Dating. [Archive] - The Gemstone IV Players' Corner

Vestarr

09-23-2005, 10:24 AM

Originally posted by GS3 Michiko
Not worth your time.

:yeahthat:

Dammit Warriorbird jumpin between me an Michiko like that lol

[Edited on 9-23-2005 by Vestarr]

Snapp

09-23-2005, 10:25 AM

Been there, done that. Agree with Michi.

4a6c1

09-23-2005, 10:25 AM

If hes hot fake it.

Jenisi

09-23-2005, 10:27 AM

Haha. I have no interest in dating him. Basically we had a long debate. I think it's more about respect and understanding. And also, denying the exsistance of Jesus doesn't deny the exsistance of god.

[Edited on 9-23-2005 by Jenisi]

Sean of the Thread

09-23-2005, 10:35 AM

Praise Allah.

Brattt8525

09-23-2005, 10:45 AM

I don't think saying someone who feels this way isn't worth your time. Everyone has to believe in something right? and in a relationship if both people do not have similar beliefs and stances on life then how the hell will it work?

Then again you can always settle for the upstanding moral guy pounding his manhood into a piss soaked lipstick smeared woman with no self respect? :roll:

Hulkein

09-23-2005, 10:53 AM

I know a Jewish girl who won't date non-Jews... It's a little over the top for me, but in their right.

Wezas

09-23-2005, 10:54 AM

Tell him you could do things to him to make him say the lords name in vain.

Warriorbird

09-23-2005, 10:55 AM

I don't think saying someone who feels this way isn't worth your time. Everyone has to believe in something right? and in a relationship if both people do not have similar beliefs and stances on life then how the hell will it work?

If she doesn't feel the same way you just answered your own question.

Brattt8525

09-23-2005, 10:56 AM

Originally posted by Wezas
Tell him you could do things to him to make him say the lords name in vain.

So wrong and I am going to hell for laughing at that. :lol:

Tromp

09-23-2005, 10:56 AM

Originally posted by Jenisi
I met a guy that won't date a girl that doesn't believe in Jesus.

Whatcha think about it?!

One word... PUMAS!

Jayvn

09-23-2005, 11:04 AM

You really don't want to date someone that fanatical about their religion unless you are as well.. It just leads to worse things down the road like only hearing gospel music being played in the house instead of your Devil's music, and going to church 8 times a week and things of this nature. Better to leave him to his own breed. All religions are right, and all are wrong.. I personally would rather go to Valhalla when I died.

CrystalTears

09-23-2005, 11:10 AM

Considering that you'd probably dump him during the holidays if he isn't committed enough by then, I wouldn't ruin his favorite time of year. :P

On a serious note, if you don't believe in Jesus, move along. I don't see what the problem is.

Miss X

09-23-2005, 11:13 AM

I don't really like dating short guys... He doesn't really like dating girls who don't believe in Jesus... No big deal really. We all have the right to like what we like. If faith is important to him, then thats great! I hope he finds himself a nice girl. :)

iomelindi

09-23-2005, 11:29 AM

I know dating someone for their religious (or not so much) beliefs is very common. I don't know...my opinion is that it shouldn't matter unless their religion directly conflicts with your life (such as they have 40 wives and sacrafice small children). Here is where the catholic belief comes in. "Love everyone except....(insert list here)"

Jolena

09-23-2005, 11:31 AM

Originally posted by iomelindi
my opinion is that it shouldn't matter unless their religion directly conflicts with your life (such as they have 40 wives and sacrafice small children).

:lol: that's Jihna/Robeeen's perfect mate!

Wezas

09-23-2005, 11:31 AM

It could become a problem further down the line, which is I'm sure what he's thinking of.

Or maybe he's just looking for an easy out.

CrystalTears

09-23-2005, 11:49 AM

I don't blame him for stating it. If he's Christian and wants to get married and raise children believing in Jesus and Christianity, it's very important. I couldn't imagine being with someone who didn't believe in God at least. Religion is important to some people. Nothing wrong in that. There are plenty of people in this world who aren't to choose from.

ElanthianSiren

09-23-2005, 11:50 AM

I'd never get involved with him, but then, while I believe that Jesus existed and was an incredible guy all around, I'm an agnostic basically. I know full well any guy with an organized religion agenda and I would clash... and it would sound like knives slicing across one another or nails on a chalkboard.

See though, as others mention, it's a personal preference. I don't like tall guys, and I don't like blondes. Same difference.

-M

4a6c1

09-23-2005, 12:13 PM

Originally posted by Jolena

Originally posted by iomelindi
my opinion is that it shouldn't matter unless their religion directly conflicts with your life (such as they have 40 wives and sacrafice small children).

:lol: that's Jihna/Robeeen's perfect mate!

Is it so much to ask? All I want is a fucking psycho who can DOMPWN me for like...EVER and let me have my women too.

:-X :D :-X

ps. We require updates on this blossoming jesus freak relationship Jenisi.

Suppa Hobbit Mage

09-23-2005, 12:32 PM

I don't see how that's any different that say...

I won't date a woman who beats her children
I won't date a woman who talks like a slut all the time.
I won't date a woman who only thinks of herself.
I won't date a woman who worships Satan.
I won't date a woman who is blind.
I won't date a woman who won't blow me.
I won't date a woman who is disfigured.
I won't date a woman who fucked X.
I won't date a woman who rides a bus.
I won't date a woman who has small titties.

