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Apotheosis
04-27-2005, 07:10 PM
http://www.freep.com/news/locoak/rochester27e_20050427.htm


Cops say mom was stabbed 111 times

Prosecutor says son argued with her about gun, porn, girlfriend

April 27, 2005

BY FRANK WITSIL
FREE PRESS STAFF WRITER

An ongoing argument between a 15-year-old boy and his single mother about guns, porn and the teen's girlfriend may have led to a violent outburst sometime last weekend in which the son brutally killed his mom -- stabbing her 111 times, police said.

According to law enforcement officials, sometime before her death, Diane Michele took away the gun her son, a Rochester Hills high school freshman, apparently made out of PVC pipe to shoot marbles. She did not like that he played paintball. She found out he had been looking at porn.

The teenager, Christopher Dankovich, was arraigned Tuesday before 52-3 District Court Judge Nancy Carniak in Rochester Hills and charged with murder, accused of slashing his mother's body with a knife -- even poking her eyes. Police say he admitted to the killing. He is being held without bond in Children's Village, a juvenile detention facility in Pontiac.

If convicted, Dankovich could face life in prison.

To people who knew the 50-year-old victim, what is most shocking about her violent death is that Michele was a loving mom who constantly doted on her only son and often told them how he was her pride and joy.

A licensed professional counselor, Michele was a flamboyant woman, her friends said. She practiced holistic medicine and had an office off Woodward in Bloomfield Hills. She was a minister, and according to her Web site, she founded the HeartLight Metaphysical Ministry and offered her services at weddings, baptisms and funerals.

On the site, she referred to herself as a "Psychotherapist/Speaker/Teacher/Trainer/Minister." She taught classes on "Developing Your Intuition," "Starting Your Own Spiritual Path," "Near-Death Experiences," "Remote Viewing" and "Miracles."

Her Rochester Hills home was filled with inspirational sayings about love, police said. The license plate on her car was "LOVE4U." She dressed in flowing, colorful clothing and wore flashy jewelry, friends said. Purple was her favorite color, they said.

They said that the center of her world was her son.

"That son was the apple of her eye," said Sheila Becker of Birmingham, a friend of Michele who also is a psychologist. "She constantly told me she thanked God for her son because he was never on drugs or booze. They did everything together.

"She lived for that boy," Becker added. Law enforcement officials said the gruesome nature of the crime and the unclear motive for the violence troubles them. The boy, who according to neighbors and friends was quiet and "very nice," must have been filled with rage, police said."It's one of the most horrific crimes I've ever come across," Oakland County Prosecutor David Gorcyca said.

Dankovich was a good student at Rochester Adams High School, school officials said. He kept to himself and walked the dog when his mom asked, a neighbor said. He got along with other students and had friends, his peers said.

Exactly why the teen killed his mother is unclear, Gorcyca said.

"That's the million-dollar question," Gorcyca said. "What motivated a 15-year-old, who was otherwise a well-behaved child, to butcher his mom? This investigation is far from complete. There has to be something in this boy's background for him to commit such an angry crime."

Before her death, police said Michele took the PVC gun away and gave it to the boy's father, her ex-husband, James Dankovich.

James Dankovich, who police said lives in Troy and has cooperated fully with their investigation, declined to comment Tuesday. He was the one to tip off officials as to where his son might be after Michele's body was found early Monday.

That morning, police found Michele's body inside the front door of her two-story Rochester Hills home. She was lying facedown and covered in blood. Police found two knives at the house, one inside and one outside that was bloodstained.

Her son was gone.

Near the body were garbage bags full of paramilitary clothing that the boy probably wore to play paintball -- a game simulating war where people shoot paint pellets at each other, police said.

It is unclear, police said, whether the clothing was the source of an argument that precipitated the violence, or whether the teenager killed his mother and then got the clothes to take with him, when the teen fled in his mother's white minivan.

Later that afternoon, police found Dankovich at a family-owned cabin in St. Helen in Roscommon County.

