Cheating on others.

[Drew2]

Don't do it.

http://media.ebaumsworld.com/index.php?e=trust.mp3

[Shalla]

I'm scared to open that. :(

[Drew2]

It's a sound file. Unless you're expecting the voice of Satan... no risk involved.

[Naina]

Hahaha . . . Oh man - can I just say . . . grapefruit spoons work so much better on men like him than on grapefruits . . .

[Bobmuhthol]

All I got out of that was men like grapefruits and you eat spoons.

[Naina]

the less men read into that, the better . . . wouldn't wanna get too many men grabbin their groins in empathy :D

[tenlaughs]

maybe you should ask sweetpea or teeoncy about it? I hear they would know

[Drew2]

You're also dumb and don't post in my threads plz.

[Caramia]

Originally posted by tenlaughs
maybe you should ask sweetpea or teeoncy about it? I hear they would know

How's those changes of yours coming along, Sarah?

So, what you're saying here is that Teeoncy would know about cheating? Hope that collar can have it's little plaque changed... again, and again, and again.

[Caramia]

Oh, and if I was the woman in that sound bite, I would tell his wife, then serve as her witness in the divorce and custody proceedings.

[Weedmage Princess]

Heh that's rough. I hope the chick told his wife.

[GOD]

Originally posted by Caramia
Oh, and if I was the woman in that sound bite, I would tell his wife, then serve as her witness in the divorce and custody proceedings.

So your saying you'd help make it so he could not have custody, or possibly see his kids just because he cheated on his wife? I mean i know cheatings is wrong...but now your gonna make a kids relationship with his/her father worse, just because the man made a mistake...I think thats a lil extreme, because the man cheated on his WIFE not his kids...

-John

[Naina]

Ahhh, it's more like cheating on your family, you can be damn sure by the girlfriends reaction that he neglected to mention his kids to her too - if they mean that little to him, he prolly had it comin!

[GSLeloo]

ouch. I felt really bad for her.

[GOD]

Heh - Of course he didnt mention his children, i wouldnt either...just because he cheats on his wife dont make him a bad father tho, i know alot of people that are GREAT dads but they just like to sleep with women....nothing wrong with loving women. ;)

-John

[Bobmuhthol]

Wait. Who said he had kids?

[Bobmuhthol]

Also, what's the problem? He was kidding, he doesn't have a wife.

You guys listened to him when he said he had a wife, but then when he says he doesn't you call him a liar. Biased jerks.

[GOD]

I dont htink anyone said he had kids, but im saying, if the man had kids, that doesnt make him a bad father if he loves pussy, that just makes him a pussy lover.

-John

I wish i could cheat, but i'm too ugly to have girls even talk to me.

[Ooga Chaka]

Someone imagined he had kids...no one ever mentions kids in that bit. So uhhh, stop talking about the kids. On another note...ouch, poor girl.

[Naina]

haha, how can you be a good father if you do that? That's condoning cheating for you children, and aren't parents supposed to teach their children rules like "it's bad to cheat"? Whether or not it's on tests, with wives/husbands, etc. Hypocrisy from parents can really screw kids up.

[GOD]

Yo check this out, i condone cheating, because i love pussy, and if i see some pussy i love i'ma hit it..., if i had a girl she could do the same thing....just dont let me know about the shit...but even if i knew i couldnt flip out on her because i love pussy just like she'd love dick...y'know.

-John

[Zeyrin]

I can't believe the girl was so engulfed with this guy that she couldn't figure out he was married or at least seeing someone else.

I think it was just a set up by the radio station to get ratings. Either way, it was entertaining.

[Caramia]

Originally posted by GOD

Originally posted by Caramia
Oh, and if I was the woman in that sound bite, I would tell his wife, then serve as her witness in the divorce and custody proceedings.

So your saying you'd help make it so he could not have custody, or possibly see his kids just because he cheated on his wife? I mean i know cheatings is wrong...but now your gonna make a kids relationship with his/her father worse, just because the man made a mistake...I think thats a lil extreme, because the man cheated on his WIFE not his kids...

