having an orgasm actually increases a woman's chance of pregnancy
-K
Damnit don't tell me that I'm too young to be married AND have kids.
Shalla
10-29-2004, 09:27 AM
Originally posted by Kaeral
I think longshot's the only one that actually got the answer to the initial question.. though it did seem pretty obvious to me in the first place when I saw that Friends episode..
I knew it was one of those, my question was to which one she was refering to. Not getting it hard.. or dying in the middle. or not climaxing.
What is the biggest deal?
Not getting it hard to begin with = Me, thinking.. I don't turn you on.. and you better have a reason for not getting it up or we're going to argue all night.
Dying in the middle = what happened? is something wrong? It's not good? I'm not good at it? You better compliment and get it up all night or prepare to argue.
Not climaxing for hours = Will you hurry up already.. I'm getting tired.. You better do it soon, otherwise I'm falling asleep.. and if you wake me up.. we're going to argue all night.
Is that a no win situation for the guy? Unless he does a Kramer and fakes it, because he himself wants to get some sleep.
Anyway.. this was just a query from watching friends.. not in any relation to me.
;)
Betheny
10-29-2004, 09:28 AM
Biggest deal would be me not getting off. As for the rest, who cares... I'm easy to please.
Tsa`ah
10-29-2004, 09:36 AM
Originally posted by Maimara
Biggest deal would be me not getting off. As for the rest, who cares... I'm easy to please.
This is why god gave men tongues.
Tsunami
10-29-2004, 09:57 AM
Originally posted by Tsa`ah
This is why god gave men tongues. [/quote]
I like the way you think! :spaz:
EmpressBtch
10-29-2004, 02:54 PM
I thought that was what Viagra was for?
Tsa`ah
10-29-2004, 03:24 PM
That's for consistent erectile dysfunction. Taking it to compensate is a good way to develop a gangrous infection.
An occasional limp member is better than no member.
EmpressBtch
10-29-2004, 03:33 PM
Thanks for clearing that one up Tsa'ah. So we're only talking about the occasional loss of erections. In all fairness now, or at least as fair as I think I'm being since I don't have a penis. But when women don't stay wet the whole time or even get wet, we don't hear them giving us pep talks when they gotta break out some lube. I guess just give 'em a break, besides its not like the penis dropped off and ran away it was just feeling shy.
Wezas
10-29-2004, 03:39 PM
Originally posted by Ganalon
If you've got a hard-on for this particular poster then please find another way to attack him/her rather than attempt to insult them based on their geographical status.
No pun intended, I'm sure.
Chadj
10-29-2004, 03:46 PM
It's VERY embarassing when it happens :thumbsdown:
Tsa`ah
10-29-2004, 03:53 PM
Originally posted by EmpressBtch
I guess just give 'em a break, besides its not like the penis dropped off and ran away it was just feeling shy.
:lol2: :lol2: :lol2:
So funny it brings tears to my eyes.
Chadj
10-29-2004, 04:26 PM
Erectile Dysfunction should die.
Chadj
10-29-2004, 04:27 PM
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Originally posted by Wezas
No pun intended, I'm sure.
::coughs::
no, none at all.
:whistle:
4a6c1
10-30-2004, 03:20 AM
:eek:
Originally posted by longshot
Originally posted by JihnasSpirit
Thats sad. I'm left feeling sorry for whatever females have told you that.
:D
Wow dude... you have the magic stroke.
The master cock.
The meat staff of doom.
You are super duper sweet in the sack.
You get all the fly bitches to make noises they've never made.
You happy?
Seriously, it's fucking weak. If you are indeed sexually active, then you should at least have the common fucking sense to tell that Tsa'ah was relating statistical information, and it had dick to do with his own personal experience.
Fucking retard...
Anyways, Shalla, the 'it happens to a lot of guys" comes from them either
1. Not getting it up
2. Loosing it in the middle of the ride.
As has already been stated, it can come from nerves, blood alchohol level, medication, or any number of things.
The response, "It happens to a lot of guys" is something a chick would say to try and make a guy feel better about the situation.
:lol2:
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH.
<<stop laughing so I can breath.......scroll down.......more crazy shit BUT AT LEAST HE KNOW IM FEMALE NOW>>
Originally posted by longshot
Originally posted by Edaarin
I *think* JihnasSpirit is a woman.
I just read the profile.
Congratulations, JihnasSpirit,...
You have the master quivering cooch.
You can get off just being in the same room as a washing machine.
Your roast beef needs no Au Jus sauce.
Now, being 22 and from Texas might offer an explanation as to why you are too fucking stupid to understand that a single person is not representative of an entire group of people.
Just because you get off when you watch your husband polish his pickup truck every week before the big Nascar race does not mean that every other woman does.
Fucking Hick...
And while I haven't had the problem someone's Tsa'ah's age often has, alcohol will indeed render performance severely subpar. Drunk girls are worse though...teeth marks, ouch...
So true.
Let's also not forget the "log" position...
I LOVE generaliztions.
I even know a good one. Anyone who has *ever* said or will say I have a 'master cock' AND a 'master quivering vagina' has a penis that shrinks when people disagree with him on a message board.
:yes:
:lol:
On topic: When I was watching that episode, I got pretty curious, so I looked it up. It turns out that men who have alot of stress, even young men, can have a hard time getting it up. That was interesting to me since I never would have thought it could be a mental thing.
Jazuela
10-30-2004, 09:32 AM
Originally posted by Tsa`ah
Originally posted by Maimara
Biggest deal would be me not getting off. As for the rest, who cares... I'm easy to please.
This is why god gave men tongues.
And this is why I predict Tsa'ah will have a long and happy marriage.
Preach on, brotha!
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