View Full Version : Do you date multiple people in game? or have you ever?

01-05-2004, 02:02 PM
Where does your character stand when it comes to dating and relationships in game?

01-05-2004, 02:06 PM
Do you mean multiple people at the same time with one character, or multiple people with multiple characters, or more than one relationship?

Personally I only have one character have a relationship at a time, if anything. I'm none too fond of relationships in the game since so very few people can separate game and life so as to not give me grief when I don't show up for a few days and think I'm cheating on them. :rolleyes:

01-05-2004, 02:19 PM
Only time I"ve ever had multiple characters have relationships, they were with the same "soul"

01-05-2004, 04:02 PM
In the past, a few of my characters have had relationships and one GM wedding.

Unfortunately, as CT pointed out, most people have trouble distinguishing between fantasy and reality.

One relationship ended with the woman trying to deed me because she found out I was married in reality.

It's nothing I hid; I just didn't see a need for my character to express OOG facts. It's not like I ever took the IG relationships to IMs or to private rooms.

Now I avoid IG relationships simply because people seem to think there is a need for reciprocation of some sort in reality.

01-05-2004, 04:05 PM
I've had multiple women pine for me.

01-05-2004, 04:05 PM
i plead the fifth

01-05-2004, 04:59 PM
If you mean multiple characters having multiple relationships... yes I have several times. *Most* of the time, it works out ok, the only real problem has been splitting up the time between them so no one feels "left out" It is much easier when you have multiple characters together with the same soul, however if you dont want it to go OOG, that could present a problem too since you dont have any time alone.

I enjoy IG relationships, you have someone there to hunt with, talk with, share a special in game bond with. If you have limitations you want with your characters relationships, make sure that's discussed at the beginning.. then there are not any surprises for either party later down the road.

01-05-2004, 05:17 PM
I don't date at all IG. Cyber kisses just don't feel the same. Besides, why have the love of one good woman when you can have the love of five good women?

01-05-2004, 07:40 PM
Heh no.

01-05-2004, 07:42 PM
I flirt with a lot of people.. no relationships.. some of those people give me the creeps.

01-05-2004, 07:57 PM
Hmmm...I flirt a lot IG. When I hook my character up with someone else's character, I make sure that that person is sane and can seperate reality from RPing games. GS is a game, a lot of people seem to forget that. If you cheat on my character IG, I really won't give a shit. But, I'll prolly RP it out or something, other than that, I can sleep at night. I'm still friends with the majority of people that I've dated IG anyhow.

Hey that reminds me, what happened to Dinarius? I miss the man! The kid IMed me out of the blue after 500 years!

Edited to answer the question of the thread:
Yes I have dated multiple people IG.

[Edited on 1-6-2004 by Lalana]

01-05-2004, 08:15 PM

01-05-2004, 08:35 PM
Originally posted by RangerD1

Hey I don't look for cyber poontang! *cough*

01-05-2004, 08:56 PM
Your one to talk.

01-05-2004, 09:01 PM
Pssshhtt, don't hate cos I get more play IG than you. Then again you might've caught up since I don't play anymore. It's on when I come back, it's sooooooooo on!

01-05-2004, 09:02 PM
yaran's gets all the ladies... like sergey.

01-05-2004, 09:04 PM
No he didn't go there. Well he did go there. You gonna let him talk smack like that D? He compared you to Sergey, LOL. I think it's the glasses Sean. The white tape is like a chick magnet.

01-05-2004, 09:19 PM
Yarans doesn't wear glasses, and i don't think you'd catch him in a relationship with any of the whores around the landing.

01-05-2004, 09:24 PM
True dat D.

01-05-2004, 10:24 PM
Wait...but.....I....live in the landing.........:(

01-05-2004, 10:27 PM
Well, i said relationship. I never said anything about friends

[Edited on 1-6-2004 by RangerD1]

01-05-2004, 10:49 PM
Yeah! true enough. Silly me .

01-05-2004, 11:17 PM
One thing I really liked about the Landing. It was like being in a live soap opera. It was so funny, especially in Helgas Tavern. People are such whores and are proud of it. The best were the cat fights over some loser. You just know the guy had to be jealous of his GS character cus I doubt he could get that kind of thing irl. :lol:

01-05-2004, 11:21 PM
Originally posted by Tijay
yaran's gets all the ladies... like sergey.

I'm scared to touch half the ladies Theyre all sloppy seconds or thirds of Ed and Tijays...wonder why they cant keep a woman hrm.

01-05-2004, 11:25 PM
Don't insult yourself Sergey. Shouldn't they be getting all YOUR sloppy seconds???

01-05-2004, 11:26 PM
I'm monogamous. I think some guys I hunt with mistake my out-going playful nature as flirting.. but they are mistaken and it's purely platonic on my part. To be honest, I've been in the lands on and off for 7 years. after 4 years of being single in game.. only one was ever truly able to catch my attention. And I genuinely care for that person.. and if it doesn't work out in game. I don't think I would ever be with anybody again.

