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Shalla
01-03-2004, 01:28 AM
When looking for a partner.. If looking for a partner.. What is your preference.. when it comes to physical characteristics.. and attributes? What attracts you physically and what do you value the most.. for eg. Faith in you.. or trust.. or honesty? Certainly we can't have it all.. But which is more important? What kind of person do you see yourself or hope to be with in the future?

[Edited on 1-3-2004 by Lady Shalla]

01-03-2004, 01:38 AM
A very good looking nerd.

01-03-2004, 01:39 AM
So we can clean each others glasses and shyt.

Shalla
01-03-2004, 01:41 AM
I'll bash you later.

01-03-2004, 01:44 AM
So you won't clean my glasses? :cry:

Shalla
01-03-2004, 01:50 AM
My eye sight is 20/20.. I swear I can read the airline of a passing plane. not way up in the stratosphere.. but a certain distance.

01-03-2004, 01:54 AM
xxxxshixxxx [10:57 PM]: ::cleans your glasses::


Thats what i thought.

crazymage
01-03-2004, 01:56 AM
hrm Breathing and a sense of humor not necessarily in that order.

01-03-2004, 01:57 AM
Wtf dude, you can't even capitalize my name? What kind of lazy bastard are you. See if i ask you for strength anytime soon.

crazymage
01-03-2004, 02:06 AM
Originally posted by RangerD1
Wtf dude, you can't even capitalize my name? What kind of lazy bastard are you. See if i ask you for strength anytime soon.

Bitch.

Bobmuhthol
01-03-2004, 02:17 AM
<<My eye sight is 20/20>>

That sucks. 15/20 represent.

Satira
01-03-2004, 02:21 AM
I like longish hair on a guy. And I like tall guys. One in particular. And personality wise I like them to be funny. Not "have a sense of humor" anyone can laugh at a joke. They have to come up with a few of their own.

01-03-2004, 02:24 AM
Not Sergey

Weedmage Princess
01-03-2004, 07:18 AM
When this was applicable to me, I really didn't have any set definitions of physical characteristics I looked for in a guy. I find all sorts of different types attractive--blonde hair, dark hair, red hair, all eyes, different races, etc. etc. All sorts have men that look good :P . As..cliche and cheesy as it's going to sound, I really was into personalities. The way a person acted pretty much determined what I thought of them.. That being said, my ONE physical no no would A) They HAD to be taller than me (not too hard to accomplish, since I'm only 5'4) , they had to be well groomed and NO BODY odors. This includes bad breath and underarm issues.

Miss X
01-03-2004, 09:22 AM
I don't really have set patterns with the men I go for, except I don't like men who are too skinny. They have to have a bit of meat on them. Not fat, just kind of broad shouldered etc. I prefer dark hair to blonde, dark hair and deep brown eyes... mmm!
In terms of personality, I dont really like weak girly men and I could never date someone who was dumb. There has to be intelligent conversation. Also, if the big built, dark haired/eyed intelligent guy is a socialist, well that would be a big bonus! hehe
Vx

StrayRogue
01-03-2004, 09:26 AM
Originally posted by Miss X

In terms of personality, I dont really like weak girly men and I could never date someone who was dumb.
Vx

Hehehe. :P
Bad memories eh hun?

Miss X
01-03-2004, 09:30 AM
Originally posted by StrayRogue

Originally posted by Miss X

In terms of personality, I dont really like weak girly men and I could never date someone who was dumb.
Vx

Hehehe. :P
Bad memories eh hun?

I have no idea what your talking about. :lol:

Myshel
01-03-2004, 10:04 AM
I like smart aggressive men who aren't afraid to show their strenght or their sensitivity. Sense of humor and a open view of life in all its silliness welcomed. A man who is not a afraid to let me be me and appreciate who I am. I"m into men with a strong sexual appetite at least to match my own, not afraid to explore. Looks department is uninportant, its the twinkle in the eye that attracts me, as long as he is healthy and doesn't have to many vices. Its the mind that attracts me the most.