According to Dr. Beth Ann Brooks, a child psychiatrist and professor of psychiatry at Wayne State University's School of Medicine, there are several possible explanations for the teen's shocking behavior, including drugs and alcohol, a feeling of being backed into a corner with no escape or resolution outside of killing or extreme emotional conflict that led to a psychotic impulse.

Conflict, humiliation, embarrassment or a discovery of behavior that would disappoint a parent "could prompt a child in a very close relationship to inflict harm on the parent," said Brooks, who also noted that such an outcome is rare.

Dankovich's attorney, Mitch Ribitwer, said Tuesday that all the reports he has seen indicate that Dankovich was a "nice young man" and it might be difficult to find a rational explanation for the allegations. "There may be some mental health issues here," he said.

He said Dankovich is due back in court May 17 for a preliminary exam.

Contact FRANK WITSIL at 248-351-3690 or witsil@freepress.com. Staff writer Marsha Low contributed to this report.

Apotheosis
04-27-2005, 07:12 PM
yes, i sense the irony

Shalla
04-27-2005, 07:25 PM
That is it, move out of Michi babe.

04-27-2005, 07:26 PM
I'm not moving to Rochester Hills,

Kyra
04-28-2005, 02:24 AM
Originally posted by Lady Shalla
That is it, move out of Michi babe.

This state is so screwed I've been saying that for years.. :D

K.

Apotheosis
04-28-2005, 02:28 AM
Originally posted by Kyra

Originally posted by Lady Shalla
That is it, move out of Michi babe.

This state is so screwed I've been saying that for years.. :D

K.

at least your on the OTHER SIDE so to speak, this is practically (45 min away) my back yard!!!

Fallen
04-28-2005, 07:43 AM
Jesus christ, I have family there.

Syberus
04-28-2005, 12:22 PM
Don't take their porn I guess and things will be cool.... christ

DeV
04-28-2005, 12:26 PM
She probably smothered him to death and apparently he wanted to return the favor, fatally.

Apotheosis
04-28-2005, 12:35 PM
Originally posted by DeV
She probably smothered him to death and apparently he wanted to return the favor, fatally.

That's what I think.

SnatchWrangler
04-28-2005, 12:37 PM
I'm betting the mother was an overprotective, smothering, lunatic, and the son who was probably a bit unstable to begin with, just mentally snapped.

Notice it's all of her friend's saying she was a loving mother, 'passionate', caring, colorful clothing and flashy jewelry, etc. Teenagers probably viewed her as a nutcase.

CrystalTears
04-28-2005, 12:39 PM
Geez, plenty of people felt their mother was a nutcase (I know I sure did), doesn't mean you have to kill them.

The Korean
04-28-2005, 12:51 PM
I just cut my mother completely out of my life after she kicked me out. Dropped a lot of stress she was giving me. No regrets here.

DeV
04-28-2005, 12:54 PM
Originally posted by CrystalTears
Geez, plenty of people felt their mother was a nutcase (I know I sure did), doesn't mean you have to kill them. Sure doesn't. But, if you study most(a majority of) individuals who are spree killers, serial killers, or those who committ crimes of passion where a mother is murdered by her child in a fashion such as this, usually the MAIN focus of them doing something so horrific are mothers who smother/dote/display excessive affection/exhibit emotional unstability/mental illness and so on. It's definitely not an excuse though.

Doyle Hargraves
04-28-2005, 04:16 PM
Reason #8,936,767 to not have kids.

YancyDC
04-28-2005, 04:25 PM
Children's Village? That's a fucked up name for a juvie center. Euphemism much?

Apotheosis
04-28-2005, 04:27 PM
All I can say is Michigan is Fux0r3d..

Someone please get me out!!!!!!!111!!!12!!!

Jenisi
04-28-2005, 07:09 PM
*sigh of relief* Just south of the border ;p

Hips
04-28-2005, 07:55 PM
I can't help but wonder what she did that he stabbed her 111 times. It seems like overkill.