[Edited on 1-6-2004 by Lady Shalla]

01-05-2004, 11:36 PM
Damn it guys I was with one person IG for like 3 years

01-05-2004, 11:42 PM
Originally posted by Chelle
Don't insult yourself Sergey. Shouldn't they be getting all YOUR sloppy seconds???

Pfft i been out of the game long time was married IG for quite a while i'm rusty.

01-06-2004, 12:04 AM
seriously if you remove the last year out of all the years ive played youd see how antisocial and antirelationship i really am/was.

01-06-2004, 12:37 AM
Originally posted by Tijay
seriously if you remove the last year out of all the years ive played youd see how antisocial and antirelationship i really am/was.

Like the last 2 weeks you been married twice!

01-06-2004, 12:56 AM
Dude your married? When the hell was this?! You freak!

01-06-2004, 12:57 AM
Originally posted by Lalana
Dude your married? When the hell was this?! You freak!

I say Lalana and Michiko get together... they don't need men who drop them for other women!

01-06-2004, 01:07 AM
LOL it's just me and you girl. Let's go clubbin'! ;)

01-06-2004, 07:39 AM
Starting the ex's of Tijay and Edaarin relief fund, no woman turned away all that is required is low inhibitions and booze.

01-06-2004, 06:51 PM
>I've had multiple women pine for me.

(biting her tongue)

As for me no I don't get involved in multiple relationships and try to steer clear of any other kind form or variation of multi-whatever,
A) because I manage to scare or annoy most of my prospects away ::whistles::
B) They tend to get messy and I got better things to do than sort through the complex thread called love, romance, soap, and when reality strikes~
C) because it's a pain, if I can't control one relationship what would I do with 2?

And no that wasn't a question requiring an answer~

01-06-2004, 10:23 PM
IG relationships aren't that bad. It just depends on the other person, if they know where the boundaries are. As for my characters, here goes:

Lalana - Yes, I flirt a lot when I play her.
Skadii - Nope, it's always been one on one.
Sasia - Doesn't date, hehe.

The Cat In The Hat
01-12-2004, 11:42 PM
If im with someone with my main character my others either arent with anyone else or are with my mains other characters.


01-13-2004, 11:50 AM
my main character dates one person whom she has for the past year. my other characters dont date. Less drama that way.

01-13-2004, 02:28 PM
Sheesh, I was having fun with this one guy in game, just joking around etc and he started kissing my character and now everytime he sees her he kisses her. I had to change my demeanor so he couldnt. Quite annoying. If somebody did that in real life that quickly I would have to smack them upside the head.

01-13-2004, 03:27 PM
define joking around. You could be necking with him for all we know.

01-13-2004, 03:30 PM
Yea wtf, you could have been braiding his hair or giving invasion head.

01-13-2004, 03:39 PM
Originally posted by Lady Shalla
define joking around. You could be necking with him for all we know.

LOL I was just being friendly, honest. And had just met the guy. I am a good girl dammit.

01-13-2004, 03:55 PM
Oh, and that reminds me...there was this one guy I really liked a lot. He sent another character of his in game to flirt with me I guess to see if I would flirt back. I know it was his because he made a comment about something I had only mentioned to his other character. It was just weird and sort of creepy. I mean was he trying to get jealous of himself? Or just some sort of strange fidelity test.

01-13-2004, 03:59 PM
Originally posted by RangerD1
giving invasion head.

Dare I ask?

01-13-2004, 04:32 PM
I think it's pretty self-explanatory.

01-13-2004, 09:04 PM
IG relations = Not worth it.


08-01-2004, 11:48 PM
Does having multiple male slaves count as a yes? lol

08-01-2004, 11:52 PM
Way to revive a dead thread.

08-02-2004, 12:02 AM
She's new, cut her a break.

08-02-2004, 12:02 AM
W00t. Yay fer me!

Dead thread? Geez. I needa read the dates at the end of these.....

08-02-2004, 12:03 AM
Right...what he said. hehe

08-02-2004, 12:10 AM
Sylvan Dreams' character keeps trying to seduce my rogue, but he stoically resists.

08-02-2004, 12:13 AM
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08-02-2004, 12:21 AM
can I do <a href="http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=magic+stick&r=f">HTML</a> like you Artha?

[Edited on 8-2-2004 by Stanley Burrell]

08-02-2004, 12:22 AM

08-02-2004, 12:24 AM
You need to use BBCode, Sir Noobzalot.

08-02-2004, 12:27 AM
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08-02-2004, 12:44 AM
Originally posted by 3704558
Way to revive a dead thread.

Better then making a new thread on an old topic so everyone can say 'WE ALREADY HAD THIS.'

That's one reason the search function exists.