Ilvane
01-03-2004, 10:18 AM
I like intelligence. Someone who I can sit and have a conversation with about what is going on in the world and knows about being polite, and romantic too. Being a good kisser is a plus.;) :lol:


For looks, I've always liked guys that were taller(I'm only 4'11 though, so it doesn't take much), and on the slender side.

-A

Weedmage Princess
01-03-2004, 10:36 AM
Being a good kisser is always a plus.

Also, another major thing for most women I know (myself included) that tends to go unsaid is a guy with a nice butt. Yes men..you aren't the only ones who like some "back." A nice, round, firm rear end can definitely rake you in some brownie points :thumbsup:

Xcalibur
01-03-2004, 10:38 AM
5'10 +, not too skinny, dark eye, blue or green eye. Rest depends.

Zeyrin
01-03-2004, 07:21 PM
My type is a female I won't want to kill after a week.

HarmNone
01-03-2004, 07:28 PM
I never really think about looks, as far as what I might prefer in a guy. A nice smile is a big plus, but the rest is just superficial.

I like a guy who knows who he is and where he is going. It is important that he be confident in himself, as I am a strong-willed person and pretty successful in my own right.

To be compatible, he should enjoy reading and quiet time. He cannot be too needy or demanding of my time. Other than that, I welcome diversity. I enjoy many kinds of people. The challenge of an egrossing conversation is much more important to me than looks. :)

HarmNone

01-03-2004, 07:31 PM
Originally posted by Bobmuhthol
<<My eye sight is 20/20>>

That sucks. 15/20 represent.

Bob I think you mean 20\15

01-03-2004, 07:36 PM
15\20 is not as good as 20\20

CrystalTears
01-03-2004, 07:51 PM
Taller than me (which constitutes anyone that's not a midget or dwarf), clean (dirty anything and B.O. completely grosses me out), a good sense of humor (but I'm a comedy slut since I'll laugh at nearly anything), can cook well (besides mac & cheese and heating soup), looks good in a suit as well as in jeans and a shirt (and who knows how to dress like a decent fellow) and who gets along with my family.

I'm really not that picky! This is the bare minimum. Everything else is gravy.

Zeyrin
01-03-2004, 07:59 PM
Actually, what attracts me the most is a good sense of humor. I like to joke around and play pratical jokes on people so if they're anal, it just won't work.

I can't really narrow it down on physical attributes. I like women of all shapes and sizes. What I guess it boils down to if is she can feel comfortable in her own skin or not.

A ying to my yang...I'll cook, if you'll clean, I'll load the washer if you'll fold, ect. I'm a great cook but cleaning and laundry are the bane of my existance.

CrystalTears
01-03-2004, 08:01 PM
Originally posted by Zeyrin
A ying to my yang...I'll cook, if you'll clean, I'll load the washer if you'll fold, ect. I'm a great cook but cleaning and laundry are the bane of my existance.

That's a perfect way to explain it. That's exactly what I want (and have, thank God). He cooks, I clean and put away. He washes the clothes, I fold and put away. It works for us.

01-03-2004, 08:06 PM
it amuses me when women say a sence of humor is the most important part, Im sorry thats a load of bull, I have friends who are funny as hell in every way possable but can not get a a woman for the life of them.

01-03-2004, 08:12 PM
Do they consistently make the women the butt of their jokes?

01-03-2004, 08:14 PM
nope.
most of the time it ends up being me.

[Edited on 1-4-2004 by The Edine]

01-03-2004, 08:15 PM
hahaha sucker. but seriously, girls don't like it when you crack jokes about them. imagine that.

Trinitis
01-03-2004, 08:18 PM
Originally posted by The Edine
nope.
most of the time it ends up being me.

[Edited on 1-4-2004 by The Edine]

Gee, immagion that?

