Is it bad to..

[kheldarin]

Start off a relationship with sex?

I'm in one right now, it's weird.

[SpunGirl]

Nah. I mean, I slept with my husband three weeks after I met him. But we took a lot of time to get to know each other besides just sex, too.

If a relationship won't work in the long run, starting it off/not starting it off with sex won't make a difference.

-K

[Bobmuhthol]

Three weeks is hardly "starting off with sex."

Three weeks? You've got to be fucking kidding me if you think that's "starting it out"

- Arkans

[Back]

Any good relationship I have been in, I knew the girl for at least a few weeks beforehand. I do not respect chicks who sleep with you on the first night. I don’t turn them down either.

[Edaarin]

Originally posted by Bobmuhthol
Three weeks is hardly "starting off with sex."

Must...resist...obvious bait...

[SpunGirl]

Originally posted by Arkans
Three weeks? You've got to be fucking kidding me if you think that's "starting it out"

- Arkans

I guess you're right. But I've never made a habit of just fucking whoever, I've never slept with someone only once, and for me, that was fast. He thinks I made him wait.

-K

[DeV]

It's not bad at all, but it also depends on what you expect to get out of the relationship in the short or long run.

If the physical relationship is fufilling, then you are off to a good start already. And if that's all the relationship is really encompassing for the time being, and you aren't asking for anything more and neither is she, I'd let it ride.

[kheldarin]

Yeah, it's more of a "fun" relationship right now..nothing too serious.

[Brattt8525]

Sex and fun is always a good combination, don't look a gift horse in the mouth.:duh:

[Terminator X]

all I know is I was listening to my Will Smith CD
and that it's really scary when the other party has the notion that they are in a "relationship" after a one-night boning :(