-John

But IF he did have kids, he did cheat on them, so to speak. The so-called business trips every weekend to spend with the girlfriend could have been spent with them, when they weren't in school, doing stuff like the zoo, the park, etc.

But that's a lot of theorizing since we don't know if he had any.

Kids, while blameless generally when it comes to divorce, are not unaffected by what happens to lead up to a divorce, like cheating on someone and having the wife find out.

Nothing wrong with loving women or men, but then either don't get married and take a vow of fidelity, or be honest with the girlfriend about your other life. It's more about being honest than anything else.

And no, I wouldn't make it impossible for him to see his kids, I would just make it difficult for him to have primary custody if his transgressions were the sole reason for a divorce and no other issues were involved.

hahaha, i just listened to that, and thats fucked up.

[Caramia]

If it was a joke broadcast, it was nicely played by all parties involved... including her sobs towards the end as she hung up, and his calling the radio DJ a motherfucker.

[Drew2]

It wasn't a joke. They really do that on radio shows. They have that here.

[GOD]

Eh well whatever, i still dont htink the guy did anything wrong except love pussy.

-John

[Drew2]

Because you have the morals of a 12 year old.

Yea, messed up shit does happen on the radio all the time. Something kinda similar happened to a guy in my unit. Basicly he called and left a pathetic solkernish message on her answering machine and she played it on the radio and made up a whole story about him being nuts and blab blah blah blah. She ended up getting a free trip to vegas.

[GOD]

Hah - No, i just love pussy, so why should i be locked down to one woman when i can sleep with many, true given tho that the one woman that im actually with i treat like a goddess and i'd do anything for, any other girl is just a fuck.

-John

[Naina]

well - by all means, if you love pussy you SHOULDN'T be tied down to one woman, but that means don't get married, or in a serious relationship. Or if you do, at least be upfront and tell her you're gunna jump anything that looks half good in the darkness and spreads its legs for you. Don't lead people on that they're the only one. ;-)

[Bobmuhthol]

Stfu about the kids. If he had kids, he probably wouldn't be cheating on his wife because he cared enough to raise them. Having kids and not having kids isn't something that just happens. He decided, "Fuck you, I don't want kids, I want to cheat on you, hoe."

Short answer: I <3 him.

[GOD]

Ya thats true, if i found a girl i really loved, i wouldnt cheat, but if im just "with" a girl, then im prolly gonna cheat on her....but its not cause i dont care, its just cuz i love what woman got...and i wouldnt jump anything that looked HALF good in the dark, she'd half to look FULL good in the light, lol.

-John

[Naina]

hahaha, well good to know you at least have some standards ;-)

Standards are for those who are not ugly. Therefore, according to solkern i have no standards. :(

[Weedmage Princess]

John how would you feel if you found "the one" who you loved more than anything and never cheated on...was cheating on you cause to her you were just someone to pass the time with and scratch her itch whenever it needed scratching?

I know you, I know you wouldn't be thrilled..heh. Same difference. Like Naina said, atleast let the girl know. Cheating is for scum, and they deserve whatever they get. Hopefully some slow, painful degenerative genitalia disease that causes 1/4th inch thick crust on their underwear and a horrid odor.

[Stacey]

Originally posted by Naina
Ahhh, it's more like cheating on your family, you can be damn sure by the girlfriends reaction that he neglected to mention his kids to her too - if they mean that little to him, he prolly had it comin!

I don't think you should even mix a man cheating on his wife and him cheating on his kids in the same bowl.
Don't get me wrong, I am married to my soul mate and couldn't think of anything worse. I just don't think your should mix the relationship a man has with his wife with the one he has with his kids. Children need a father as well as a mother. No matter if they are together.

Stacey

[Caramia]

Originally posted by Stacey
I don't think you should even mix a man cheating on his wife and him cheating on his kids in the same bowl.
Don't get me wrong, I am married to my soul mate and couldn't think of anything worse. I just don't think your should mix the relationship a man has with his wife with the one he has with his kids. Children need a father as well as a mother. No matter if they are together.

Stacey

But a marriage DOES mix it. You're a family unit, not two entities that happen to live together.

[Ravenstorm]

I believe the point is that you can still be devoted to your kids while not being devoted to your spouse and the two should not be confused.