Kidding! ::ducks and runs for cover::

:lol:

-Adredrin

01-03-2004, 08:20 PM
yeah i know
but its true...most women go for the good looking ones they dont give a damn if they are funny or not

Weedmage Princess
01-03-2004, 08:21 PM
That's not true. (truly) Funny guys tend to do very well with women so I've seen. One of the main things that attracted me to my husband was his sense of humor. He's one of the funniest people I know.

01-03-2004, 08:22 PM
Well yea, if your ugly as hell no one is gonna talk to you, but if your good looking and have anice personality do you think they'll pick you over the guy who looks comparativlely the same but is like a rock to talk to?

Yes.

Edited cause i have the attention span of a small child.

[Edited on 1-4-2004 by RangerD1]

FlypaperforFreaks
01-03-2004, 08:24 PM
What I look for in a man? Short, ugly and stupid.

Short cause I like to be different, ugly cause ugly people need love too, stupid so I win ALL the arguments. Beer bellies and coke bottle glasses a plus.

Sean
01-03-2004, 08:25 PM
i have to say one of my best buds, my college roommate, does quite well with the ladies because of his sense of humor. hes a short fat irish guy so its defintily not his looks that are turning them on. its all about what you say and how you say it.

Soulpieced
01-03-2004, 08:26 PM
All it really takes is a little attraction. I don't have a specific set of parameters when looking for someone.

01-03-2004, 08:27 PM
yeah but Im a cynical prick.

Skirmisher
01-03-2004, 08:31 PM
Edine and X could get together to co-author a book explaining all the mysteries of women.

Of course you know some guys who have trouble getting the interest of a woman. Perhaps you could look at the rest of the situation, appearance, hygiene, self confidence,::cough:: arrogance ::cough:: these all come into play Edine.


I'll throw my opinion in with intelligence and being funny being by far the most important in getting to know me better.

01-03-2004, 08:32 PM
Originally posted by Tijay
i have to say one of my best buds, my college roommate, does quite well with the ladies because of his sense of humor. hes a short fat irish guy so its defintily not his looks that are turning them on. its all about what you say and how you say it.

Well, what kind of women?
and of course he does he has a cool roommate like you /"no" sarcasm

edit:spelling fixed

[Edited on 1-4-2004 by The Edine]

Skirmisher
01-03-2004, 08:33 PM
For the love of god someone buy Edine a dictionary.

He's killing me.

Sean
01-03-2004, 08:34 PM
actually his current girl and him have been together awhile but im not talking about skanky easy women if thats where we were going. its really just a confidence thing. and thank you /"no" sarcasm.

edited because i cant spell sarcasm either.

[Edited on 1-4-2004 by Tijay]

Weedmage Princess
01-03-2004, 08:35 PM
Tijay is his woman ::flees::

Sean
01-03-2004, 08:38 PM
hey i dont cheat on myself, and i love myself, daily. so yes im my woman.

im also don't cook, i don't clean, and i smell like feet? anyone who thinks im their type leave a u2u and well start negotiations.

honestly i don't i have a type. of course i find certain features more attractive then others but like someone said all it takes is a little attraction then its beyond physicals. i absolutley can't stand a woman i can't have a conversation with.

Trinitis
01-03-2004, 08:41 PM
Originally posted by CrystalTears
Taller than me (which constitutes anyone that's not a midget or dwarf), clean (dirty anything and B.O. completely grosses me out), a good sense of humor (but I'm a comedy slut since I'll laugh at nearly anything), can cook well (besides mac & cheese and heating soup), looks good in a suit as well as in jeans and a shirt (and who knows how to dress like a decent fellow) and who gets along with my family.

I'm really not that picky! This is the bare minimum. Everything else is gravy.

::jots down quick notes while reading the post. Getting to the "suit" part, he grumbles, crumples up the paper and tosses it aside::

Damnit..

-Adredrin

01-03-2004, 08:48 PM
so uh crystaltears when are we getting married?

Ooga Chaka
01-09-2004, 05:24 PM
20/10 represent! lol, i can see 5 feet further than you Bob. Nyah nyah.

