Struggling with stats

[Winter]

No idea what to put where and or which stat I can tank for an Elven Empath, grace period runs out on the 9th. I normally tank constitution and influence on my other characters but those seem like a bad idea. I intend this Empath to be a bolter/wand user (not really a fan of CS spells and over training spell lists on any of my pures)

[Luscinia]

For an Elf Empath to eventually reach 100 in each stat, they would need be set at level 0 to:
STR 88 / CON 82 / DEX 73 / AGI 77 / DIS 73 / AUR 62 / LOG 62 / INT 73 / WIS 49 / INF 58
They can't all be set to those values since that would put you 37 points above the 660 total max, and only four stats instead of six can start above 70, so I would drop 3 points from DIS and tank INT.

For an empath that's actually fun to play at low levels you can also tank CON and raise WIS to 80+. You can make up for a low CON by overtraining physical fitness, and a high WIS lets you have reasonable CS with only 2x spells, plus mana and training points.

[Nephelem]

DIS and INT are ok to tank. I strongly advise against CON tanking. The natural padding benefits are nice and GoS empaths can absolutely break Stamina/Stamina Recovery mechanics with tripled PF and con/stamina enhancives.