And to think my boyfriend wants us to move to Michigan to be near his family after he gets out of the Air Force... no thanks.

Brattt8525
04-28-2005, 08:17 PM
I can't help but wonder what she did that he stabbed her 111 times. It seems like overkill.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Ahh it is the mothers fault he stabbed her 111 times

So if you don't pay attention to your child your a bad mother, if you do then you deserve to be killed by them. Gotcha

Artha
04-28-2005, 08:19 PM
So if you don't pay attention to your child your a bad mother, if you do then you deserve to be killed by them.
You're half right.

Mother sounds like a nutcase, but I doubt she deserved death.

Bobmuhthol
04-28-2005, 08:20 PM
Actually, nobody said that at all, and it was obviously something the mother did. Did he stab anyone else 111 times? You don't hate someone without them doing something to deserve it.

Skirmisher
04-28-2005, 08:40 PM
Originally posted by Bobmuhthol
Actually, nobody said that at all, and it was obviously something the mother did. Did he stab anyone else 111 times? You don't hate someone without them doing something to deserve it.

Um, sure you do.

It's called being crazy.

Hips
04-28-2005, 08:59 PM
Originally posted by Brattt8525
I can't help but wonder what she did that he stabbed her 111 times. It seems like overkill.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Ahh it is the mothers fault he stabbed her 111 times

So if you don't pay attention to your child your a bad mother, if you do then you deserve to be killed by them. Gotcha

That's not what I meant at all, but thanks for jumping on my case and interpreting it as me saying that the mother deserved to be killed. :rolleyes:

What I meant, is that I wonder what she did that prompted him to feel the need to stab her not once, not twice, but 111 times.

[Edited on 4-29-2005 by GS3 Michiko]

Brattt8525
04-28-2005, 09:01 PM
The whole post was not directed at you Michiko and I wasn't jumping on your case.

I am surprised by the number of people thinking it was the mothers fault. My remark about the mother bad example was fitting for this thread, but not meant to be directed AT you.

[Edited on 4-29-2005 by Brattt8525]

Snapp
04-28-2005, 09:01 PM
There's no doubt on his crazy-level. Gotta be to do that to someone. The question is whether she provoked said crazy. Sick crime.. I can't imagine how someone can do that to their mother.

Brattt8525
04-28-2005, 09:03 PM
I cannot imagine what is wrong with the mind of anyone who would stab a person 111 times, jesus thats just off the scale period.

Shalla
04-29-2005, 12:30 AM
Originally posted by Yswithe
at least your on the OTHER SIDE so to speak, this is practically (45 min away) my back yard!!!

See? seee? seeeeeeeeeee? Just another, of many reasons why you should consider moving to you know where. ;) I'll take care of you, I promise :P

Anyways, stabbing? That is such the wrong way to get back at your over protective mother. Wha? I simply do what my over-protective mother wants me to do and THEN give her the silent treatment to feel her guilty and drive her crazy, and THEN get my way. :smilegrin:

Caiylania
04-29-2005, 09:26 AM
I can't count how many times my mother drove me crazy, but the idea of her being hurt at all, let alone ME hurting her, I can't stand.

I've heard of sexually abused kids doing this, but other than that, sounds like this boy lost it on the one person who probably loved him more than anyone else :(

Apotheosis
05-01-2005, 02:38 AM
Haven't been on the PC in a few days, so here's my final thoughts on this subject.

For all of the holistic/new age/crystal developing psychic intuiton, and psychological expertise of this woman, she sure failed to see that coming.

I think that, based on the way she was described, is the type of person who goes through life believing that "nothings wrong in the world", blah blah blah.

She failed to properly address the issues her son had, and as a result, in his frustration, he murdered her brutally.

I believe the parenting/disposition of this mother had a big role to play in the situation, and that mental health and drug issues the kid had played a role as well, but should not be considered the main reason of the event.