My type: For some reason i tend to go for smaller girls(5'5" or less) Hair is whatever...though i've never been with a redhead so that would be cool. Boobies? Ooga like 'em firm! A good butt is always a good thing. More importantly than that though...is this girl gonna try to take control of my life? Can't have that, been there, done it, no thanks. She's gotta be fun to hang out with. She has to have interests, I'll never get into the thick of a relationship with a girl who's got nothing else to do with her time...again anyway. Ideally she'd be eager to please me, but that's just the old fashioned "Woman get in the kitchen and make me some pie!" attitude, which girls don't really dig these days, unfortunately.

Betheny
01-09-2004, 05:26 PM
I like them big and hairy.

I'm not really into guys that are as short as I am, which isn't usually a problem as they're kind of a rarity.

I like someone with a good sense of humor that I can make fun of and can make fun of me, but I also need someone that can turn the humor off and be there for me when I need them.

Facial hair is a big plus, as are tattoos. I'm not sure about piercings. I think I'm intimidated by anyone that has more tattoos or piercings than me.

In short, a gigantic Tickle Me Elmo would be awesome.

[Edited on 1-9-2004 by Maimara]

Betheny
01-09-2004, 05:27 PM
Originally posted by The Edine
it amuses me when women say a sence of humor is the most important part, Im sorry thats a load of bull, I have friends who are funny as hell in every way possable but can not get a a woman for the life of them.

There's a time and a place for everything. Juvenile humor is awesome, but I don't like juvenile guys.

If I'm in tears, that's a very bad time to be cracking jokes.

Souzy
01-09-2004, 05:35 PM
I have a fondness for height. I don't know why, but I just do. All and I mean ALL of my ex's are 6' or taller. Even my Asian ex's where 6'1", we do come tall. My aunt told me it's because I want to feel protected if anything happens. I guess she's right, actually, shit she is right, the bitch!

Miss X
01-09-2004, 06:37 PM
I could get contacts?

StrayRogue
01-09-2004, 06:40 PM
Originally posted by Miss X
I could get contacts?

Still got retina-burn hun?

Souzy
01-09-2004, 06:41 PM
Sorry Wezas, the girls I know have either black hair and brown eyes, brunette with blue eyes, or blonde hair with blue/green eyes. No red heads, I'd hook you up if I had any friends that are red heads. Plus they don't cook or clean. :P

Miss X
01-09-2004, 07:12 PM
Originally posted by StrayRogue

Originally posted by Miss X
I could get contacts?

Still got retina-burn hun?

DIE.

Sean
01-09-2004, 07:19 PM
Originally posted by Lalana
Sorry Wezas, the girls I know have either black hair and brown eyes, brunette with blue eyes, or blonde hair with blue/green eyes. No red heads, I'd hook you up if I had any friends that are red heads. Plus they don't cook or clean. :P

i see how it is. i dont get the hookup only wezas.

Souzy
01-09-2004, 07:21 PM
Your too much of a punk Sean. You gets no love, ha!

CrystalTears
01-09-2004, 07:22 PM
I just realized that I've never dated a guy that was shorter than 5'10". And I'm 5'0"! I like tall men, and they liked me short cause I'm little and easy to toss around. ::dimples::

Shalla
01-09-2004, 07:30 PM
I'm not very superficial. The ones who I think are good looking, people tend to think otherwise. For some reason, The main guy from King of Queens. I actually see myself marrying someone like that. :yes: Seriously.

Love means everything to me.. and loving someone means loving everything about them, even their flaws.. I would rather be with someone I love, who I'm not attracted to.. than a loveless, superficial relationship. <- And I mean that. THe ones that I've loved deeply, and mean't the world to me started off as friends.. and I was not attracted to them at first.. but I grew to love them. When I love someone.. In my eyes.. He is the most good looking guy in the world.. and I wouldn't want anyone else.

