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Shari
12-26-2004, 09:54 PM
Yep, finally. Seven long years and now he finally popped the question. And he did it in such a great way.

So this whole month I've not been the least bit excited about Christmas. In fact, it was more of a chore for me to decorate the tree and put the lights on the house. I was so depressed about money for presents and stressed about grades I would periodically just sit on my couch and cry.

I had told my boyfriend the only thing I reeeeally wanted this year was a cheap digital camera to take snapshots on so I wasn't always having rolls of film laying around waiting for me to come up with the money to have them developed.

This last Monday he gets in a fight with me (intentionally to make me feel even shittier I later found out) about house dirty the house was and how lazy I've been.

So pretty much I was like "fuck it" this year, this is the shittiest Christmas ever, etc. And I was even more upset because as I sobbed about it to my parents and to my boyfriend they just didn't seem to care.

We made up the next day but still depressed Il drudge on through the week. Christmas morning arrives and while somewhat excited we sit down to open presents. I get to my second-to-last gift and its a memory card for a digital camera. Stoked, I rip into my last gift. YES!

So I'm freaking out and turning it on, messing with the settings and he says, "Scroll through the images..I was messing around with it after I bought it for you." (As it has one of those viewing screens on the back of it) So..I get a picture of our dog Rusty, our other dog, Bailey and then there's Scott, holding a sign....it reads "Will"

At this point I sorof freeze up cause I'm thinking "no way". Then I click to the next and he's holding a sign that says "You"

Now I was almost afraid to click the third, I was thinking "Is he serious, or is he just fucking with me, is he really going to ask me?" (Because he was so adamant about waiting till I finished school)

I click on the third one and it says "Marry". Well, that was it, I didn't even get to the one that says "Me!" because I just lost it and went into hysterics. I don't even remember coherently saying yes to him but he later said I did and I about choked him giving him a hug. I didn't even let go until he asked me if I wanted to see the ring he was holding in his hand for me.

Its stunning. Its a half carat solitare princess-cut in a traditional 4-prong setting in white gold. It has a lifetime warranty on it so if ANYTHING happens to the band or I lose/break the diamond I'm covered for no charge. And I can get it re-dipped whenever I like.

So yes, I have a fiancee, I'm so stoked, and it really hasn't hit me yet that I'm getting married...MARRIED. Wow, its freakish cause every now and then we call each other "fiancee" and it just freaks me out to no end.

Needless to say, this has been the best Christmas ever.


And I promise to post the ring when I get the chance.

12-26-2004, 09:58 PM
Better start hitting daddy up to pay for it.

Jorddyn
12-26-2004, 10:08 PM
Originally posted by Jesae
Yep, finally. Seven long years and now he finally popped the question. And he did it in such a great way.


Congratulations! And what an absolutely adorable way to do it :D

Jorddyn

crazymage
12-26-2004, 10:11 PM
Congrats:clap:

HarmNone
12-26-2004, 10:11 PM
Congratulations, sweetie! :)

12-26-2004, 10:15 PM
That's awesome.

Congratulations.

Chadj
12-26-2004, 10:38 PM
I guess that sorta lowers our chances, eh? :(


:P Congrats!:D

Snapp
12-26-2004, 11:04 PM
Congrats Jesae. What a cute way to propose too!

War Angel
12-26-2004, 11:09 PM
Congrats! What an awesome proposal! :)

Caiylania
12-26-2004, 11:22 PM
That is so great!! Congradulations and best wishes always to the both of you. Happy Holidays do happen. ;)

Ilvane
12-26-2004, 11:37 PM
Wow!!! Congratulations!!

:grin: That is the best Christmas Present!

-A

Souzy
12-27-2004, 02:43 AM
That is so sweet Jes. I'm happy that you're happy. It's memorable and now you can tell your kids how cute their daddy was.

Edited to make sense.

[Edited on 12-27-2004 by Lalana]

theotherjohn
12-27-2004, 02:46 AM
I am very happy for the both of you



[Edited on 12-27-2004 by theotherjohn]

Satira
12-27-2004, 03:40 AM
Congratulations! I want to see the ring.

Nakiro
12-27-2004, 07:00 AM
Congrats :) I'm sure the diamond is beautiful and I'm also very happy for you!

We should start a club now ';o)

theotherjohn
12-27-2004, 07:31 AM
Originally posted by Nakiro
We should start a club now ';o)

Im in the club. My girl and I have spoken of it.

She does not realize that we are going to elope when I return and get married in Vegas on Valentines Day

crazymage
12-27-2004, 09:04 AM
im going to take this time and officially propopse to Jessa!

Parkbandit
12-27-2004, 09:05 AM
Congrats Jes!

Poor Wezas.. he's going to be crushed. :(

Killer Kitten
12-27-2004, 10:07 AM
<<So yes, I have a fiancee, I'm so stoked, and it really hasn't hit me yet that I'm getting married...MARRIED. Wow, its freakish cause every now and then we call each other "fiancee" and it just freaks me out to no end.>>

What's even more fun is after marriage, when you start calling each other 'husband' and 'wife'.

Mike and I still do that and after 20 years of being 'wife' I still get a little warm feeling hearing that name from his lips.

Warmest congratulations! I wish you a lifetime of happiness together.

Kimm

Kainen
12-27-2004, 10:15 AM
Congradulations.. that was a unique and memorable way to propose.

Artha
12-27-2004, 10:38 AM
That's great, Jesae. Congrats.

DeV
12-27-2004, 10:46 AM
Congrats Jesae ... :up:

Shari
12-27-2004, 12:50 PM
Alright, finally got a somewhat decent shot. Its really hard to take a picture of a ring, on your hand, and have it sparkle the way it does. Oh well.