ETC, ETC, ETC. Is it a big deal to you because it is religious? Does he pound Bibles all day and tell people how wrong they are, or does he just not want to date someone who doesn't believe in Jesus? There's a big difference I think.

ps - all my examples were just shit I was making up, not the folks I won't date :)

Miss X

09-23-2005, 12:37 PM

He was SO not making those up. ;)

Hips

09-23-2005, 12:57 PM

Originally posted by Miss X
He was SO not making those up. ;)

Especially #6

Sylvan Dreams

09-23-2005, 02:47 PM

Originally posted by Jenisi
I met a guy that won't date a girl that doesn't believe in Jesus.

Whatcha think about it?!

Religion, or lack thereof, can be a big deal breaker in a relationship. IMO, if you don't share the same views or can't accept that your partner has different views, you don't belong together.

DeV

09-23-2005, 04:32 PM

Originally posted by Miss X
No big deal really. Agreed.

Drew

09-23-2005, 05:34 PM

I wouldn't date a non-Chrisitian girl personally, I've done it before and it's just led to problems. Everyone has their requirements, I couldn't date a really liberal girl either, even the apathetic ones get on my nerves, but I can at least tolerate that.

Terminator X

09-23-2005, 05:47 PM

Originally posted by Jenisi
I met a guy that won't date a girl that doesn't believe in Jesus.

Whatcha think about it?!

I would never, ever do more than just briefly mention anything political/religious with a girl that I'm dating unless I am 100% certain that we're on the same page, politically/religiously, with a lot of things.

If I'm interested in a girl and she is already hopping into political/religious psycho-babble and I've talked to her, say, once... on the phone... then I usually employ some kind of tactiful retreat before ever entering the warzone :shrug:

HarmNone

09-23-2005, 05:48 PM

If you feel strongly about a subject, whether it be religion or how your hamburger should be prepared, it's probably a pretty good idea to cultivate relationships with those who agree with your point of view. Otherwise, there are going to be problems down the road. That's probably what this guy is thinking of.

If he dates a girl who doesn't believe in Jesus, and his belief is strong, he runs the risk of allowing the relationship to go too far before he finds out there's a deal-breaker lurking in the wings. Better to state the deal-breakers up front than find yourself hung up on someone with whom you know you could never maintain anything long-term.

Tsa`ah

09-24-2005, 03:35 AM

Originally posted by Jenisi
I met a guy that won't date a girl that doesn't believe in Jesus.

Whatcha think about it?!

Heh ...

Narrow minded a controlling.

He won't tollerate a woman that challenges his theological beliefs no matter how inept he is at justifying them.

While it's fine to have criterea for potential life mates, I believe that theological criterea more than brushes against the borders of healthy.

In Judaism it's simply tradition, but it doesn't really make much of a difference if it's a christian, jew, muslim or anything else, the end result is the same ... breeding and perpetuating, to some degree, intolerance.

Drew

09-24-2005, 06:49 AM

Originally posted by HarmNone
Better to state the deal-breakers up front than find yourself hung up on someone with whom you know you could never maintain anything long-term.

Yeah, but what if they are really really really really hott?

HarmNone

09-24-2005, 06:51 AM

Heh. Think of them 20 years down the road, hon. That should help. :D

Drew

09-24-2005, 06:53 AM

Well I was thinking long term = 2 to 3 months.

HarmNone

09-24-2005, 06:54 AM

I sorta figured you were. I don't think Jenisi's subject is thinking that way, however. In your case, carry on! :lol:

Drew

09-24-2005, 06:55 AM

As long as you're cool with it.

Lord Dainslef

09-24-2005, 07:00 AM

I won't date a woman that is trying or will try to kill me. That's a biggie for me.
I do have to agree with the fact that while you want someone to agree with you most of the time on most things it is nice to have a person that will think of things a little different than you.

[Edited on 9-24-2005 by Lord Dainslef]

Ilvane

09-24-2005, 07:01 AM

I met some nice guys from when I went to church, but they always seemed to be wilder than the guys I didn't meet at church.

It's odd, but seems to be a pattern.

-A

Tei

09-24-2005, 07:36 AM

Is his name Matt?

http://www.flirttoconvert.com/

http://datetosave.com/

ranticore

09-24-2005, 10:58 AM

Originally posted by Jenisi
I met a guy that won't date a girl that doesn't believe in Jesus.

Whatcha think about it?!

I met this nutcase chick who thinks that people on a forum about gemstone give a fuck about her life. Yeah, she's a fucking retard.

Jenisi

09-24-2005, 12:37 PM

I guess I wouldn't wanna be with somone that agree's with me 24/7. My best friend and I have completely different views on tons of things (religion included) but we get along wonderfully and have for years.

Apotheosis

09-24-2005, 12:56 PM

Originally posted by Tei
Is his name Matt?

http://www.flirttoconvert.com/

http://datetosave.com/

I don't believe this.

:gawk:

Oh.... my..........god

Just when I thought the internet could not get more amusing....... that has to show itself.

Tsa`ah

09-24-2005, 01:17 PM

Originally posted by ranticore
I met this nutcase chick who thinks that people on a forum about gemstone give a fuck about her life. Yeah, she's a fucking retard.

You sound like a pissed of ex that got dumped because not only did he have a small white penis, but suffered from chronic premature ejaculation.

It'll be ok little guy, one day you'll meet a midget that thinks you're huge!