Married, but still playing. Been there?

[longshot]

This is not about your own wife or husband, if you are married. This is about being with someone else who is married.

Ever done the deed with someone who is married?

Not girlfriends... not engaged. The big rock on the finger.

[longshot]

I've been there. Not exactly sure how I feel about it.

I usually go for women that are emotionally unavailable, so that I don't have to commit. A girl that is married is perfect for this criteria... it can never go anywhere!

The experience I had... I saw it more as a challenge.

Does this mean I'm sick in the head?

I can always file it under the "things that happen in Japan never really happened" experience bin...

[Weedmage Princess]

*beats Longshot*

Let that beating answer your question!!!

[Betheny]

I believe in marriage. Still.

/shrug.

There's been a few that lied about being married, said they weren't but were lying, but if I had known it never would have happened.

[Zeyrin]

I about stepped in that pile of shit once. Don't plan on doing it again anytime soon. So, I guess my opinion on this matter is null and void. heheh

[Suppa Hobbit Mage]

Cheating is cheating. Get some stones and tell them if they don't love their partner, dump em. If they can't do that, leave.

My motto is "Once a cheater, always a cheater". I don't need that drama, and their partner surely doesn't. I've passed on "opportunities" I surely had because I still believe in the sanctity of marriage.

Get a divorce, and its bang bang bang ;)

[Weedmage Princess]

*points up* What Suppa said. :thumbsup:

[Wezas]

Originally posted by Suppa Hobbit Mage
Cheating is cheating.

True, but don't forget the motto:
"Eatin' ain't cheatin'"

[Tsa`ah]

I believe the same thing. If you're going to screw around, end the relationship, married or not.

It's one thing not to have known, but only scumbags actively seek out attached people.

There are rare instances where cheating isn't as bad. In cases of "sabotage" and "survival"

[HarmNone]

No, thanks. If they will cheat on their spouse, they do not have enough integrity to warrant my interest.

HarmNone

[Caiylania]

:: Strides in, gives Suppa Hobbit Mage a big big hug and says: Ditto ::

[StrayRogue]

I agree. Cheating is cheating. Being married doesn't make it any worse or any better. Its still cheating.

[Chelle]

Originally posted by Tsa`ah
I believe the same thing. If you're going to screw around, end the relationship, married or not.

It's one thing not to have known, but only scumbags actively seek out attached people.

There are rare instances where cheating isn't as bad. In cases of "sabotage" and "survival"

Well said.

[CrystalTears]

It was only once, and I felt bad about it afterwards. He kept telling me he was getting a divorce and I was at a vulnerable time in my life where I believed him and just wanted to feel like I was loved and wanted. Once we met up to have a weekend together, I knew I made a mistake and ended it. I wasn't being fair to him or to myself. I deserved better than that.