My superficial attraction however is someone taller than me.. Preferably big boned, not necessarily muscles. I Would rather be with someone chubby than skinny. Major attraction are EYES, SMILE and GOATEES. I love eyes.. expressive eyes that I could get lost at staring each other. Eyes that matches with a charming smile. I love goatees.. I always notice dark well trimmed goatees. I'm a clean hygienic freak... bad breath, b.o, dead toe nails.. It's a turn off.. no matter how good looking you are.. It's a turn off.



[Edited on 1-10-2004 by Lady Shalla]

Souzy
01-09-2004, 07:40 PM
She said dead toe nails, ew. How graphic can you get?! *runs to the corner crying* Now I'm going to have nightmares Shalla, thanks! I love guys with some meat, haha! Love it! I hate skin and bones, not into muscles, but I can't deny a man with nice ab's or a cute belly, hehe. Believe me, some of my ex's weren't all that hot, but they had game. Only loved one man in my life and he wasn't all that, but he was tall dammit!

CrystalTears
01-09-2004, 07:42 PM
Yeah I LOVE meat on my man's bones. I love fleshy men so that I have something to hold onto.

I only dated ONE guy who was really thin. Never again. That was a thigh sore. Literally.

TMI. Heh.

Shalla
01-09-2004, 07:44 PM
I mean really.. It's from experience. There was this drop dead gorgeous guy that I dated.. He's very good looking.. but then we were at the beach.. and I was like.. EEWW! I think it's fungus.. it's curable.. but unless it's cured consider me turned off.

Weedmage Princess
01-09-2004, 07:48 PM
Originally posted by Lady Shalla
I mean really.. It's from experience. There was this drop dead gorgeous guy that I dated.. He's very good looking.. but then we were at the beach.. and I was like.. EEWW! I think it's fungus.. it's curable.. but unless it's cured consider me turned off.

UGH that's gross. That's when you say "Oh I think I left something in the car.." and you get the f*** outta Dodge.

Souzy
01-09-2004, 07:49 PM
Hot damn, you girls are killing me!!!! Skinny guys = :thumbsdown: It's like...like...they take off their clothes and your asking them, "What the hell happened to the rest of you?!" *rips out her hair* Noooooooooooo!!!! I get visual images, I hate you both! Now I'm going to have nightmares about skinny skeletons with fungus growing out of their toes! *hugs her knees*

Mint
01-09-2004, 07:50 PM
I find that even men with less going for them physically than a troll start to become attractive when I get to know them if they are likeable and interesting to talk to. And vice versa, if youre cute but are a jerk you get ugly real fast. Maybe it is a vision problem. Oh, and they gotta have good teeth, the idea of kissing someone with poor dental hygiene does not float my boat.

Snapp
01-09-2004, 07:50 PM
Originally posted by Lalana
Now I'm going to have nightmares about skinny skeletons with fungus growing out of their toes!


You and me both. :o :barf:

Souzy
01-09-2004, 07:52 PM
Hold me Snapp *cries*

Snapp
01-09-2004, 07:55 PM
Originally posted by Lalana
Hold me Snapp *cries*


*hugs Lalana and rocks back and forth*

And to be on topic.. I don't really have a specific type physically, although I do have a thing for full lips. Personality wise, I can't stand stupidity.. and must have a sense of humor and a liking of music. :thumbsup:

Shalla
01-09-2004, 07:57 PM
Oh.. I forgot.. Guys that don't trim their nails on a regular basis. I prefer well trimmed nails.. I am anal when it comes to that.. Personally it's a MUST.

[Edited on 1-10-2004 by Lady Shalla]

Vixen
01-09-2004, 08:00 PM
I never had a pattern really. A guy I dated for years had long blonde hair and blue eyes and was kinda lanky..... but my husband is italian and has dark brown curly hair and blue eyes and is killer gorgeous (Not that I am biased or anything) So I don't think I have a type I guess

GSLeloo
01-09-2004, 08:00 PM
Ok my type of guy....

Good teeth is a must. To me it's like an issue of cleanliness and I want a guy that has good teeth. Plus they have to be clean, no unwashed dirty disgusting hair. I kind of like guys with longer hair, not LONG but like just slightly past their ears isn't bad... I kind of like guys that wear preppy clothes, not really too into punk/gangster clothes. I guess if you could do a gentle mix of both it'd be good.