That being said, a person should just get divorced or work on solving the problem that's spurring on the cheating in the first place instead of going out and getting it on with someone else. Of course, if it were that easy, the divorce rate would be lower.

In any case, care needs to be taken not to punish the kids when punishing the cheater.

Raven

[Stacey]

Having been a child of divorce, I can alway look back as an adult and be happy that my parent's didn't add there problem's to my relationship with them. I am sure that my parents were unhappy.(My father had a daughter the same age as my mother's youngest) But I never had a clue as a child and think that added to the respect and love that I have for him now. Children DO NOT need to be involved in problems that their mom and dad have with each other. It's two different relationships.

Stacey

[Edited on 1-3-2004 by Stacey]

[Caramia]

Sure people who put their children first probably won't involve them in the mess they made, but then if people put their children first to begin with, as well as their marriage vows and the person they married, then hopefully there would be no mess to clean up.

If think that if you haven't got the will power and can't resist the temptation, you shouldn't make the committment.

I too will credit my parents for trying to get along and not involving us during the divorce, but children are affected by it. I wish my folks had learned how to communicate and tried to work things out with professional help, or at least gotten divorced when they realized they were unhappy. Kids do know when there is a problem, you can only protect them so much.

[Edited on 1-3-2004 by Caramia]

[Emislity]

cheating is for the weak

Hey John, how are you hon?

Emislity

[The Cat In The Hat]

Originally posted by RangerD1
I wish i could cheat, but i'm too ugly to have girls even talk to me.

No you're not STFU

Cat

[Caiylania]

I have a question..... if you had two friends who were married to each other and one cheated on the other..... would you tell them to fess up or you will? Or act like it never happened?

[HarmNone]

I would never interfere in someone else's relationship. To do so never works out the way you intend. I would probably tell the cheating party that I was disappointed in their behavior and would not feel comfortable with considering them a close friend anymore, but I would not take it upon myself to bring the infidelity to the attention of the betrayed party. :)

HarmNone

[Caiylania]

I'm torn over it..... I mean, I would want to know, I would have a right to know and would be hurt to find out someone knew and didn't tell me.

[HarmNone]

Your feelings correlate with those of most people who are confronted with this dilemma. However, time has proven that to interfere is the worst thing you can do. What usually ends up happening is that both parties turn on YOU. Believe me, I have seen it happen more than once. To interfere in another person's relationship is to walk on very unsteady ground.

We all believe we would want to know if this happened to us. Perhaps we would, but the knowing would bring unimaginable pain to most people. What happens then is that the hurt person turns on the person that brought the pain to them instead of the person that causes the pain in the first place. It is a self-protective mechanism.

Sometimes, the damage done can be repaired at a later date, when everything is sorted out and the pain has dissipated. Many times, the friendship is ended forever.:(

HarmNone

[Caiylania]

But the consequences of doing nothing is that the one betrayed goes on believeing everything is ok and the cheater is never punished and will perhaps continue doing it.

Seems there is never an easy answer.

[HarmNone]

The cheater may, in fact, continue doing it. On the other hand, this may have been a one-time error in judgement. We cannot say, at this point.

If the cheater continues this behavior, it will come out eventually. It always does.

HarmNone

Originally posted by The Cat In The Hat

Originally posted by RangerD1
I wish i could cheat, but i'm too ugly to have girls even talk to me.

No you're not STFU

Cat

Have you seen the glasses?

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[Suppa Hobbit Mage]

Most of the time, the person being cheated on knows or has at the very least an inkling that its happening. He/She is just in denial that the person they love could be doing this. I know, speaking from experience.

Cheaters should burn in hell. Grow some balls and say you want to end the relationship, rather than create drama for 2, maybe more, people. I just don't understand why people can't be honest with one another, rather than play mind games.

[The Cat In The Hat]

Originally posted by RangerD1

Originally posted by The Cat In The Hat

Originally posted by RangerD1
I wish i could cheat, but i'm too ugly to have girls even talk to me.

No you're not STFU

Cat

Have you seen the glasses?

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Um.. yeah, I see your pic every time you post, glasses arent you they dont make a person ugly.

Cat