Ceated on.

[Varsus]

Ok, don't take this as me just bashing on some poor girl, but I would like to know (if your willing to cop up) if... in a relationship you either cheated, or were cheated on by your partner?

Over the last 6 months I have been dating this girl (not anymore, you will see why). It was the typical sob story that got her into my house... I just lost my job, can't pay rent... so I let her move in.

Over the past 6 months we had a solid (ya i must be friggin blind) relationship. We both (well I did) had fealings for each other ect...

Anyways... 6 months... Her... Me... and the 9-12 other guys she was sleeping with.

Ya that pritty much sums it up. She was living with me, sleeping with me, I was supporting her. And she was getting all the fun she wanted on the side while I was at work.

Now sure maybe she was unhappy... but no!

She admits that I treated her good and that she loved being with me... yet she had to go sleep with all these guys on the side... (the one that really gets to me is the guy who was paying her in cash and clothing from his nice store in exchange for sex)

Anyways... WTF is this normal? Ill admit Im no novice to the whole dating scene. but GEEZE


ok.. that was me venting.

-Varsus

PS didn't spend any time checking the spelling so don't bother pointing it out because I don't care.

[peam]

Man, that's rough. Sorry to hear about the juke.

I don't really have any advice because I've never been in the situation, but I would suggest on giving her the boot.

[GS4Gurl]

Damn that is horrible. It's too bad that people like that give us good women a bad name. Not all women are like that. No it isn't at all normal.

[Varsus]

Oh trust me, she got booted, her and all her junk at 10 pm in the lawn

-Varsus

[peam]

Originally posted by Varsus
Oh trust me, she got booted, her and all her junk at 10 pm in the lawn

-Varsus

:lol: Money.

[Varsus]

BTW, just noticed the title of this post is Ceated on, that should be Cheated on... im just tired, heh

-Varsus

[Weedmage Princess]

Really sorry to hear about that, Varsus. It always sucks when you really loved/cared about the person and they do something scummy like that to you (been there)...it happens to everyone at some point...the shitheads are found in both genders. But like GS4Gurl said, there are good ones out there. You just gotta sift through the garbage to get to them.

What goes around comes around though, hopefully the next time you see her, you'll have some great chick on your arm and she'll be walking out the free clinic with some penicillin and lots of sores. ;)

[Solkern]

I really can't say or give my opinion on any of this since, I've never cheated or been cheated on. but That is not normal. She is a material girl, and she'll do what ever she can to get the material items she wants.
she's also a scandalous two-faced slut.
move on, youi'll find a decent girl sooner or later

[More Lean]

you should kill her

[longshot]

Was it all in your bed?

Burn the sheets, man!!

[Suppa Hobbit Mage]

I'd have moved her shit out to the street as soon as I found out. Let the whore find another place to shag.

Change your locks btw, and take account of your valuables. Anyone who is so deceptive as you claim she was, is likely to clean you out while you are at work too.

[Artha]

That really sucks. You should definately have the locks changed, and anything of hers you still have, just leave it on the front porch or in front of your door. Don't destroy it though, as you ARE liable for it if you do.

[StrayRogue]

Dude, women are bitches m'kay. I know the feeling my friend, but I also feel its something everyone has to live through atleast once. Time is the greatest healer.

[DCSL]

Men are equally as bad, so don't fall back on Stay's "Women are bitches"... it's a human thing, not a female thing. Every last man I've dated from high school on up cheated on me 'cept the one I'm with now and the one before that.

And yeah, I have pretty strong feelings on cheating too. I won't ever date someone who has cheated on another person before, even if I was in no way involved in it. I will also not help anyone else cheat. I won't cover for them, et cetera, ANYTHING. It's wrong, it's hurtful, and it should be punished.

Heh, yeah, I have strong feelings of retribution, too... That bitch will get hers, believe me. If she doesn't get it from you, she'll get it from some one down the line. Probably get pulled on to Jerry Springer's "Daaaaymn my bitch is loose!" show.

[Snapp]

Cheaters always get theirs in the end. I would just chalk the whole thing up as a learning experience.. and be thankful you didn't have a marriage and/or children involved.

<<Probably get pulled on to Jerry Springer's "Daaaaymn my bitch is loose!" show. >>

Just had to say that's hilarious! :lol:

[Ravenstorm]

Originally posted by Artha
That really sucks. You should definately have the locks changed, and anything of hers you still have, just leave it on the front porch or in front of your door. Don't destroy it though, as you ARE liable for it if you do.

partially wrong. You are still liable for it if you leave it in a public location and it gets stolen. Give her the opportunity to take whatever is hers from out of the apartment and get her to sign a statement stating that she has taken everything she intends owns and wants. Alternatively, if she won't sign, get a tape recording of you asking her and her answer.

Raven

[Betheny]

I bet you in a month she'll be 'pregnant' and the kid will 'definetely' be yours.

[Tendarian]

I dont get why so many people cheat. Maybe im naive and lazy but wouldnt it be easier just to break up with em and then go off with the new stud or whatever?

<<I know the feeling my friend, but I also feel its something everyone has to live through atleast once.>>

Ill be very happy to never go through this and wont feel like im missing out on a life experience :)