Guys that like video games, books, traveling, dogs, hiking, good sense of humor, don't smoke or drink....

Does any guy like that exist?

CrystalTears
01-09-2004, 08:18 PM
Originally posted by GSLeloo
Guys that like video games, books, traveling, dogs, hiking, good sense of humor, don't smoke or drink....

Does any guy like that exist?

Yep! But he's taken. :D

Souzy
01-09-2004, 08:18 PM
College boys Leloo. Then again I don't know about cleanliness though, LOL. College boys = a lot of dirty laundry. Wait you mentioned drinking too! Scratch that out. You need to find a home boy.

[Edited on 1-10-2004 by Lalana]

GSLeloo
01-09-2004, 08:24 PM
Drinking a bit is ok. I hate guys who think they're cool if they go to parties every night and drink till they puke. It's like I don't find you cool when you constantly say "Oh yeah I was so wasted last night."

[Edited on 1-10-2004 by GSLeloo]

Edaarin
01-09-2004, 08:25 PM
They sure do Leloo. But they live in the same country as women who aren't psychotic and don't expect men to guess at what they want, or say something and mean another.

Edaarin
01-09-2004, 08:27 PM
Also, just wait till you get to college. I can't tell you how many times I'll be walking around grounds and hear some stupid shit like "DOOD I WAS SO WASTED LAST NIGHT I WOKE UP IN MY OWN VOMIT! YEAH!" You were, huh? Wasn't that fucking enlightening. I hate UVa people so much.

GSLeloo
01-09-2004, 08:30 PM
The thing is, I never really had any desire to drink or smoke pot or do anything like that. I look down on my friends to a point that do and I just find it so lame. Plus I always hated the taste of alcohol.

Meos
01-09-2004, 08:30 PM
I like big butts and I can not lie.

Souzy
01-09-2004, 08:34 PM
I've lost hope for all men. So I just look at their height before I even waste anytime talking to them.

Meos
01-09-2004, 08:35 PM
um it wasn't my big butt line that did ya in was it?

Sean
01-09-2004, 08:36 PM
its not so much a look that i look for. its a comfort level. i just can't walk upto just anyone and try and pick them up.

Meos
01-09-2004, 08:39 PM
Tijay knows, I;m with him

Suppa Hobbit Mage
01-09-2004, 08:40 PM
I like my women, on the physical end, shorter, like 5', 5'3", full figured, rather than skinny. I love long hair, color doesn't matter, and I like eyes, color doesn't matter. Other than not being like, heavier than me, thats really my only physical criteria.

Outside that, I look for humor first, self confidence, interest in me ;), someone who likes games, likes time alone also, movies, going out to plays and theatre. I also like physical contact, holding hands, a hug now and then, but not like, throwing her tongue down my throat at the mall for all to see -- I like my intimacy, intimate. I like it that I can trust her, and she can trust me, that we can be at a function and know where each other is even in a crowded room, watching out for each other and the occasional wink or glance.

I don't like women who are like, lets go dancing every Friday night. That shit gets old. Occasional hitting of a club is fun, doing it all the time gets old. She should like smaller, quieter bars where folks can actually talk, instead of shout and wish they were somewhere else. I also don't like being ignored (who does right) and want her to be interested in whats going on in my life, as much as I am interested in hers.

There is so much its hard to define what a 'perfect' mate would be like, and I don't believe one exists. I think life is all about compromises and understanding that you are two seperate people. If you can hit it off on the big ones, if there is spark and fire, passion... you can work around the little shit.

Now to find her...someone point me in a direction.

B

Bobmuhthol
01-09-2004, 08:41 PM
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Edaarin
01-09-2004, 08:49 PM
I'm about ready to take my best friend's advice, give up on Asian girls and date a black girl.