Jorddyn
12-27-2004, 12:58 PM
Originally posted by Jesae
Alright, finally got a somewhat decent shot. Its really hard to take a picture of a ring, on your hand, and have it sparkle the way it does. Oh well.

It's beautiful!

More importantly, what is that nail polish?

Jorddyn

Shari
12-27-2004, 01:02 PM
:rofl:

It's by OPI...um, copper something, it's in that Mini Melodys pack of 4 different colors. I had to make sure my nails looked nice as I was showing my hand off at our families huge ass christmas party every year.

Nakiro
12-27-2004, 03:44 PM
It looks identical to the one my fiance has so it must be of high quality :)

edit: changed girlfriend to fiance

[Edited on 12-27-2004 by Nakiro]

Sweets
12-27-2004, 04:09 PM
Congratulations! That was a great way to propose.

Methais
12-27-2004, 04:26 PM
<<so if ANYTHING happens to the band or I lose/break the diamond I'm covered for no charge>>

Keep that in mind next time you're hard up for some cash.

"I seem to have "ACCIDENTALLY" lost my diamond!"

"No problem, here's a new one!"

"I lost my diamond AGAIN!"

"Here you go."

"OMG I keep losing my diamond!"

Jorddyn
12-27-2004, 04:39 PM
Originally posted by Methais
<<so if ANYTHING happens to the band or I lose/break the diamond I'm covered for no charge>>

Keep that in mind next time you're hard up for some cash.


You're such a romantic.

"Cash in your priceless memory for half what you paid for it! It only costs your honor!"

:puke:

Jorddyn

Eiderfleur
12-27-2004, 04:41 PM
Congrats Jesae!!!

Pretty ring too.

Methais
12-27-2004, 05:01 PM
I never said cash it in. If she "lost" it, she doesn't have to give it to them to get a "replacement" :P

It's the American way!

Shari
12-27-2004, 05:02 PM
Hahaha, yeah right, Methais.

After I had stopped shaking and the ring was on my hand we were talking about all kinds of random stuff regarding ring buying, his fiasco in obtaining it, etc.

So at one point he says, "Yeah and if in 10 years you want me to get you a bigger stone they'll cash the diamond you have now to put towards a bigger one."

My response? "There's no way in hell that I'm going to give up the original diamond you used to propose to me with."

I won't be "accidentally" loosing it anytime soon. And I don't even want to think about if I really did loose it. :cry:

Toxicvixen
12-27-2004, 05:08 PM
That is the exact ring I want! Very Pretty, Congrats!

TheRoseLady
12-27-2004, 05:44 PM
Congrats hon! That is such a special way to propose. Don't forget to save those pictures and then get them printed off so you can add them to what will be your big engagement - pre wedding - wedding scrapbook thingie. :D

And the ring is gorgeous :thumbsup:

SpunGirl
12-27-2004, 11:29 PM
Congrats Jesae. Now begins the madness of planning a wedding, which is at the same time wonderful and terrible.

Good luck!

-K

Shari
12-28-2004, 12:26 AM
Hehe, I already have them saved on the computer, and on a disk (incase my comp crashes) and printed up hanging on the refridgerator until I can get a nice 4-print frame to put it in.

12-28-2004, 04:31 AM
Bling Bling!
http://forum.gsplayers.com/images/public/img-1104169816.jpg
Nice Ring!

Suppa Hobbit Mage
12-28-2004, 10:36 AM
Congratulations!

Wezas
12-28-2004, 11:23 AM
Originally posted by Parkbandit
Poor Wezas.. he's going to be crushed. :(

Just a speed bump.

Engagement is like promising to not open presents until Christmas day.

Broken easily by yours truely. :saint:

DCSL
12-29-2004, 02:16 AM
Holy crap!! That is so freaking awesome! Congratulations! I can't stop exclaiming! It's so cool! Eek!

Wezas
12-29-2004, 11:18 AM
Originally posted by Jesae
So at one point he says, "Yeah and if in 10 years you want me to get you a bigger stone they'll cash the diamond you have now to put towards a bigger one."

My response? "There's no way in hell that I'm going to give up the original diamond you used to propose to me with."


Tell him "In 10 years, I want it to be one of the sidestones for my ring".

See if that gets his attention.

Warriorbird
12-29-2004, 09:11 PM
Congratulations. It's a long road sometimes, but oh is it a fun one.

Soulpieced
12-29-2004, 09:19 PM
What women REALLY want on their fingers.

Darnell
12-29-2004, 09:22 PM
Originally posted by Soulpieced
What women REALLY want on their fingers.

If I could photoshop, I'd replace the stone with a picture of a man...or maybe just a picture of a man that's wrapped around the finger instead of the ring, but I'm too lazy to even try.

D

Edited to spell finger right, because my brain is roasted now....as a side note, if your surge protector that your computer is connected to caught on fire and burnt your rug, would you call Tech support and complain? Someone needs to slap people

[Edited on 12-30-2004 by Darnell]

[Edited on 12-30-2004 by Darnell]

Soulpieced
12-29-2004, 09:22 PM
Same concept.

Fengus
12-30-2004, 01:41 AM
So wait, wtf was this about bitching to you about cleaning the house and being lazy and that being intentional?

I don't do diamonds, I think they are boring to look at, I got my wife a fatty sapphire to signify her cold heart in a titanium band for her unyielding stubborness.

SpunGirl
12-30-2004, 02:17 AM
The nice thing about a decent-sized ring is that if your need to backhand someone with your left hand, the stones and prongs can really put a sting on it.

-K

Shari
12-30-2004, 02:27 AM
ROFL, Spun