Souzy
01-09-2004, 08:50 PM
Originally posted by Meos
um it wasn't my big butt line that did ya in was it?

LOL Meos!!! Nah, it wasn't the big butt line. I just lost all faith in men. Have you ever heard of that joke where this lady says, "Men are like parking spots. All the good ones are taken the only ones left are the handicap ones." Yeah, just ummm yeah.

Sean
01-09-2004, 08:50 PM
Originally posted by Edaarin
I'm about ready to take my best friend's advice, give up on Asian girls and date a black girl.


ill trade you.

edited to add the quote since sou had to go and post between us.

[Edited on 1-10-2004 by Tijay]

Shalla
01-09-2004, 08:50 PM
What's wrong with asian girls?

Souzy
01-09-2004, 08:56 PM
Sorry Sean I was as you say cock blocking. So I'll go around and pass out applications to girls for Vinh and Sean. I'll add in Vinh's application, "Must know how to cook Pho!". For Sean, "Must be uber comfortable to hang with". Please take one girls/guys and pass it in to me before you exit.

Fallen
01-09-2004, 09:00 PM
Long black hair, worn up during the day, but down when she dresses up or is with me at night. Pale skin, doesnt tan dark but will get some color during the summer months.

A long feminine neck with a heart shaped face. She would be tall and have a runner's build. Strong thick legs, with definition in both the calves and her quads.

She would be very strong willed, though she will be compassionate and accepting of others flaws. She enjoys reading and likes the same types of books that I do. She runs with me on the weekends and will ALWAYS make fun of me if she beats me.

Alot like a girl I know, but I can never really have.

Smiles weakly.

[Edited on 1-10-2004 by Fallen]

Souzy
01-09-2004, 09:04 PM
Why do guys say that? "A lot like this girl I know BUT...", you'll never know if you try!!! How would you know for sure? Unless she's taken already. Other than that, how will you know, bleh?!!!!!!

Fallen
01-09-2004, 09:10 PM
Why do guys say that? "A lot like this girl I know BUT...", you'll never know if you try!!! How would you know for sure? Unless she's taken already. Other than that, how will you know, bleh?!!!!!! >>

She is one of my better friends, but she also has a boyfriend who she loves very much and sees regularly. We are close, and spend alot of time together, but she would never truly cheat on her boyfriend.

For a long time I stopped hanging around her because it hurt too much, but I found being away from her was even more painful.

We're friends and always will be. As long as she stays happy I really dont care what happens with me.

[Edited on 1-10-2004 by Fallen]

Sean
01-09-2004, 09:12 PM
Originally posted by Lalana
Why do guys say that? "A lot like this girl I know BUT...", you'll never know if you try!!! How would you know for sure? Unless she's taken already. Other than that, how will you know, bleh?!!!!!!

because sometimes they tell you that? and you accept it and just smile because you're happy your atleast friends?

Fallen
01-09-2004, 09:21 PM
because sometimes they tell you that? and you accept it and just smile because you're happy your atleast friends?>>

bingo

Sean
01-09-2004, 09:22 PM
i like stripper. like sou.

Souzy
01-09-2004, 09:24 PM
Originally posted by Tijay
i like stripper. like sou.

YOU DIEEEEEEEE!!! I was kidding and you know this!!! *cries* Damn you to Hell Sean!

Artha
01-09-2004, 09:53 PM
I like intelligence and looks. A sense of humor that's dry like my own would be great too, and the ability to realise when I'm joking (I'm sarcastic alot, so it can get hard to tell). Slim, preferably, with some muscle definition. Longer hair is good, probably either blonde or black.

01-09-2004, 11:20 PM
Originally posted by Edaarin
I'm about ready to take my best friend's advice, give up on Asian girls and date a black girl.

Get you some real lovin.

:thumbsup::thumbsup::thumbsup::thumbsup:

Shalla
01-09-2004, 11:25 PM
you're only half rangerD so shaddup :p

Sean
01-09-2004, 11:28 PM
i dont think he was talking about himself .... atleast i hope he wasnt offering himself to edaarin.

Souzy
01-09-2004, 11:30 PM
LOL Sean! Oh nooooooooooo!!! Your so evil.

01-09-2004, 11:34 PM
Well, i guess i'll put some input into this thread, for whatever reason.

First, To all you skinny guy haters: Fuck you

<---6'4 200

oh where was i?

What do i look for in a girl?

Well i dunno i've never really met the girl i'd like to spend the rest of my life exists, but intelligence is required. It doesn't matter how much else you got going for you, if your a dumb bitch i won't be able to stand myself for being with you.

I'd probaly want a girl who doesn't take herself that serious as well. What i mean by that, is a girl who doesn't cry if you don't like a particular dress and can be comfortable with herself or be able unable to function without your undivided attention 24\7\365.
In terms of physical appearence:
I'm a strong advocate of the axiom that states "If you look good first thing in the morning with sweat pants on, you look good no matter what". If you need a professional hollywood make up artist to go out the house, then yea its not gonna work.

I'm a guy so quite honestly i find all types of girls attractive, but if i had the ability to "make a girl" she'd probaly be kinda tall with an athletic build (moreso because of it says about them as a person) Light skinned like me. and yea, i dunno. Eyes, eyebrows, etc don't matter as long as they are not freakishly abnormal.

Or souzy :P

01-09-2004, 11:35 PM
Originally posted by Lady Shalla
you're only half rangerD so shaddup :p


WTF, you act like i was offering myself or something. Feh. Edaarin is cool but hes not coming near my pole.

Souzy
01-09-2004, 11:41 PM
Yah D!!!! I'm so into that, "You still look cute waking up" look. I love that. I can't stand guys that take 1 hour to get ready. Guys shouldn't! Only girls should! Hahaha!!! I look like shit in the morning, so me and you can't get married D, LOL.

On another note...like D said. If that person looks good just waking up in the morning, they'll look good in anything. I don't want to wake up in the morning looking at a beast! Hahaha! Ugh, was that mean?

Edited to add: D your fine, believe me you are FINEEEEEEEEEE! Damn negro, stop crying that your skinny, cos your not, your build is nice. :D

[Edited on 1-10-2004 by Lalana]

Sean
01-09-2004, 11:49 PM
Originally posted by Lalana
I don't want to wake up in the morning looking at a beast!
[Edited on 1-10-2004 by Lalana]

okay we wont sleep head to toe next time.

01-09-2004, 11:51 PM
Oh yea, and i don't have pretty toes. In fact they are pretty bad. I think its come up on these boards before.

Edaarin
01-09-2004, 11:53 PM
<= 6'1 170 lbs

My weight keeps fluctuating because I've been on/off sick for the last 4 months, but I'm not scrawny damn it. NOT ALL ASIAN PEOPLE ARE 5'6 AND 100 LBS

Souzy
01-09-2004, 11:56 PM
Originally posted by Tijay

Originally posted by Lalana
I don't want to wake up in the morning looking at a beast!
[Edited on 1-10-2004 by Lalana]

okay we wont sleep head to toe next time.

ROFLMAO! Why you gotta go there Sean?! Huh? Why?! BTW wash your feet, LOL.

Edited to add: Yeah Vinh is right. Just so ya'll know, my ex-fiance (who's 100% Asian) is 6'1" and 220 lbs., mmkay thanks.

[Edited on 1-10-2004 by Lalana]

Shalla
01-13-2004, 06:19 PM
I've dated an asian guy who was 6' something and 200 lbs, and was on the football team too. He was born here. and I can honestly say.. No, not all asian guys has a tiny weeny. And I have dated Black and white otherwise, who has tiny weenies..

Souzy
01-13-2004, 06:29 PM
Well damn girl, I was kinda talking about height, not penis sizes. I've only slept with one Asian man in my whole entire life and that's my ex fiance. So I can't speak for the rest of the homies :D

Shalla
01-13-2004, 06:32 PM
Oh.. Well ... ahahaha :blush: